The following are the ways you can make your grandmother like you:
1, spend more time with your grandmother.
Respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue of our Chinese nation for thousands of years and a universal social requirement. When the physical needs such as food and clothing are solved, the most difficult thing for human beings to endure is probably loneliness.
In our daily lives, each of us seems to have a tendency to avoid loneliness by being close to others. Almost no one is willing to be alone, with no contact with the outside world. You should usually spend more time with your grandma, come home more often, and don't let your grandma stay alone in the empty nest.
2. Encourage your grandmother to keep a positive and optimistic attitude.
You want to make your grandmother happy, you have to encourage her to adjust her own understanding and attitude. How do you make your grandma happy? Happy old people are good at adapting to difficult situations and can seek light in the darkness.
To make your grandma happy, encourage her to keep her mind open and look at everything realistically. Tell your grandmother not to close herself off, to evaluate herself correctly, to be able to know herself, to be confident, to be contented, to follow nature, and not to force what she can't achieve.
3. Encourage your grandmother to develop her own interests.
Encourage the elderly to develop their own interests and turn their dreams into reality. In order to develop their interests, they can participate in more outdoor activities, such as hiking, or engage in some volunteer activities, or academic research, all of which can fill the spiritual emptiness caused by not going to work. Tell your grandma: Before you retire, give some serious thought to what you like to do, so that when you do retire from work, you won't be bored because you don't have anything to do.
4, more communication with grandma.
You usually not only want to communicate with your grandmother, but also to reach an effective communication with your grandmother, the most important thing is to express to be clear, specific, in the *** with the face and deal with the problem is even more so. But often there are many people in dealing with the problem when the language expression is not clear, it makes the problem can not be solved.
Many problems and misunderstandings arise because of ambiguous communication. Therefore, communicating each other's ideas and learning to listen to your grandmother is also an effective way to make her happy, as well as the most effective way to make her like you.