Today, more than ten years later, Huo Siyan has married Du Jiang and given birth to a lovely son. Zhuyuchen, 43, is still unmarried, not because he doesn't want to, but because he dare not.
As the saying goes, marry a virtuous man, but don't marry Mambo. As it happens, zhuyuchen is the mambo that everyone is afraid of.
But his mother was very happy and thought Ma Bao was cute.
She loved her son all her life and wanted to take care of everything for him, but this love imprisoned zhuyuchen and prevented him from entering the marriage.
The mother pushed her son into the abyss of feelings with wishful thinking.
Now, zhuyuchen is 43 years old, but no one dares to marry him. Such a mother-in-law is suffocating, and zhuyuchen is her puppet. How did her daughter-in-law resist?
Zhuyuchen was born in Shanghai. He also has a younger sister named Zhu Beibei. Both brothers and sisters are the pride of their parents and treat them equally.
But my mother's love for zhuyuchen is even stronger. In her view, her son is her sky, her land and the meaning of her life.
Therefore, zhuyuchen's childhood was happy and depressing.
Mother wanted zhuyuchen to develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically, so she decided to let him learn piano.
Playing the piano is boring. Zhuyuchen is very resistant. He ate raw beans and got wet in the rain, hoping to get sick and escape those hours of study.
Mother saw through his tricks, and after zhuyuchen fell ill, she gave him more practice.
If zhuyuchen doesn't listen, his mother will pinch his arm, and it won't be black and blue until zhuyuchen practices the piano.
Under this pressure, zhuyuchen thought of death. He reached out to touch the switch, but soon, he drew his hand back. Zhuyuchen was afraid of his death, and his mother couldn't bear it.
Can't resist, also can't die, zhuyuchen only can think of is to escape.
1997, zhuyuchen, 18 years old, enrolled in the Central Academy of Drama. Unfortunately, he failed to make the list.
But there is always a bright side to everything. zhuyuchen met Tang Wei, who also failed in the list.
Adolescence soon attracted each other and agreed to repeat the study together and take the exam again next year.
Reading with Tang Wei is a rare time for zhuyuchen to relax.
A year later, zhuyuchen was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama and became a classmate with Deng Chao. Tang Wei once again sadly dropped out of the list.
Fortunately, feeling full of water, Tang Wei decided to go north to accompany zhuyuchen to school, and he could also feel the atmosphere of art colleges.
After studying, Tang Wei had to take a part-time job to pay the monthly rent in 300 yuan.
She thinks zhuyuchen will come to the cabin to keep warm when she is not in class. As a result, on the day of school registration, Zhu's mother came all the way to see her son off, and she could only silently look at the back of the school gate, admiring and blessing.
Unexpectedly, the scene that embarrassed zhuyuchen appeared.
Entering the dormitory, zhuyuchen was going to tidy up the bedding and was stopped by his mother: "Son, wait a minute, mom will come."
After laying the bedding, she immediately asked zhuyuchen's roommate, "Do you snore when you sleep? Leave my son alone. "
Zhuyuchen was so ashamed that she couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground. As a result, the crack hasn't been found yet, and her mother once again made a surprising speech.
She opened the window and saw Parthenocissus crawling all over the wall. Her mind immediately thought that there would be bugs in Parthenocissus tricuspidata, and the bugs would climb into the dormitory and bite his precious son.
Zhu Mu's brain was wide open: "Can I burn this Parthenocissus with boiling water?"
Roommates froze, zhuyuchen "died" directly, and hurriedly pulled his mother out of the dormitory. For a long time, roommates ignored zhuyuchen. They thought the boy was not easy to mess with.
Contact for a long time, they found that zhuyuchen was a poor man, and they began to sympathize with him, and their relationship became better.
After escaping from her mother's clutches, zhuyuchen grew long hair and called it a literary model. In fact, it was his later rebellion.
Zhuyuchen is full of aura, learning acting is easy, and he soon becomes the best in his class, but his feelings with Tang Wei are getting weaker and weaker.
In 2000, Tang Wei was admitted to Chinese Opera by the National College Entrance Examination for World War IV. As a result, she became zhuyuchen's ex-girlfriend.
Two people who worked together for the same goal became the most familiar strangers.
I don't know whether zhuyuchen will regret this relationship after many years. After all, this is the only fucking love that has not been involved.
After graduation, zhuyuchen began to work as a walk-on, wandering around for several years until he met Zhao Baogang.
In 2006, Zhao Baogang needed a group of young people to film Struggle, and zhuyuchen became the best candidate for Hanako.
Zhuyuchen won the prize for the explosion drama, and his life was over.
Zhao Baogang likes zhuyuchen very much. Two years later, he was invited to star in My Youth.
Mother Zhu watched her son develop better and better and couldn't sit still. It coincided with her retirement. After thinking about it, she simply went to the north and took care of her son wholeheartedly.
So she went straight to Beijing with a big iron pot on her shoulder. In the package, she also brought 80 hairy crabs.
Zhu's position on himself is clear. As her son's Filipino maid, she will give him a warm kitchen wherever he goes.
It can be said that home is where zhuyuchen is.
Mother Zhu gets up at three or four o'clock every day to prepare all kinds of "nutrition", thirst-quenching soup, pear water for moistening the lungs, mung bean soup for relieving summer heat, fruit juice for supplementing VC and so on.
Zhuyuchen's assistant had to put these bottles on his body and set an alarm clock on his mobile phone so that zhuyuchen could drink them on time every day.
At the end of the day, zhuyuchen can't drink a few mouthfuls of pure water. I don't know if he is overnourished. In those years, zhuyuchen became greasy and his face was uneven.
