For the aspiration and pursuit of college, rural families may have a deeper complex than urban families, because for the children of rural families, going to college is a rare opportunity for them to jump out of the farm door,as long as they go to college, the probability is that they will not have to continue to be a farmer, as their parents did.
With the help of the university's expansion as well as the student loan policy, many rural children have the opportunity to go to university, and even those with particularly good grades can go to Beijing to study at Qingbei. For rural people, getting into college is a particularly joyous and grand event, and people often hold large banquets to announce this to all their relatives.
And, the rural people are also particularly concerned about those who can get into the university, if the university student's family is poor, the villagers will spontaneously contribute money to help him to study in the university, and many people are because of the villagers' help, so that they can raise enough money to pay for the cost of studying in the university, for example, Liu Qiangdong.
But times have changed, and college students are no longer the pride of heaven, and the change comes from the cessation of the policy of assigning college students. In the past, the university, as long as you graduated, you can be allocated jobs, many or public units, so the university, has been equal to a foot into the public door, the rest of his life basically worry-free, and many units will also be divided into houses it.
But, with the policy of package allocation stopped, the employment problem of college students is more and more serious, we have to rely on their own to find a job, and the market's treacherous exposure, many people who have studied in the university, it is still difficult to find a suitable job. For urban children, in fact, this aspect of the pressure is still relatively small, because even if they do not have a job for the time being, the family can still continue to support them, but rural children can not.
There are a lot of rural students who are studying at universities, and as soon as they set foot on the university campus, they have already been burdened with a mission, that is, to finish their studies early and come out to work to earn money to subsidize their families, and for the rural families, they are the saviors of their families, and therefore once they graduate and have difficulty in finding a job, it will be very troublesome.
These people whose families can't give them any help, and who even have to help their families themselves, will be especially anxious and overwhelmed by the tide of unemployment, and they desperately need jobs to make money, but there are fewer jobs and more people looking for them, so it's not that easy to find a job.
As a result, many people who have studied at university are instead more jobless and find it more difficult to make money, which is what many people call the theory of the uselessness of studying, which actually has some truth to it.
What does going to college actually bring to rural children? Besides the identity of a college student, or not very valuable identity, what else is there? In fact, the rural children who have gone to college are instead caught in a dilemma.
Nominally, they have jumped out of the farm gate and don't have to be a farmer anymore, but in reality, it's hard for them to completely jump out of the farm gate, and the countryside is still their stumbling block, and at the same time, it's hard for them to be integrated into the city because the city's housing prices will make them feel overwhelmed and like an outsider.
Rural children who went to college, it is difficult to go back to the countryside in this life, go back will also be ridiculed, ridiculed them for studying in vain, but the city is also difficult to integrate into, want to be based in the city, rooted, is not so easy, just the price of the house is enough to persuade a lot of people, so many people will lament, the city can not stay in the body, the countryside can not stay in the soul.
For many children from rural families, going to college and having the status of a college student, in addition to broadening their horizons, but on the contrary, it is even more bound to them, but also brought them a lot of pressure. The more you know, the more you broaden your horizons, the more serious one's anxiety will actually be. There is a saying that if I hadn't seen the sunshine, I would have been able to tolerate the darkness.
This is the case for rural college students, they have seen a wider world, but they can only surround and melt into it, in order to be able to earn more money, they will accept the 996 inward rolls, in the workplace desperately work, desperately work overtime, and they have seen the importance of the starting point, the starting point of some is the end of the struggle of a lot of people all their lives, so they will be very anxious, they will try to find a way to "chicken child" and worry about their children losing out to others.
But these college students from rural families, no matter how hard they try, they are always one step behind others, because others are the accumulation of several generations, while they are the first generation to enter the city, everything depends on their own to fight, there is no one to give help, and they can't afford to lose, because there is no cost of trial and error, and once you make a mistake once, then it's all downhill from there.
So the young people in the society, if they are from the rural families, even if they have studied in the university, it is still difficult to be successful, their maturity time is too late than the city children, the university just gives them an identity, and does not provide them with the kind of family money in the heart of the fearless state of mind and the bottom of the air.
For many college students from rural areas, the city is their aspiration, but not all of them may be able to integrate into the city, rooted in the city, so doomed to have some people, and ultimately return to the countryside, because they can not afford to buy a house in the city, the city can only leave their youth and sweat, not to stay in their bodies and dreams.