Face up to your desires.

"You and I are all mortals, born in this world, running around all day long, not having a moment to spare..."

The song "Mortal Song" by Li Zongsheng sings the true feelings of the general public. Compared with our country's gods and goddesses do not eat earthly fire, the gods in Greek mythology are actually more like human beings, they all have their own desires, such as the queen of heaven, Hera, goddess of wisdom, Athena and the goddess of love, Aphrodite's apple dispute, the maddening Pandora's Box and the fascinating Cupid's arrow and so on. All of these stories bring out the humanity in these gods and make them feel more real and believable, rather than making them mountainous and untouchable. So, as a human being he has humanity, and with humanity comes desire. And what is desire? I would summarize it as "a person has a strong will to occupy the ideal things in his heart". If a person wants something ideal for himself, he will want to take it for himself. Auntie wants to dance, athletes want to win gold medals, students want to get scholarships, teachers want to teach, etc. are all their own desires. As a person with desire is very normal, we need to recognize their own desires, face up to their own desires. Only after facing up to their own desires, they can know what they want, so that they can continue to try to know what they are suitable for, their own life will not be lost.

? Whenever someone mentions the word desire, as if it is a pejorative, whether in front of everyone or in their own hearts refuse to objectively recognize their own desires. The most basic desire is to eat and sleep after birth, and after adulthood is to reproduce, which is innate, no matter who can not escape the basic desire. If anyone can say that he does not need basic desires, then he is not a human being. On top of these basic desires are the higher desires that develop later in life, such as going to a prestigious school, living in a big house, and becoming a rich man. There are two general causes of advanced desires, one is the active comparison between people, which is known as other people's children. One is the active comparison between people, which is known as "other people's children". Parents see that other people's children are so good and ask their own children to match them, which is now known as "chicken child". The other is a passive social trend. For example, we all know the "inside scroll". When an ordinary post attracts many master's degree holders and even doctors to compete for it, can you still have the mentality of not caring about your own business? "Trees want to be quiet, but the wind does not stop" is the truth, even if you do not want to have so many desires, but when you enter the community to watch your classmates, the hair of the small are successful, you will really not touch a little bit of it? Therefore, when you have a lot of desire, desire is a kind of motivation to stimulate your heart. Though desire is a kind of motivation, it can also be a kind of resistance. The story of "greed is not enough to swallow the elephant" is a very good illustration of this truth. So whether desire is a driving force or resistance depends on whether you work hard for it rather than being obsessed with it.

When the heart of the desire, need to do more than just practice but also need to practice consistently. You can't just back off when things get tough, and the desire is worn out. If that's the case, then the desire isn't strong enough, and it's not a good desire for you. At the same time, they also need to control the desire, do not be swallowed by the desire, if the desire to produce and their own goals deviated from the desire to become a slave, all the harm but no good. Those who are caught in the big tiger, small flies are not swallowed by their own desire.

Here, we put forward a clear opposition to the "survival of heaven and human desire" this sentence. If people do not have desires, the consequences will be very serious. To a lesser extent, they will not only become less motivated and less hardworking, but also lose the joy of being a human being, and even more will lose the anger of the human being. To a greater extent, the marriage rate and fertility rate of the people in the society will be greatly reduced to enter a low desire society, and then the country will have no successor. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need, and then you have to pay for the services you need.

Therefore, I hope that people will not run away from their own desires, recognize them, face them squarely, and make them the driving force for their own upward mobility, and strive to pursue their own better tomorrow.