Whether the couple were happy after marriage or not, they once loved each other very much. However, in the long marriage life, because of various contradictions and changes, their hearts gradually drifted away. When they were young, they worked hard for their lives, their careers and their families. It's just that time has diluted everything and made the love in each other's hearts disappear, even if it exists. Let's take a look together. When a woman reaches middle age, the real life of husband and wife is like this. Very realistic.
Ms. Hu is 43 years old: muddling along. Without his love, I can live all my life.
Women are different from men. After they are forty years old, the phenomenon of aging is becoming more and more obvious. But my husband is different. He is as old as me, but he looks like he is in his thirties. He has betrayed his marriage and found more than one woman outside behind my back. I used to quarrel with him and threaten him to divorce, but he really agreed, so I gave up because I had to take care of the children.
After all, I can be where I am today, and I have worked hard. How can I take advantage of others? Now we go our separate ways and don't interfere with each other, but I still can't let him mess around outside because I have major savings at home. Although he doesn't really care about the women outside, our feelings are almost the same now, just an empty shell. Muddle along. I can live a lifetime without his love.
Ms. Yang is 49 years old: Life is neither romantic nor romantic. We regard each other as companions.
My husband and I have changed from lovers to relatives. Life is neither romantic nor romantic. We regard each other as companions. I cook at home every day, but after dinner, we will go for a walk together. When we are in a good mood, we will go to the square to dance square dance and exercise our muscles. When we exercise, we will be happy physically and mentally. When we get home, we will go back to our room to sleep, because I like quiet.
So we sleep separately. Although there is no love in our hearts, this kind of company feels good. Better than living alone. It doesn't matter. Let's talk together every day and express our views on something. When we miss our children, we will call him and ask him to come back for dinner. It's that simple.
Ms. Guo is 56 years old: It seems that we are not husband and wife, but enemies. Now this home is just where I eat, wear and live, but it is not warm at all.
There is no love in our hearts for a long time, and we all hate each other. It seems that we are not husband and wife, but enemies, even worse than strangers. We've been arguing for so many years and never stopped. Sometimes I think about divorce, but I have left this house at such a big age and have nowhere to go. Although the daughter is filial, she also has in-laws. It is ok to go for a day or two, but it is impossible to live with her forever, which will cause her.
What's the difference between not leaving home after divorce? It's better to live like this. I usually try to avoid him. When I want to talk to someone, I go out to find my neighbors and talk to them. If I want to see the outside world, I will travel with them, so that I can broaden my horizons and feel more relaxed. Now this home is just a place where I can eat, drink and live, but it is not warm at all.
Conclusion: It seems that when couples reach middle age, there is no love in many hearts. It's just that since they have been together for so many years and experienced a lot of storms, they should cherish each other's lives instead of getting tired of each other. Although the life of husband and wife is dull, it is a true portrayal of the life of husband and wife. It is said that plain is the truth. They should not forget their original intention and fail to manage your marriage well. You know, it is a very happy thing to be with each other until you are old.