Before I got married, I thought that my in-laws were very nice, and they treated me well, and I got along well with the neighbors. The mother-in-law is a great lady, and her husband's grandma and grandpa are quite famous in their local area. It is said that when she was young, she had a maiden companion and so on. Although it sounds quite ridiculous, but from the mother-in-law's body temperament can be seen, really is quite literary a person.
Before she retired, she was a teacher with knowledge and culture, and after she retired, she became the leader of her old sisters. The community often organizes cultural activities for the elderly, such as square dance competitions, singing competitions and the like, and my mother-in-law is happy to participate. The first thing I did was to get my hands on some of my favorite products, and then I was able to get my hands on some of the best ones.
The first year of marriage with my husband, we had a really good time, not living together, and my in-laws were not involved in each other's affairs. I went back to eat occasionally, buy them something, naturally there is no conflict, I hope that the days have been like this is good.
Then I got pregnant, and my health was not very good, and I had a lot of trouble with all kinds of vomiting in the early days, and I couldn't eat. I took a leave of absence from the company and rested at home. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, and I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.
My mother-in-law came over for the first day or two and was very nice to me, asking me what I wanted to eat before I ate, and then giving me a chance to do it. I heart touched a lot, but to the back of the can't, give me two days to do the meal she is tired of, and do not ask me what to eat, according to her own preferences to do. I always hear her muttering while cooking, why so pretentious? It's only been a little over two months and she's already like this, what are we going to do from now on?
I'm a straight shooter, and my idea of a family is to talk about what's going on, and to solve any problems that come up. But my mother-in-law is not like this, always talking in a roundabout way and always sulking, throwing face. Sometimes my husband and I don't know what's wrong with her, and she's all by herself. Come to our home to stay less than a week, I can not stand it, the night I discussed with my husband, to not let your mother back, and then stay, I may not be able to resist fighting with her.
Husband told his mother-in-law what we meant, and she did well to pack up her things and run away without saying a word. I realized that this is not want to take care of me, and forced us to kick her out by ourselves, and then she still has the argument: you guys are not the ones who asked me to come back, right?
It was hard to get through the first three months, and my health got a little better, but I couldn't go to work, and no company would allow an employee to take an endless vacation like that. I simply quit my job and stayed at home to take care of my baby. At this time, my first priority was to make sure my baby was safe and healthy, and I didn't care about anything else.
The entire pregnancy was spent quietly at home, reading and writing, eating what I wanted to eat, and being in a good mood. This pregnancy is okay, but there has to be a person to accompany me during the month. The best choice, of course, is my mother-in-law, but I'm a little scared to be with her.
My mom hasn't retired yet, so I'm sure she won't have time to come. But my mom discussed this with me before I gave birth, and she said that if I wasn't used to my mother-in-law taking care of me, then I should hire a sister-in-law, and she would pay for it. I think it's a good idea to be comfortable and not to get angry again.
A few days before the birth of the baby, my mother-in-law came to the house, and said a lot of things, in short, that she was not available, she was very busy, and she had to participate in some competition. The first thing I did was to tell her that I was going to go to a competition and that she was going to be busy. I told her my plan, I said we have decided to hire a sister-in-law, I will contact her in the next few days, you can go about your business.
My mother-in-law's eyes widened when she heard this, and she said, "I don't have time to serve you, and you can't hire a sister-in-law. The woman is so expensive, how much does it cost? The fact is, if you're pregnant and quit your job, my son will have to pay the mortgage and take care of your living expenses, so do you want to tire him out? Besides, if you let the maid take care of you, what will people think of me? I'll come over and cook for you, but when I'm not available, you'll have to make do with what you've got!
I thought she wouldn't care about this, but I didn't expect her to say such a thing, and I'm not sure she's going to be able to! I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get through this, because I'm not going to be able to get through this, and I'm not going to be able to get through this. What kind of logic is that? This person is also too ridiculous, right?
At night I told my husband about this, and he was silent for a while and said, "Don't listen to my mom, let's find a sister-in-law, as long as it's good for you and your child, it's okay to spend a little more money. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to pay for it, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to pay for it.
After the baby was born, my mom asked someone from my hometown to find me a reliable sister-in-law, who is a distant cousin of my grandma's side. Auntie was very honest and took good care of me and the baby. After this month, I think I can take care of the baby by myself, my mom is not worried, let the aunt stay in my house for another two months.
My mother-in-law came over several times to see the baby, and when she saw her sister-in-law busy, she didn't say much. I don't know what she was thinking when she was so educated, but I'm not sure how she was feeling. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get a good deal on this!