I have been retired for a number of years, around the classmates, hair small, colleagues retired a lot, to me that the days can not go on at least six, has been divorced two, are negotiating or two, I am a little surprised, thinking about all the old age, why should be separated? Serious thinking and analysis, I think retirees divorce more than the following reasons:
Long-term friction at home
Previously, it is a long time to go out to work, in the unit time than at home for a long time, and come home tired to sleep, the two even talk to the free time, which have the time to talk angry.
Retired from the rest is not the same, stay together for a long time, looking at each other's various problems, how so bad, has been skeptical of so many years of their own how to get through. The first can endure, long enough to tolerate, and finally in the silence of the outbreak, the two sides thought of the separation.
Family trivia caused by conflict
Retired people have both parents are still alive, because of the issue of support, both spouses always have different opinions, but also must be a bowl of water end of the level, which side of the bias can not be.
Children also have become a family, they have become a grandfather, but also have to take care of children for children, sometimes feel that they are fast becoming? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. The old couple quarrels, they love to turn over the previous? The old couple love to rehash the old days when they quarrel.
Temper changed
Female hair small Daling in the supermarket to see me, said you men are not a retired character temper changed. Her old man is ten years older than her, before the temperament is very good, also know considerate Daling, who knows last year after retirement, personality change, very stubborn, sometimes know that they are wrong, do not change, ten oxen can not be pulled back, this continues, sooner or later to divorce.
I comforted her that all the same, retired, fierce a little bit not adapted to the surrounding environment, coupled with some men menopause delayed, multiple roles, easy to cause their own psychological and temperament changes, bear it, don't think of changing each other, we must learn to understand the adaptation, so that the days can live a long time, the home is stable. Daling heard, nodded, said thanks to meet me, or go back to the old man is still ready to separate miles.
The derailment
According to media reports, the derailment rate of the elderly is also slowly rising. The year before last, there was a square dance retired man, himself suffering from AIDS, even infected more than a dozen square dance mom, see the emotional life of the elderly also need to pay attention to, the most easy to derail the place is the square dance and mahjong hall.
Most of the retired elderly have pensions and savings, and their bodies are still strong, psychological and physiological needs are still there, eager to be cared for. Once you meet the right one, you will be able to compare it with the one at home, and if you can't get any more warmth at home, it's only a matter of time before you get separated or divorced.
Thinking has been liberated
Previously, when it comes to the divorce of retired elderly people, it is definitely a hot topic of discussion in the streets and alleys, and these elderly people will also be pointing their fingers at the elderly people who want to divorce in order to get a good reputation, but also to put up with it again and again, and the other side to make do with the rest of their lives.
With the development of society, the progress of the times, the idea of the old people are changing, have endured most of their lives, it is for their own completely live once, do not care about the views of neighbors, and everyone on this matter are open, no one will take the divorce as a rarity, the separation of the separation of the bar.
In short, the old couple walked hand in hand for so many years, there is no emotion and grace, to achieve mutual understanding, mutual tolerance, mutual tolerance, to think of each other's good, not to the end, never mention the word divorce!