Many middle-aged and elderly people are very obsessed with health, some even go to the square dance every day, and the square dance is also a very good way to decompression and relaxation, some middle-aged and elderly people will even hold regular competitions, and in order to practice the dance will often have the opposite sex of the dance partner. That and the opposite sex dance partner contact for a long time, whether it will have an impact on the family? Listen to the real voice of a 54-year-old woman!
My name is Liu Mingxin, this year 54 years old, I was very young when I like to dance, but also participated in the dance team, and then married to my husband, but also often go to the square dance, I think the dance really makes people both relaxed and healthy, there is no better way to leisure than it. Because we practiced dancing together, I also had a dance partner who was average looking, and I never thought of having anything to do with him, and my husband was never suspicious of me.
But a woman downstairs divorced her partner and got together with her dance partner, so my husband had some suspicions about me, and I had no extra thoughts of my own, so I wasn't afraid to be skeptical. Hubby advised me not to go dancing, but I walk upright, what am I afraid of? I think my husband thinks too badly of people and has too little trust in our relationship.
I work well with my dance partner and I don't have much personal interaction, so because of this my husband and I have had many fights and even started a cold war.
It is also in the cold war, our dance partners party, just I also came to participate in the party, the party when we drink a little more wine, and then the dance partner took the initiative to invite me to dance, the atmosphere is really good, I am a little bit of floating, and the dance partner is a little bit different, he took the initiative to put his arm around my waist, the hand also keep touching, to be honest, I am a little bit intoxicated, I want to hold him, but in my intoxication, look at him carefully, this is the first time. When I was intoxicated, I took a closer look at his face, and I instantly sobered up, and I hurriedly left with the excuse that I had something to do.
Later I reflected on this, I really do not have any extra ideas about the dance partner, and the dance partner is usually very disciplined, but we are, after all, men and women are not the same, really contact for a long time, it is inevitable that impulses will occur, so my husband's previous concerns are very normal.
After this incident, I took the initiative to make up with my husband and assured him that he would keep a distance from his dance partner. After this incident, I also paid more attention to grasp the distance between me and the opposite sex, and I feel that it is necessary to give you some reflections through my things. If you are still young and can toss, then you do not have to pay special attention, but if you have a stable family, that and the opposite sex contact is really necessary to keep the distance, after all, if you are not careful what happened, ruined the rest of their lives, it is not worth the loss.
Many times things happen that are difficult for us to control, for example, I have always felt that I am very able to keep a distance from the opposite sex, but if my opposite-sex dance partner is very handsome, I do not guarantee that I will not fall that day, men and women are attracted to the opposite sex is supposed to be the nature of the world, so do not go to the challenge of their own instincts, but take the initiative to reject the temptation.