Originally the family was in harmony, but because of other people's opinions and suggestions, it fell out. In the end, the mother-in-law returned to the village to live, and did not contact the daughter-in-law. Wang Yu's family is an ordinary family in the neighborhood. Wang Yu is a salesman, every day hard work, also can make the family live well. His wife, Li, is the manager of a clothing store. Because Lee is a longtime store manager, he is loud and outspoken. I usually talk loudly at home. My mother-in-law is from the countryside. She is very gentle and speaks very quietly. But the family was originally a very harmonious one.
No comparison does no harm. If the mother-in-law compares her daughter-in-law with others, the harmonious family will be in constant conflict Li usually speaks loudly at home, and his son is naughty and reprimands fiercely. Usually talk to Wang Yu and mother-in-law with a big grin. Probably because of the dialect, in the eyes of others it sounds like complaining, scolding and bad attitude. My mother-in-law has recently become very close to Zhang Yi in the neighborhood. Zhang Yi is a nice person in the neighborhood and is popular with most people. After Zhang Yi went up to Wang Yu's house to hang out for a while, Zhang Yi felt that Li Xiaoxu's attitude towards her mother-in-law was so bad and forceful that she secretly complained about her mother-in-law.
Over time, Zhang Yi got closer to her mother-in-law. Often the two go shopping together, square dance together, and help each other make dumplings and wontons. When the two were on good terms, Zhang Yi couldn't help but tell her mother-in-law that her daughter-in-law was a bad person, treated the elderly badly, and was always yelling at her husband and children. This kind of person is not good for her family. At first, my mother-in-law just said that Xiao Xu was just loud, but in fact, the conversation was very normal and nothing happened. In addition, Xiao Xu only comes home on weekdays and does not do housework. If it's a weekend or a vacation, cooking and mopping and washing clothes won't be left behind.
Zhang Yi's home, a large house of more than 160 square feet, was bought by his wife. Zhang Yi's son is related to Zhang Yi's wife's company work. Daughter-in-law is a very pretty little woman, Zhang Yi's elders are particularly respectful. She speaks in a very small and decent voice, and because she is just a housewife at home, she doesn't need to go out to work. Basically, except for grocery shopping, Zhang Yi's daughter-in-law did all the other household chores and was especially polite to others. For her mother-in-law, an old man in ordinary clothes, she smiled and nodded and often poured water and tea and fruit. The mother-in-law often showed great admiration for Zhang Yi's daughter-in-law.
Over time, the mother-in-law gradually accepted Zhang Yi's claim that her daughter-in-law was louder and not as respectful and polite as Zhang Yi's wife. The mother-in-law began to frequent the door, and sometimes tell stories without cooking, and let Li do it after work. Once or twice, Lee just said, "Mom, I'm tired when I get back from work. You did the cooking first."