People are sentient animals, and they will be obsessed with it, reluctant to go, indecisive and hesitant. This is the so-called time when they can't let go, including family ties, and have to make a choice.
People who can let go are brave, at least they dare to give up. Regardless of feelings, break with your former self and dare to break away from convention. I have to say, it really takes courage. Throughout the ages, people who have achieved something are those who dare to change and know how to pick up and put down. It is full of wisdom, and it is not as simple as imagined.
Ordinary people in the secular world are mediocre all their lives. They lose themselves for others, feel complacent and feel great about themselves. This is also a weakness, a sad place, and it is only self-deception. Can't put it down, stand still, like a donkey mill.