Not good. Shy boys are often introverted. This type of boy is not good at communicating with others and will miss many opportunities.
Shy boys may think it’s okay when they are in adolescence, but once they go out to work and enter the society, this character will suffer a lot. Maybe you are a very real person at heart, but because of you You are not good at expressing yourself, so it seems that you are very timid, incompatible with others, and unable to integrate into that atmosphere. After a long time, others will not be willing to contact you. Even if there are many opportunities in front of you, you will not dare to Go ahead and try. If you don’t believe in yourself, others won’t want to spend that time and effort getting to know you, so boys who are more optimistic and cheerful are more attractive.
My younger brother is a very shy person. He has no independent opinions and dare not speak out his own thoughts. Even when he is with his family, he is the same unless he is with him. He only speaks out when pressed. He is very introverted, so sometimes it gives me a headache when I see him. As a boy who is so quiet and silent, I don't know what to do in the future.
He is about to graduate from technical secondary school and needs to intern for half a year. My mother asked me to help him find a job outside to cope with the internship. I personally took him to interview several jobs and asked him what he thought about these jobs. He can tell me whatever he thinks, but I feel helpless. He does the work, so I don’t think it can be of any use. I didn’t dare to say a word during the interview. I only discuss salary and benefits with others. Yes, so what’s the point of being so shy? You’ll blush when talking to others.
I found a job for him that paid well, and after a week of doing it, I called his classmate to come over and do it. His classmate had a fever for three days at work, so my brother went with his classmate to see a doctor. The next day, his boss informed them both on WeChat that they should not come to work. Although he was paid his salary, he lost one day's salary and then deleted him.
He sent me a message telling me that the boss didn’t want him anymore. I asked him why he didn’t want you to work. Aren’t you doing a good job? He said he didn't know what was going on. He didn't dare to ask why he was fired, and he didn't dare to ask what happened when his salary was reduced. Later, he had no choice but to take him to find a job. He was not satisfied even after looking for him. He didn't want to work in the factory or work overtime... …I didn’t want to care about him anymore and let him find his own job. I didn’t care whether he was free. He played games with his classmates in the dormitory for a week, or I pushed him to find a job. He finally found a job in the bakery. Work as an apprentice in the shop.
He didn’t say many words at the end of the day. Unless I asked him in person, he didn’t answer. It was really annoying to answer every question, but I had to worry about him because I was afraid that he would be alone outside. I don’t even know if I’ve gone astray or been deceived, and I won’t tell anyone what’s on my mind.
Shy boys should be more sunny and lively, be bolder, and practice their eloquence. In fact, there is really nothing to be afraid of. As long as you want to change yourself, you can definitely do it.