On the road of love, love is love, and not loving is not loving; In a person's heart, if you love someone, then this person is the most important person in his heart; He will not do anything to hurt his lover, nor will he do anything to betray his lover; But if a person doesn't care about his lover at all, but contacts his predecessor; Then it can be said that his lover is worthless in his heart; In his mind, his predecessor is everything, everything; Because you don't love someone, it's impossible to keep in touch after separation.
As a woman, your husband has no normal contact with his predecessor; This shows that in your husband's heart, he loves his predecessor deeply and doesn't love you at all; Because he doesn't love you, he doesn't care whether you hurt or not when he contacts his ex. And he contacted his predecessor because his love for his predecessor has always been there; So in his mind, you are compared with your predecessor; You are so insignificant, but his predecessor is worth a thousand dollars; So how can it be normal in this case?
Second, it shows that your husband still wants to have a moment of happiness with his ex.
Some people, obviously separated from a person, still have a certain affection for that person because of their own hearts; So I already have a family and a happy future; But because I am with my lover every day, I feel very boring and boring; So at this time, I will think about the person who has been hiding in my heart, and I will think about revisiting the old dreams with each other and having a good time; This is a typical meal to eat, pot to see; Because life has no passion, you will want to find excitement.
As a woman, your husband has no normal contact with his predecessor; Because it shows that your husband still wants to have a moment of happiness with his predecessor, because he and his predecessor don't care about doing it again; So when he is with you, he faces your face every day, and he is a little tired of losing his beauty; So at this time, he wants to contact his predecessor; Perhaps as long as there is time, two people will get together, feel the good times in the past and taste the most colorful good days together; So this kind of behavior is not normal at all, it will only bring you harm.
Third, women indulge men too much and are not cruel to themselves.
On the road of marriage, since two people are destined to be together, they should trust each other for life. But mutual trust has a bottom line; If a person, his lover, is on the verge of making a mistake, but you still trust him and always feel that he will not do anything wrong to you, then this is an indulgence; A person, if you indulge your lover, you are cruel to yourself; Because one day, your lover will do something that betrays you and hurts you.
As a woman, your husband has no normal contact with his predecessor; If you continue to keep them in touch, the result will be quite cruel; Maybe your husband just betrayed you and did something with his ex; But when it is finished, it will come back to you; But if you are afraid, your husband will continue to be with his ex, and finally he will abandon you and choose to be with his ex; So, woman, don't pamper her man too much, but be careful, your marriage will last longer; Being too indulgent equals being cruel to yourself.
Is the contact between husband and ex normal? To be sure, it is not normal; First of all, explain that your husband still loves his predecessor, because if your husband doesn't love his predecessor, then he won't be with you, and he will still contact his predecessor; Secondly, it shows that your husband still wants to have a moment of happiness with his ex and enjoy a happy time. Finally, a woman, don't be too accommodating to her man, otherwise, the last thing that hurts is yourself; Sometimes, being strict with yourself is also responsible for your marriage.