People should live a wonderful life, even in their old age, let themselves live a wonderful life, 72-year-old Auntie Leung said that no partner, no dancing in their old age, they are not aggrieved, living a very happy life. Here's a look at Auntie Liang's experience.
Confessor: Auntie Liang
When I was 50 years old, my partner because of a car accident, and then left me forever, he just passed away, I feel very difficult, as if the world has lost its color, and every day, we are in a trance of life, I don't know what I am doing? Good thing my children are very obedient, in my sad time with me, in their company, I spent that difficult time, behind the children grew up, also set up their own families, and then I live alone, they are called me to go over to live, but I do not want to, because I am very afraid of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts, I would rather live alone, as long as the children live well on the line.
Later, my children suggested that I find another partner, saying that it is now very popular to find a partner, as long as the other party is good to themselves, I think this idea is good, then I began to find myself a partner, want to find a suitable partner.
In order to find a suitable partner, I have to go to the square square dance, because square dance can contact a lot of men, a lot of men come to the square dance is also to find a partner.
Later I met Uncle Yang, Uncle Yang in character with me is quite compatible, but we did not get a license, because his children do not want us to get a license, think their father's salary is relatively high, worry that I have impure motives, covet their money, and I am a person of thought is also more feudal, I think the two people must be together with a license, or else it will be the joke of the other people, I am entangled in the long time, I want to separate with the I want to separate from Uncle Yang, but I don't want to give up, because I really think that Uncle Yang is very suitable for me, and finally I am still brave to live with Uncle Yang.
The two years I lived with Uncle Yang, I did not have a good life, I thought I had found a companion for the day on the wonderful, and finally found that it is still so painful, Uncle Yang is very strong, everything to control, hope that other people are listening to him, and he controlled too much, usually I want to visit my children, he did not agree, finally I can not stand, and then separated from him, I feel that life is not what I want, not free at all. I think that life is not what I want, not free at all.
Later, I talked to my female friends who were dancing with me, and found that although they had a partner and were married with a license, they were not happy after marriage, and even suffered a lot because they were already married with a license and had a lot of problems that were not easy to deal with, and I was glad that I didn't get married with Uncle Yang with a license, or else I wanted to get a divorce.
After experiencing Uncle Yang, I found it difficult to find a suitable partner, many men partnering life just want to find a free nanny, not willing to take care of the responsibility, they are also afraid of women's motives are not pure, worried about their own losses, they only want to get the woman's pay, but do not want to be good to the woman, this way of partnering is impossible to happiness.
After separating from Uncle Yang, I don't go to the square to dance, because I think it's good to be alone, and I don't want to get married again, and before that, dancing is to find a suitable person to get married again, and now I think it's not necessary, and then I started to do things I like, and I planted a lot of flowers and grasses and raised two small dogs, and I usually have time to go to travel with my friends and make a lot of friends. I've made a lot of like-minded friends, and on weekends we cook together, and it's a very simple life, but it's a very happy one.
A lot of people want to introduce me to someone, but I refused, because I do not think it is necessary, a friend of mine is very envious of my current state, I think I'm very good at running the old age, envy me every day so happy, in fact, I think the reason why I'm like this, because I know what I want? I think I want to be happy in my old age, from not partnering, not dancing to begin with, I have my own pension, and also have their own house, a person living in style, do not want to look at other people's faces, do not have to find a partner to go to the square dance, because a lot of men are very selfish, they just want to find free babysitters, and I do not want to that kind of life.
Now I live a very happy life, a lot of people envy my current lifestyle, I feel that I have this age, do not want to condemn themselves, they live a happy life is good, do not care so much, we are living for themselves, not living in other people's concepts.
Auntie Leung's concept is very good, she saw the truth of many elderly people hitchhiking, know what they want? Know how to please yourself, no longer hope for remarriage, and they have the conditions to make a good life, do not want to settle for life, in fact, a person can also be very wonderful, as long as you love yourself can be, there is no fixed model of life, they are happy on the best model.