The motivation behind love behavior is extremely complicated for human beings. Among them, sexual motivation or sexual drive, as well as the corresponding incentives, such as physical appearance between the opposite sex, is one of the important reasons.
Component 2: Emotion
Emotions belonging to love, in addition to love and desire, are of course mixed with other ingredients, the so-called ups and downs of love.
Component 3: Cognition
Cognitive function in love is the controlling factor of emotion and motivation. If motivation and emotion are regarded as current and spark respectively, then cognition is a switch or regulator, which can be appropriately adjusted according to the heat of love fire.
According to him, although the forms of love between men and women vary from person to person, they are all interpreted by the mixture of these three components in some way. He further called the love relationship between the sexes with motivation, emotion and cognition as enthusiasm, intimacy and commitment, that is, the relationship between the sexes with motivation as the main factor is enthusiasm, the relationship between the sexes with emotion as the main factor is intimacy, and the relationship between the sexes with cognition as the main factor is commitment and keeping promises. Perfect love should be a combination of the three.