Of all the natures that people are born with, loud and boisterous is probably one of the most difficult to hide. Whenever emotions run high, whether because of anger or happiness, people's voices and movements will be involuntarily enlarged, which is an unconscious instinctive reaction.
And this kind of clamor is not only reflected in the behavior, but also engraved in the heart.
This is actually normal, just as birds like to sing loudly and apes like to whistle loudly.
Only, when put into a crowded society, the noise tends to gravitate toward negative events.
When you think of war, the first thing that comes to mind is probably the hissing and explosions, followed by images.
Sound, more often than not, represents the transmission of a signal, and the louder and noisier it is, the more negative the message is likely to be.
The world is bustling with people coming and going, and the ordinary world is always noisy.
Where there are people, there are bound to be fights and conflicts, as small as the bargaining in the market, as big as the life and death of the shouting and killing, no matter where you are, the ears will always be filled with a variety of sounds.
But, after all, people are not lowly animals, too much animalism, is contrary to civilization.
And what makes a human being human is that we have a civilized nature that other creatures do not have.
What is essential to the development of society is the advancement of civilization, and the more civilization is developed, the less animalistic man becomes.
People who grow up in civilization tend to be quiet and introverted, and they don't need to express their emotions with lowly arguments and shouting, because it doesn't solve the problem at all at its root, and instead makes the situation worse.
It is also because of civilization that talents are divided into high and low, and this distinction is not class-based, it refers to ideas.
A truly noble person, whether from a poor or rich background, has a distinctive air of quietness and indifference.
This kind of noble is from the heart, not to say that must wear fancy clothes, wear expensive jewelry is called noble.
The material luxury and noble people equated, itself is vulgar, even if you can rely on wear to support a little "noble", but it is also outside the gold and jade in the defeat.
This is especially true for women.
Men who mention women, the first thing that comes to mind is probably a variety of nagging and chattering noise, think that the woman's mouth will never stop, than that of the monk's spell is even more difficult to bear.
It is also because of this stereotype that the saying "a woman is equal to 500 sparrows" came into being.
It's no wonder that others are biased, because from ancient times to modern times, women have always been oppressed, had no choice, no voice, and were even considered to be untalented.
When you have lost most of your choices, there is only one place left to vent all your emotions, and that is your mouth.
It's the same with men, it's not a gender thing, it's an environment thing.
Today, the times have changed, everyone is equal and free, have the right to choose what kind of person they want to be, whether noble or vulgar, are determined by their own efforts.
Women have gained everything they should have had, but the influence of the old days is still there, and noisy women are still everywhere, but most of them are older "mothers".
Square dancing is a nuisance to the people, shopping malls to loot things are they, the public **** transportation to grab a seat to beat people or they. I believe that every well-educated girl does not want to become such a "big mom" when she grows old.
Everyone wants to be noble and respected, and this is especially true for liberated women.
And most of the truly noble women are quiet. They do not need to use their voices to attract attention, and will not use more than one tongue to provoke disputes, off-beat and independent, elegant and calm.
Noble women, no matter what kind of clothes they wear, what kind of hairstyle, will not affect their own temperament, they also do not need to put more attention to the appearance, just neat and decent, do not try to gorgeous dazzling.
Black cloth wrapped career, the belly has poetry from the gas.
People's temperament is from the inside out, not by looks, not by mouth.
Noble people, just need to stand there, you can form a unique aura, which is like a protective cover, wherever she goes, are independent of the surrounding environment, graceful and independent, out of the mud without dyeing, Maundy and not demon.
Such a woman, with the noise and clamor has nothing to do with, looking at her, you can not help but lower their voices, and even feel ashamed of their own noise.
In fact, gentleness and kindness are far more powerful than nagging and blaming, and calmness and thinking are far more useful than screaming and shouting.
Women, the most rare quality is not pretty looks, but quiet and calm.
In fact, a person has no sense, and finally be able to grow what mold, does not lie in the voice of the high and low.
In fact, the volume does not prove anything, truly noble women, most of them are quiet.
In the case of unfair treatment, they will fight with silence.
When they have something that others don't have, they will not loudly proclaim to show off, but silently cherish.
They don't fight, they don't argue, they don't make a fuss, they just live their own lives, move towards their set goals, step by step, and finally live in a way that everyone envies.