If a woman wants to bring her own light and let others revolve around you, she needs your own strength and dazzling.
However, many women can't learn to behave gracefully, take their time, teach by example and be generous.
Why can't we do this? It is because people often think that men are outside the home and women are inside.
This prejudice makes many women unconsciously bring themselves into the role of the weak, willingly draw a cage and confine themselves in the small world of the family, just like a bird in a cage, who has never seen the outside world.
Few women can stand on their own feet. How can they sublimate their temperament if they have never seen these worlds?
In this society, everyone wants to walk in front of others, and for their own interests, they are gradually blacked out by this vat.
In order to make others envy themselves, or the ultimate pursuit of material life, many women try their best to disguise themselves as upper-class people, which is criticized in life? Fake delicious? It's everywhere.
However, even if they have something that others can't reach, they still have no temperament to control.
The charm that women exude from the inside out is not reflected in disguise, but precipitated by broadening their horizons for a long time.
No matter how simple she dresses, she is naturally associated with nobility, and those ugly pretenders, money worshippers, no matter how glamorous their appearance, still can't get rid of vulgarity.
A woman who has seen the world has a unique charm, which many men can't compare with, whether it is self-cultivation or treating people.
Even if they are rich, they are too lazy to show off, because they are the focus wherever they go.
So-called? Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million? .
What is skin? In the world, it is desire and the pursuit of vulgarity.
A woman's skin is important, but it is nothing to the soul. Soul is the foundation of a person, and it is what you need to cultivate most.
There is a saying in Han Han's pen:? If you do nothing all day, you will accomplish nothing. Only those who can use their bodies can become talents. ?
How to be a woman who has seen the world?
You need to move, strive to be independent, stop relying on others, and let your ideals illuminate reality. When you reach the top, everyone will look to you.
So, if you are still far from the life you want, you should speed up your steps, and then walk out of the inner closure and move towards a bigger stage.
Put all the love and hate in the world into your eyes and try all the ups and downs in the world, so that you can see what you don't know, improve your pattern, forget your identity as a woman and release your light.
Why do women who have seen the world bring their own light? These three points are naturally commendable.
Life is a long road, with gains and losses, giving up and getting along. This is normal, but too many people struggle between picking up and putting down.
Because there is no vision, because there is no pattern, we can only be satisfied with the present, but we cannot see the future development.
Everything has a cause and effect, and today's loss is tomorrow's greater gain, which is also an optimistic attitude towards life.
A woman who has seen the world will never stop at the present and will never look at problems with a secular eye. Many times, I always laugh and can't hold my breath.
Emotionally, I dare to love and hate. Since I can afford it, I will definitely let it go. When you meet your heart, cherish it. If you miss it, get out in time. It's not like a little girl's family loves Lacrimosa for love's sake and can't move on.
In fact, this is a kind of free and easy, a kind of mentality that can't be met.
Women who have seen the world are very measured, have clear priorities, and know when to do what, which is unmatched by ordinary women.
Of course, it is not to let you live mercilessly, but not to leave an obsession in your heart and cling to the past, then you are bound to miss more beautiful things in the future.
The shelf life of women is always much shorter than that of men. Maybe you still have an admirable appearance, but after thirty or forty years old, many things will be involuntary.
Then why not work hard while you are young and give up what you should give up, so that the rest of your life will always pay off.
When you live freely and don't cling to meaningless things, your body will have its own light.
Independence is a breakthrough and the most radiant way for a woman.
Many women live under the protection of others all their lives, relying on their parents when they are young, their husbands when they grow up, and their children and grandchildren when they are old. This kind of life is on thin ice.
Because you can't support yourself, who will help you when you lose your arm?
The world is intertwined and complicated. Only oneself can really help. Only when you are strong and independent will you not be eliminated by this society.
It is not easy for a woman to be independent, because she is emotionally fragile, and it is difficult to cross it alone when encountering setbacks, but if you really cross the mountain, you will find that you are so strong.
When a woman's courage and self-confidence are gradually cultivated, the light will naturally come.
Independent women exude charm, which can only be seen from a distance and cannot be used for fun.
I have been to various occasions, met various leaders and enjoyed the scenery around the world. A full life comes independently, which is also the first step to broaden my horizons and the world.
Don't pin the happiness of the rest of your life on others. To others, you will always be just a Tutsi flower that attracts people's breath. Only yourself, you are a rose with its own light.
A woman who has seen the world will not easily expose her personality and characteristics, and she is often low-key outside.
It's not that they won't show off, but they don't want to show off, because they know why the light is still deliberately blooming and demeaning themselves.
Hiding one's own strength is a kind of accomplishment. People who have never seen the world are very grandiose and try their best to let others know that they are rich. This is stupid and pedantic.
An introverted woman can reassure her lover, make her friends give up, make life smooth and make the world full of love. This is the woman who can really live.
I have seen too many women dress themselves up and build themselves up with all kinds of gorgeous clothes and expensive jewels, but their hearts are extremely empty.
Because there is nothing attractive in it, I wrap my pale heart with a gorgeous appearance.
But such mental poverty can be seen through at a glance. Although it is eye-catching, it is temporary after all.
Those women who have seen the world never deliberately show anything, but they bring their own light, which makes people blind.
Women need to look at the world more and cultivate their own temperament and disposition in order to make themselves shine.
In the final analysis, a woman's attraction is never achieved by her beauty, but by her inner self.
No matter how beautiful your face is, one day your age will drop, your color will drop, and you will love to relax. When you are no longer beautiful, where is your charm?
Outstanding internal quality, low-key, introverted, independent, affordable and relaxed, such a woman is full of light in anyone's eyes, which makes people reluctant to live up to it.
So women, don't spend time on those meaningless things. What you have to do is to improve your inner self, see the world more, and cultivate your inner self first, so that you can become attractive.