On the topic of giving up your seat, White actually feels y.
I'm a very motion-sick person, and have been since I was a kid. Unfortunately I have to travel on public transportation every day, which can lead to some very awkward encounters.
I have to travel on an inter-city bus every day, and I sit on the next bus half an hour early every day in order to get a front-right window seat. People who are carsick should know that carsickness is how painful realization, but some times you sit half an hour in advance in the car to find a ventilated and forward position, and so the car will start soon, or on the road there will be a lot of people come up, but there will be an old man will be standing next to you, looking at you do not say anything.
Some of the old man is okay, you explain to him, you do not give up his seat with him because you dizzy dizzy really can not stand, if you stand up at all can not stand, he will show you understanding.
But some of the old man is not me, I have not run into the kind of forced moral abduction, but you do not let the seat to hit you in the old man, but I really encountered the kind, you do not let the seat he will be around you have been staring at you to see and pointing to the sanghuai scolding you the kind of good point is to have been around you to break the idea of breaking the thought of what the children's quality is not good enough to give the elderly to give up their seats, do not honor the elderly, do not know the traditional Chinese national virtues, do not understand the Chinese people, and do not know the traditional Chinese people's virtues. The first thing you need to do is to get up and give him a seat, and you'll be forced to do so because of the pressure on your heart.
Small white I remember once I really can not stand, just stand up and let her sit down. After about ten minutes of this, my head started to spin, I felt that the air wasn't fresh, my stomach started to churn, and my legs and feet were weakening. But the old man looked at me and was completely indifferent. Then I finally couldn't help myself to say hello to him in time, so I got down on that window beside her and threw up outside, and since I didn't have time to still throw up a little on the window.
My stomach hasn't begun to get better, that old man has been starting to push and shove me smacked me dirty, although usually my temper is very bad, but that time I really was powerless to refute, and then I a didn't stand up well, accidentally fell on another person. There was an older man who just couldn't stand it and gave up his seat to me, so I sat right behind that old man.
The result was that the old man was unforgiving, and kept thinking that the window where I threw up was dirty and stained with something, and wanted to change seats with me. At that time, I really do not have the strength to argue with him, but I do not want to, to fulfill her wish, so I kept my eyes closed, pretending to sleep and turn a deaf ear, so that the old man has been cursing me all the way.
For this matter I feel very aggrieved, in my impression, all the old people are like my grandparents grandma and grandpa as kind and amiable, but I do not understand why I will meet a lot of such old people on the bus, and even some are a little over the top, is it because we are young, so we have to let them all never consider their own situation?
To be honest, I'm not a Lei Feng uncle, I have no way, in their own power is not enough when also think to help others. I just hope that those old people to push themselves to think about it, if it is their own grandchildren in the car met such a situation, the body so uncomfortable, but still go to other old people to give up their seats, they will not be heartbroken?
Moral abduction is the most shameful thing in this world because it binds us a lot. Dare to say but can't say dare to do but can't do. Morality is originally a beautiful thing in this world, but there are people who use it to trap, some people who have conscience and goodness in their heart.
I hope we can all know that giving up your seat is a moral not an obligation, giving up your seat is a civilization, not a moral abduction.