What kind of life will you live, mainly depends on yourself, want to be good, want to be yourself, want not to look at the face of others, you have to hold the chips, if you are unarmed, then what do you have to live with dignity?
I have repeatedly emphasized that women do not see themselves because of gender, the world will not be because you are a woman on your tolerance, for today's society, people are only poor and rich points, then you want to live in a dignified and honorable, or stingy searching and calculating their own?
People in the young every choice is enough to affect the rest of your life, you are twenty years old, obsessed with love, full of thought is to marry a good man, so that the marriage is free from the rest of the life of the hardship and suffering, but the good man is too rare, there is a are in demand. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
Looking at those who have reached the middle age, still can live a free and easy woman, are holding 3 "trump cards"
Pay attention to health
This morning in the microblogging brushed to a blog post, the title of the article is "your current savings enough for you to stay in the ICU ward a few days? How many days will you stay in the ICU?" After finding out the approximate cost, combined with my paypal balance, I only have enough for two days.
Some people really work too hard, working day and night, going to work at nine o'clock and getting off at one or two o'clock in the evening, and then coming home to wash their faces and go to bed, but it feels like they're only squinting a little bit to get up and the alarm is ringing again. They don't want to make themselves so tired, but life forces you to take health for money.
Many of the post-90s don't dare to go to the medical checkup for fear of really finding out what's wrong with them, so they just pretend they don't know, and ignorance is a kind of happiness.
No matter what stage of life you are in, health is a top priority, especially for people who are older, have a strong body, you can live happily.
Having a sizable savings
Materials are the capital you need to do whatever you want. Married life, you don't want to be angry with your mother-in-law, don't want to be treated as air by your husband, don't want to be aggrieved when things go wrong, then you have to have money. If your husband's monthly salary to pay all kinds of loans, you have to rely on your income in order to eat, then he dared to be angry with you? Your mother-in-law dare to make things difficult for you?
Women must have their own jobs, even if it brings you a meager income every month, it is also the money you earn on your own, mosquitoes are small is also a piece of meat, deposits are accumulated, when your savings from the beginning of the slowly rose to nine, from five broken to six, then your bottom will be more and more full.
The woman with savings, her mental outlook is very confident, because her life has the ability to resist risk, in case the marriage changes, she can rely on themselves to live the rest of their lives.
Have your own circle
Here I would like to advise married women a word, never let your life around the family kitchen, and do not let your center of gravity is only left with your husband and children, your life should not live for others.
I've seen a lot of women, when young, quit their jobs at home to raise their children, and quietly run everything at home, you're so pay for a man to be able to fight for a career without worries, he is more and more successful, you are happy at the same time also produced a worry, because you and his gap opened up too much, and he went home one day later than the other, the more stingy communication, you want to take the initiative to start the conversation, in addition to the children you simply can not find other topics. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
You should have your own circle and work, leisure and your old sister about shopping, hiking, square dancing is also a good choice, so that you do not have to close themselves in the home, full of thoughts about what he is doing.
Middle age, on behalf of your life and into a new stage, many things can be put back a little bit, has been stereotyped things don't get entangled in it again, there are other wonderful waiting for you to enjoy.
The rhythm of life has always been compact can slow down the pace, more for their own sake, more for the future plans, do a good job of the original accumulation, you can live free of spontaneity.