How did ancient women punish the heartbroken by tearing the mistress?

Zhuo Wenjun

During the Wenjing period of the Han Dynasty, the Zhuo family in Lin Qiong County of Shu County (Qionglai, Chengdu, Sichuan) was passed on to Zhuo Wangsun. Due to social stability and proper management, Zhuo Jia became a rich man with thousands of hectares of fertile land; Huatang Qiyuan, a high-speed car; As for gold and silver jewelry and antiques, they are even more numerous. Zhuo Wenjun is near Sichuan? O the daughter of a great businessman, Zhuo Wangsun, is beautiful in appearance, proficient in melody, good at playing the piano and a famous literary figure. Married at the age of sixteen, her husband died a few years later and returned to her family.

After Liang Xiaowang's death, Sima Xiangru returned to Chengdu. However, his family is poor and he has no job to support himself. Xiangru and Lin Qiong county magistrate Wang Ji have always had a good relationship. Wang Ji said, "Evergreen, you have been away from home for a long time and are not satisfied with your work. Come and see me. " So Xiangru went to Lin Qiong and lived in a pavilion in the city. Lin Qiong county magistrate pretends to be respectful and visits Xiangru every day. At first, Xiang Ru was treated with courtesy. Later, he lied that he was ill and asked his entourage to refuse Ji Wang's visit. But Ji Wang is more cautious and respectful.

There are many rich people in Lin Qiong County. For example, there are 800 domestic slaves in Zhuo Wangsun's family and hundreds of domestic slaves in his family. The two men discussed with each other and said, "The county magistrate has a distinguished guest. We are going to have a banquet, please invite him. " Please also ask the county magistrate. When the magistrate arrived at Zhuojia, Zhuojia had hundreds of guests. Ask Sima Changqing at noon. Changqing refused to come because of illness. Lin Qiongling didn't come to see Xiangru, so she didn't dare to eat. She went to see Xiangru herself. As a last resort, I reluctantly came to Zhuo's home, and all the guests were amazed at his style. When the wine was hot, the magistrate of Lin Qiong stepped forward, put the piano in front of Xiangru and said, "I heard that Changqing likes playing the piano very much, and I hope to listen to a song to help me enjoy myself." Like a polite refusal, he played one or two songs, such as Yellow.

At this time, Zhuo Wangsun had a daughter named Zhuo Wenjun, who was just widowed and liked music very much. She pretended to be respectful to the county magistrate and secretly used the piano to seduce her feelings. Xiang Ru came to Qionglai, followed by horses and chariots, handsome, quiet and elegant, very generous. When Zhuo was drinking and playing the piano, Zhuo Wenjun secretly looked at him through the crack of the door. He was happy and especially liked him, but he was afraid that he was not worthy of him.

After the banquet, Xiangru sent someone to reward the waiter in Wen Jun with a large sum of money to express her appreciation. So Zhuo Wenjun ran away from home overnight, eloped with Wen Jun and hurried back to Chengdu.

When the liquor seller walked into Sima Xiangru's house, there was nothing but four walls. Zhuo Wangsun was furious when he learned that his daughter had eloped: "My daughter is extremely useless. I can't bear to hurt her, but I won't give her a penny. " Someone advised Zhuo Wangsun, but he wouldn't listen.

After a long time. One day, Wen Jun said to Xiangru, "Evergreen, as long as you go to Lin Qiong with me, you can borrow money from your brothers to make a living. Why not make yourself so miserable! " Xiangru came to Lin Qiong with Wen Jun, sold all his horses and chariots, bought a hotel and started selling wine. And let Wen Jun stand in front of the long liquor store, wearing calf-nosed trousers, while working with the employees to clean the wine containers in the downtown area.

After that, life was so poor that Zhuo Wenjun even went out to sell wine in public.

Fortunately, this kind of life didn't take long. After all, Zhuo Wangsun could not bear to part with his daughter and gave money to support the couple.

Sima Xiangru is also a gifted scholar. The appearance of Zi Xu Fu and Shang Dynasty won the appreciation of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty and established his position in the literary world.

The love story between him and Zhuo Wenjun is still a much-told story after thousands of years.

However, this beautiful marriage was not smooth sailing. According to Xijing Miscellanies, after Sima Xiangru became a dignitary, he took a fancy to a Maoling woman and moved the idea of concubinage.

When Zhuo Wenjun knew this, he didn't cry, but quietly wrote a poem for Sima Xiangru.

Baitouge

Like snow on the mountain, as bright as the moon in the clouds.

I heard that you have two hearts, so I came to break up with you.

Today is like the last party, and tomorrow we will break up.

I moved my feet slowly along the edge of the road, and my past life flowed like water in a ditch, never returning.

This is sad, when you get married, you don't have to cry;

I am full of thinking that if I marry a person with a heart, I can love each other and be happy forever.

What bamboo roll, what fish tail.

Men should attach importance to friendship, and there is no money to compensate for the loss of sincere love.

When Sima Xiangru got this poem, he was embarrassed to recall the day when they fell in love. In the end, they didn't turn their backs on Zhuo Wenjun, but made up, which was a slightly happy ending.

Princess Yicheng

Li Shangqiu, Princess of Yicheng, is the second daughter, but her mother is not Queen Wei, so her treatment is lower than other princesses. She was originally Princess Yi 'an, and was promoted to Princess Yi 'cheng after Li Xian ascended the throne.

Although he is a golden branch, he is not as free as ordinary people in marriage affairs.

However, it is one thing whether you can fall in love after marriage, whether the royal status is respected or not, and whether women's self-esteem is ignored or not.

Is it disappointing to expect too much?

When she found out that her husband was having an affair with her maid, she asked the eunuch to cut off her maid's "ears, nose" and Xu's hair. The princess may also like to engage in some performance art at ordinary times, and even let people cut off the skin of the woman's genitals and stick it on Pei Xun's face, and then shave Pei Xun's hair so that he can wear this dress to work. "This matter was decided by the court, and the current collectors were assembled, and everyone was also gathered.

This is a real "tear", and the onlookers have expressed their long knowledge. Because it was too much, it humiliated the royal family.

When the emperor knew about it, he demoted the princess. According to the Eighth Biography of the Book of the New Tang Dynasty, she was reduced from "monarch" to "princess". According to the Records of Chao Zheng and An Overview of Tan in Ancient and Modern Times, she was reduced from a princess to a monarch.

And Pei Xun is thick-skinned. After this ordeal, he has been living well, healthily and for a long time. When Princess Yicheng died, he married Tang Ruizong's daughter Princess Guo Xue.

Sun shou

Sun Shou, female, wife of Ji Liang, a powerful minister in the Eastern Han Dynasty. Liang Ji lived a distinguished and domineering life. But he is very afraid of his wife Sun Shou. Sun Shou looks beautiful and jealous, and has an affair with domestic slaves. This couple is evil, corrupt and extravagant. Later, in the political struggle, he committed suicide for fear of sin. In The Story of the Later Han Dynasty, Sun Shou is "beautiful and good as a demon, with a ponytail in his brow." Liang Ji was a famous minister in the Eastern Han Dynasty who was in charge of state affairs by his consorts. Liang Jia was very prominent in the late Eastern Han Dynasty. One of his sisters, two sisters are queens and six sisters are nobles. There are seven Marquis, two generals, three princesses and 57 other senior officials, such as ministers and generals. Liang Ji was an official for four emperors all his life and a general in power for more than 20 years. Three emperors were helped to the stage by him and one was poisoned by him. But it is such a domineering person, and sometimes he is shamelessly scolded, grabbed by the ear, and beaten to beg for mercy. His opponent is his wife Sun Shou.