How to deal with the teacher-student relationship
Sukhomlinsky said, "If the students are not willing to tell the teacher about their joys and pains, and are not willing to open up to the teacher, then it is always ridiculous to talk about any education, and any education is impossible." This shows that it is very important to deal with teacher-student relationship in teaching. So, how to deal with good teacher-student relationship? I think we should do the following:
1, understand the characteristics of students, do students' friends
Teachers and students should not be limited to the classroom and students across the desk on the study of the "question and answer" type of communication, teachers should also enter the student's life, familiarity with, and to master the characteristics of their age, The teacher should also go into the life of the students, familiarize themselves with their age, ideological condition, interests and social influence on them, and carry out psycho-educational activities accordingly.
In their work, classroom teachers can use the methods of watching, chatting and visiting to understand the students. Watching is to see what students do in their studies, extracurricular activities, and daily life. Chatting is to understand the students' likes and dislikes and inner world by chatting with them. Visiting is to visit parents to understand students' thoughts, interests, hobbies and language.
Students have a high desire for knowledge, they feel new to everything and ask why, especially for attractive activities, they are especially interested. In order to mobilize students' enthusiasm and further develop students' interests and hobbies, teachers can organize students to carry out colorful activities, so that students in the activities to increase their knowledge, develop their interests and improve their abilities.
At the same time, teachers should also participate in the activities, like friends and students to discuss the fun of the activities, and use this to educate students. In the process of organizing and carrying out activities, teachers should pay attention to listening to students' arguments, pay attention to observation and analysis, and always keep a pure heart of a child, communicate with students' hearts and minds, and understand their emotional pulse. Teachers not only do students' guide, but also do students' friends.
2, respect for students, good at discovering students' flashpoints, stimulate students' enthusiasm
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once warned us that: "your whip under the Watt, your cold eyes of Newton, your sneer in Edison." If teachers doubt students at will and damage their self-esteem, it will cause anger and resistance within students, resulting in emotional confrontation between teachers and students, then education will not work. Respecting students is the only way to satisfy and protect their self-esteem.
In fact, each student is a complete life form, each life form has a sparkling place. We should hold the "every child is a treasure mine" mentality, to enthusiastically discover the potential advantages of students, and find ways to create conditions, provide opportunities to encourage children to overcome the self, bold practice, this potential into the reality of the child's ability, and make this ability to gradually strengthen.
The teacher is a helper and encourager on the way of the child's growth, and in all the way of *** enjoying the joys and *** overcoming the difficulties, the teacher's heart and the student's heart are tightly linked together.
3, trust students, do students strong backing
Trust is the basis for emotional generation, caring for students is the vocation of teachers, teachers need to plough the plow of sincerity to cultivate students' heart in order to obtain the trust and love of students in the future. If you ignore the two-way communication between teachers and students, there is a lack of equal treatment between the two, the atmosphere of heart-to-heart exchanges. Two-way communication is a way for both teachers and students to know each other, to get along with each other and to communicate with each other.
In teaching, even if it is only a glimpse of the teacher to the students full of love and trust in the eyes, will be in the deepest part of the student's mind, "feel the light to show the shadow. Trust students, especially those who have made mistakes, with the development of the eyes to see them, to help them eliminate the divide, dissolve the antagonism, give them more understanding and tolerance, you can turn negative into positive.
Teachers can only become friends with students, strengthen two-way communication with students, understand students, respect students, trust students, create a relaxed and harmonious educational environment for them, heart to heart, in order to win the trust and respect of the students, to establish a tacit understanding with each other.