People try not to show off in old age, think you can do things as usual need to do, such as a number of immovable work need to know difficult to retreat. Do not do not shame, if overworked resulting in injuries or illnesses, both their own suffering and will be involved in the children, children will be in a dilemma, the tube you need to take care of the other side, no matter what your words in the conscience, purely to the children out of the question. In later years, they should care about themselves, although not directly for the children to do much contribution, but not to the children to cause trouble is the biggest indirect contribution.
Two, the elderly do not care about the outside of the idle, more do not care about the children's idle. Children's life, such as if you are accustomed to see, such as if you are accustomed to not see. Anyway, eyes long in your body, see and do not see depends on you, the children's things to grasp the small, as long as there is no violation of the principle or touch the bottom line, you have to put out the posture of the matter does not matter to themselves to do a blind eye.
Children have children's lives, children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren's blessings, the management of the things that should not be managed not only will be laborious, and will not be pleasing to the eyes of the children will even be grumbled or complained. Although you are already an old man, but you have to avoid the old, the past experience of the children as a reference at best, do not use the commanding tone of the finger, instead of avoiding to argue with the children, and even more should be eliminated with the children to argue.
Three, the elderly in the case of life is still able to take care of themselves, can not trouble the children do not trouble the children, the children are more than a thousand days to raise the army, the army is still a moment. Although there are children this way back, but not until the last critical moment do not go.
The household chores are as much as you can do yourself, as if you were exercising properly. With children to get along with the time do not say that the words, at least the mindset needs to be optimistic, so that the mindset of the more live more renewed out of the young, such as if you complain to the children, the children can not empathize with the children will increase the children's worries, and the fact that it will also prove to alleviate the pain you do not help.
Conclusion: as an elderly person as far as possible to do not require, not forced and refused to ask, life is natural to the world, death is natural to leave the world, and frankly face the life and death, neither fear of life and death and not entangled in life and death.