Zhuyuchen wanted to resist, but he was afraid of hurting his mother's heart, so he had to bear it silently. The Internet became a place for him to vent his emotions.
Here, he expressed himself unscrupulously, but suddenly one day, he found that his mother copied the content he posted on the social platform word for word and collapsed instantly.
He stopped posting and his emotional outlet was blocked. Zhuyuchen was very depressed.
Fortunately, mom didn't go to the shooting scene, which became zhuyuchen's only breathing space.
In 2009, zhuyuchen shared her sugar water with Huo Siyan on the set of Love and You Perfect.
Huo Siyan thinks it's delicious, so Zhu Mu cooks double sugar water every day, so that Huo Siyan can also supplement nutrition.
Compared with the resistance to sugar water, Zhu's mother likes Huo Siyan's cleverness very much, so she calls Huo Siyan as her daughter-in-law.
But Huo Siyan was smart. She lied that she already had a boyfriend, and dismissed Zhu Mu's idea of fixing them up. Later, in a program, Huo Siyan publicly said: "His mother was cheated by my appearance, and I was mean to my boyfriend. His mother wants to marry a new mother for zhuyuchen, and I am not suitable. "
In the following years, zhuyuchen never found a girlfriend again, not because he didn't want to, but because he did, and his mother was not satisfied. Zhuyuchen can't find it himself. He will find someone his mother thinks fit.
At this time, Jiang Yan appeared.
Jiang Yan is seven years younger than zhuyuchen. She graduated from Beijing Film Academy. She has fair skin and long legs. The most important thing is that she cooks delicious food.
On one occasion, zhuyuchen brought home a hemp cucumber made by Jiangyan. Mother was very surprised when she saw it. This knife is perfect.
Her mind immediately saw Jiang Yan playing zhuyuchen and washing her hands to make bridal soup. She encouraged zhuyuchen to chase Jiang Yan.
Zhuyuchen succeeded in catching up with Jiang Yan, thinking that he could create a peaceful and beautiful world from now on.
Unexpectedly, my mother played tricks on Jiang Yan again.
She didn't like Jiang Yan wearing less clothes, showing her shoulders, waist and thighs, and encouraged zhuyuchen to break up with her.
Jiang Yan is young and beautiful, and an actress. She will naturally show her beauty. Besides, it's not a sin to show her figure.
But Zhu Mu insists that wearing less clothes is frivolous.
Zhuyuchen really likes Jiang Yan. He didn't want to leave her, but he couldn't persuade his mother to accept Jiang Yan.
Gradually, Jiang Yan saw the hesitation and Zhu's attitude and asked, "You didn't come to see me because I can cook and judge people, did you?" Do you think I am suitable for you or I am suitable for being your wife? "
When asked, zhuyuchen was speechless and they broke up immediately.
The failure of this relationship is a great blow to zhuyuchen. He closed himself up, stopped falling in love and became fat.
Perhaps for a new start, or to make her mother change her mind, zhuyuchen, 20 18, 39, took her mother to the variety show My Boy.
As a result, Zhu Mu's remarks raised the ratings of the program to a new height, but zhuyuchen was completely labeled as a "treasure mom and dad".
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Let's have a look. What did Zhu Mu say?
Regarding the role of women in marriage, she said:
For zhuyuchen's "Mambo South" image, she said:
About her position in zhuyuchen's life, she said:
For zhuyuchen's feelings, she said:
Zhu Mu never thought there was something wrong with her. Zhuyuchen once told her, "When I think I can take responsibility, don't worry, Mom, I will get married."
This sentence reveals zhuyuchen's fear of marriage, but his mother thinks that zhuyuchen is too naive to get married.
If her son's marriage is not fixed, she can understand without worrying. After all, a man can marry a girl in his twenties even in his fifties and sixties, and it's not too late to have children.
However, my daughter is in her forties and has not yet entered the marriage. She watched her mother's contribution to her brother from an early age and was afraid of getting married: "I can't afford this responsibility."
A pair of children, in the face of marriage, talk about the word "responsibility", but Zhu Mu was unmoved. She still stubbornly believes that a woman should pay for her family and sacrifice herself to achieve the next generation.
But is it really good for her children?
Facing the camera, zhuyuchen cried: "Why doesn't anyone want to be with me?"
The answer is self-evident, that is, his mother blocked all his marriages.
In Zhu's plan, she will live with her after marriage.
She even thinks it is a blessing to be married to Zhujiajian.
But this kind of blessing, no one wants it, and no one dares to want it.
Perhaps influenced by her mother's paranoia, zhuyuchen soon exposed her love affair with jewelry designer Du Ruo.
Du Ruo is at the forefront of fashion. Her dressing style is a bit like Jiang Yan's, with bare legs and navel, and tattoos.
I don't know how Zhu Mu felt when he saw it.
However, after four years of love, they are still not married. Perhaps, Du Ruo is waiting for the day when zhuyuchen will get rid of her mother's control. After all, no one wants to live under the same roof with such a mother-in-law
There is no doubt that Zhu Mu loves zhuyuchen, and it is because of her love that she can treat herself as a Filipino maid and work hard.
But this is not the maternal love that zhuyuchen wants.
When children are young, mothers can shelter them from all storms, but children will grow up one day. They are independent individuals and have to face various societies.
Mothers love their children and children are filial to their parents, which is already the best relationship.
Cute should be moderate, but also keep your distance.
If mother Zhu doesn't want her son and daughter to die alone, she must let them find happiness.
As for Zhu Mu, she should also concentrate on her own life, such as square dancing, traveling, practicing calligraphy, painting, arranging flowers, and so on.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Don't interfere in children's lives in the name of love.
Love from the heart, keep a proper distance, and that's good.