Old Husband, Old Wife represents a couple who have been married for a long time and whose feelings have been colored by affection. But not necessarily not as overly passionate as in the beginning, and sometimes the degree of passion can be higher than the average couple.
Now some young people get along and talk about friends for a long time, but also will call each other old married couple. For example, we know each other for a long time, we are old married couple, no need to speak so much, this time to do the wedding from the simple it.
The old married couple's charm is not reduced three tricks:
1, psychological "help".
Elderly people in their old age are looking for a companion who can give them mental support and care, which cannot be replaced by other relatives. When a party due to physiological changes or the occurrence of certain accidents and produce trouble and bitterness, the other party's psychological "support" and life care, will make each other from the spirit of comfort.
When the other party is sick, not only to use caring language to inquire about the condition, inspire the other party to overcome the confidence of the disease, try to reduce the other party's psychological pressure, but also to bring their medical treatment in a timely manner. If the other party encountered such as lost money, lost hands damaged goods and other unpleasant things, do not hard to blame, but should try to appease, in order to reduce its psychological burden.
The elderly encountered troubles, always want to find someone to talk about it, a vomit, this catharsis object is of course the most ideal of their partners. Therefore, any party should not blame the other narrow-minded or nagging annoying, but should take the initiative to accept each other's catharsis, and persuasion, counseling, relieve their inner pain.
2, psychological "freshness".
Elderly couples in their daily lives year after year tend to be overly realistic and lack of romance, to meet the status quo and keep the bland, as the saying goes, "the old love is more than less than the time fade". Therefore, the two sides should continue to create charm to continue to attract each other.
More praise in daily life, more appreciation of each other, such as "you wear this dress is really beautiful", "your color is particularly good" and so on, so that the other side feel you pay attention to him, and for you to maintain their own charm of the opposite sex. In mutual attention, mutual support, to maintain a warm emotional life.
The late centenarian Zhang Xueliang it is with Ms. Zhao Yidi love nectar, so that the tree of life evergreen. Zhang Xueliang once composed a poem: "Since ancient times, heroes are more colorful, may not be colorful all heroes; I am not a hero, but colorful like a hero." It is clear that he and Ms. Zhao Yidi deep love, perhaps this is also his long years of adversity and create a miracle of longevity of one of the miraculous power.
3, psychological "bonding".
The couple's character, hobbies and habits are not exactly the same, only in mutual respect under the premise of continuous "integration", in order to adapt to each other. Should respect and allow each other to have their own unique interests and hobbies, try to meet each other's psychological needs, the conditions should be involved in each other's activities, **** enjoy the fun. Mr. and Mrs. Xia are together to write poems and have the same interest and language.
At the same time, should fully understand and respect each other's habits, love their same, respect their differences. An old couple, one is Zhejiang, one is Heilongjiang; one likes to eat rice, one likes to eat pasta. They after a long time "integration", constantly changing their habits, eating a combination of southern and northern flavors of the meal, and spent most of their lives in harmony.
Elderly couples should pay attention to emotional exchanges, so that the process of "bonding" becomes a process of emotional interaction and deepening.
Reference: Baidu Encyclopedia - Old Husband and Old Wife