In the last 40 years, the dense transportation network, the development of high-speed rail so that the physical distance between people is greatly reduced, and now are talking about big data analysis, big data tells us that China's GDP has been a continuous and steady growth, high-speed economic growth, the quality of people's material life to the naked eye to see the changes in the constant improvement; at the same time, the rapid expansion of e-commerce, when most people saw Alibaba Just founded, thought it is simply a nightmare, did not see the face of the seller, did not see the physical, how can I go to buy physical, today, those who were not optimistic about Taobao is afraid that they have just finished chopping their own hands in the double eleven for Taobao turnover refreshing contribution to their own meager efforts.
From the super classroom there is a practice survey on double eleven college students have chopped hands, background statistics I can not see, but only from our classroom dormitory 100% participation, the results at a glance. I remember the beginning of contact with Taobao, my mom are, don't buy things online, and can't touch things, are fake. Now a significant part of our WeChat exchanges are, hey, daughter, you buy a mom this and that, as small as toilet paper, as big as the wallpaper in the house, are the father of Ma Yun single-handedly.
The popular saying - once upon a time the car and horse were very slow, the letter was very slow, a lifetime is only enough to love a person.
I don't know what the situation is at your home, at the table during dinner now. Elementary school as well as junior high school, when the smartphone is not so developed, I eat more will watch cartoons will be my father bear a meal, even if the beginning of contact with the smartphone, I a at the table to pull the cell phone must be parents at the same time a storm - what to eat did not eat kind, eat to concentrate on eating. Obviously, after they were introduced to smartphones, these rules and regulations for me alone were not binding on them. The current situation is that they are eating while watching videos and news, and I'm over there alone, concentrating on communicating with each dish.
Perhaps this is a common communication situation for families in today's society, where physical distances have been narrowed, and the speed with which we quickly access the vast amount of information we don't need from the Internet is gradually drowning out the physical presence around us. This change must also be said to reflect the current stage of society is widely filled with people between the impetuous atmosphere.
The upper construction determines the economic foundation.
Try to ask ask, now your family is in charge of the spoon mom or dad, or ask, you are 20 years old adults, will cook? Our family, my mother is committed to cultivate my independence, so deliberately forced me to learn to cook, compared to classmates home, but their parents rarely feel that the girl must be able to cook how, on the contrary, I see around the male students in the matter of cooking to find a balance of exertion.
With this match, an ancient problem - the concept of patriarchy is also in the social equality of the enlightenment of the gradual glorification. The so-called male dominant female dominant, is no longer a fixed theory. In the past, our family's dinner was basically made by mom, and then mom worked for a period of time, the burden of cooking was rightfully handed over to dad's shoulders, and there was no weirdness about it.
Along with these ideological advances, the winds of freedom and equality are blowing in full force, and I don't have any feelings about the increase in wages and salaries, but the most frequent complaint I hear from my mom is that I didn't buy anything on the street today for a couple hundred bucks and I'm out of it. This means that the prices of goods on the market have risen in the past few years. When I was in elementary school, I felt that 5 dollars can be good to eat a meal in the cafeteria, in entering high school, followed by college, it can be said that the level of consumption of life continues to increase, which has the influence of the environment, and more importantly, is the overall expansion of the entire Chinese market.
We all know Engel's coefficient, in 2005, the family is still busy preparing for the New Year's Eve, before the 30th of the year, a buy buy good next year after all the vegetables. This year again go to the supermarket to prepare for the New Year's Eve, although it will also be sold meat hoarding refrigerator, compared to the past, the purchase of fresh fruits and vegetables or to maintain the same habit as usual. The same reaction at the table, there will not be everyone's image of New Year's Eve are big fish and meat, now pay attention to healthy living, pay attention to a balanced diet. The Engel coefficient has been lowered, and more money has been allocated to education, health, entertainment, and investment.
When it comes to legal holidays, the most headache than traffic congestion, in the material base to meet the conditions, the family will often arrange a mental relaxation of collective activities, such as travel, now popular to travel to Thailand, we are not only confined to the requirements of the sensory experience of the domestic, the fresh and exotic experience is more appealing.
Now everyone is in the health. I have to say that this is a big social trend, square dance has become synonymous with big moms, housewives in addition to washing the calendars more discretion, but also know more about the way of health. My mom now cooks rice will be sprinkled with a handful of beans in the rice, pay attention to less oil and less salt, coarse food with. After eating the TV program list also changed into a piece of out of the pressure of the road. Generally speaking, the energy, time and money invested in self-cultivation and health exercises have improved significantly. Plus, every year there are government-organized health checkups, and the social healthcare system is becoming more and more humane and scientific.
When I was in elementary school, there was a stereotype that boys were good at science and girls were good at literature. The boys were more successful than the girls. This has led me as a girl to harbor a certain fear of math. And has been worried that the said backbone will be at some point suddenly hair do can prove that in school academic performance of girls later still very good, the 985, 211 on no less. At this point, whether it is a boy or a girl, parents' investment in education is real, not stingy. Now also never heard of girls will not be as good as the boys of the delusion, now analyze, that time the one-sided words, have to say is with the unequal status between men and women, leading to the parents of male and female children's investment is not uniform, naturally formed that impression. When people's thinking progress to keep up with the main theme of the times, so there is no scientific reasoning pseudo-science is not broken.
In the future, the whole society is more conducive to the development of human personality, in line with human nature, to meet the requirements of the development of comfort. People's mindsets continue to open up, and the divide between generation and generation is constantly shortening, mutual understanding, the promotion of national quality education, social science and technology innovation investment ...... every short foot of progress is to promote the long-term harmonious development of society is a powerful driving force.