The 1 meeting was arranged by fate and had nothing to do with fate. The second meeting is a definite process, and the third meeting proves that you really have the contact environment of this life circle. If you think that two people can develop a friendship or love relationship, that's ok, because you can contact three times in a row, which means that you have similar environments and you will have overlapping circles.
Most people have a Buddhist attitude towards life. They don't insist on anything, just talk about fate, make friends and talk about love. It doesn't matter if there is no fate. They live happily alone. This attitude of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can't be said to be bad, just that you should learn to recognize the boundary of this fate. Most of the time, if you work a little harder, he will be destined. For example, you have met several times before, and you think that the other person's personality is not bad, and his aesthetics are longer than yours.
Destiny is a subjective thing, and we think it exists when it exists. We can only judge from some basic conditions that you have a large contact environment. With the circle of * * *, you have a little fate, just like a small flame. Whether this small flame can really warm people's hearts depends on whether you are willing to care for it and add some firewood to keep out the wind. This small flame can gradually become the most important thing for heating.