When we know that dad always doesn't go home and mom loses her temper, first of all, we need to know why dad doesn't go home, because he is busy with work or has other things. Only by finding out the reason can we judge whether it is dad's fault or mom's temper, and we can be a better intercessor.
Otherwise, without knowing the situation, it is difficult to convince who is right and who is wrong, and sometimes it will only intensify contradictions. When exhorting, we should also pay attention to methods, be emotional and rational.
I've had this experience before. My father never goes home, so my mother often scolds my father, and then they often quarrel. At first, I didn't know how to persuade him. Later I observed what my father was busy with every day. Besides going to work, he also takes part in social activities. Sometimes he comes home for dinner very late, and he is very tired when he gets home.
Several times he didn't come home because his friend got married, and he and his friend were drunk and didn't come back. After I knew it, I went to my father and told him that it is the most important thing to have a rest and pay attention to my health no matter how hard I work. No matter how busy he is at night, I hope he can go home. When I got home, I felt safe, and so did my mother. Although what I said is very ordinary, my father smiled and touched my head and said, I have grown up and I will definitely go home on time every day.
At the same time, I told my mother to know more about my father, care more about him, and not always give him a bad face. Harmony and happiness are what I want most. My mother loves me very much, and of course her temper has changed a lot. My persuasion is actually very insignificant, but my parents care about me very much, so they care more about my thoughts. For me, they are changing, too.
Later, I gradually discovered that my father can go home on time every day. When I get home, he will accompany me to do my homework and take the initiative to coach me. My mother was also very pleased to see my father's intentions. There are fewer and fewer quarrels at home, and more happy smiles.