Parents in, life still have a place to come; parents to go, life is only left to return.
The aging of parents, we are always negligent, can not see the process of their aging, but always in a moment, suddenly realized that they are really old, the body is no longer upright, the voice is no longer loud, and even like a small child, we have become very dependent on us.
How to be like a child, they love me as well, to properly filial piety to them? In addition to getting money, perhaps, to do the following points, is what they are most willing to see.
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Take a look at home, the company is the longest confession.
As a common laborer, if you don't work hard to "move bricks", you can't hold up a home, and accompanying your family is extraordinarily extravagant.
In order to make up for this regret, many people in the home to install the monitoring, homesick, want to parents, across the phone screen, look at home, look at the figure of parents.
Just, they do not know, parents will also often to the camera, like a child, what is the matter, we have to space with the child "chatter chatter": the home of the peanut harvest, the sun full of the entire yard; neighbors came to the door, but also brought some of their own planted vegetables; dad caught a big fish, excitedly holding the fish! The kids look ......
Only, more often than not, only their lonely figure, either sitting under the eaves of the house, or noiselessly carrying farming tools to push open the door to go out to work, after a long time, only slowly home ......
Parents old, work is no longer nimble, talk has become less, even love nagging mom, there is nothing to nag.
And all this, is not precisely because the child is no longer with the front? The so-called heavenly happiness, is nothing more than children and grandchildren, enjoy the knee.
Probably, all the parents are the same, as soon as they heard that the child is coming home, they will be happy, early to buy food, began to prepare a table full of meals, but also began to follow the network video, learn to do some fresh dishes to cater to the tastes of the children, fruits and snacks, also not to be left behind, as if New Year's.
The first time I saw a child, I was very happy to see him, but I was very happy to see him, and I was very happy to see him.
Even if the kids are always late and have to rush back after dinner, they are still satisfied.
So, if you have time, come home and visit.
02
Managing your own home is the best way to honor your parents.
I don't know why the mother in law looks at the son-in-law, the more she looks at him, the more she likes him. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that with your own personalized products.
Until I became a mother and gave birth to a daughter, I finally realized that my own precious daughter in the palm of my hand will be entrusted to this stranger.
In ancient times, the princess was married, as the mother, no matter how reluctant, will also repeatedly urge the daughter, do not go back to her mother's home. Because, once back, it means being repudiated by the husband's family, and if it involves a political marriage, it is an unforgivable crime.
The poem "The Peach is young, burning its splendor, the son of the return, suitable for the family", but also people's expectations and wishes for marital bliss. I hope that the daughter of the marriage, from now on to become the master of other people's homes, and manage their own small home, is the best filial piety to their parents.
Thousands of years have passed, but this simple wish has not changed. More and more parents, choose in the son and daughter into a family, launched their lives, let go and let them live their own small life, said the most words are: "you live happily, we are also happy."
So, when talking about marriage, you must be careful; and once you enter the marriage, you must cherish, those who are quick to break up the decision to hurt not only the two people, but also the hearts of both parents.
03
Learn to understand your parents and respect their lifestyle.
"The homeland is hard to leave." Is a knot in the heart of many parents.
It's hard to get a firm foothold outside, to take mom and dad from the countryside home to live together, the intention is to let them enjoy the happiness, but I did not expect to become a kind of confinement.
Strolling in the park, dancing in the square, shopping in the supermarket, these convenient and cozy, not every aging parents can understand, seamless.
The mountains and waters of their hometowns, the townspeople, the pueblos and the markets, are their lingering thoughts, and it is the place where they can make their minds at ease.
So, they always want to go back home, even if they can't argue with their children, but also will not stay idle: either continue to do the line of vendors, or to open up the land and planting vegetables, or also to apply for cleaning or janitorial.
It seems that only by doing something can they feel at ease, and feel that they do not owe their children.
Some people do not understand, that stubbornly want to follow their own old ways to live, really to their own "disgrace"; there are also people to express support and understanding, for example, a video shows, the son drove a BMW car to help his mother drag eggplant and pepper to the market stalls, or regularly drive a BMW, to help their mothers go to sell scrap.
Parents are old and can't make much money. But hard work has been carved into their lives, rely on their own labor to earn money, earn how much does not matter, earn is a self-confidence, a self-respect and self-fulfillment.
So, understand their various "incredible" practices, obey their ideas, and let go of the way they want to live, parents will feel completely free.
Conclusion: In fact, filial piety parents, do not need us to do something special.
Money, enough on the line; meals, tea on the line; clothing, to be able to cold on the line; housing, do not have to be how luxurious, to be able to shelter from the wind and rain on the enough.
What parents need most is our most sincere love and care, there is a request must be "should", to become their backbone and pillar, so that no matter when they are at any time, a turn, we are in, it is enough.
Author: As the wind is light as a cloud.
Your happiness, my blessings.
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