Look at the children and parents of the emotional how, look at the children of the parents is how to take care of, there are happy, there are not happy, the key is to look at the children it.
Recently, there was another "81-year-old living alone in the old man's house smell, pushed open the door and found the old man died more than two months" such a thing, when the old man in the mid-autumn already had a premonition, and even wrote a suicide note. However, her children are not in their own side, until the odor was found dead, has been more than two months later.
In fact, many parents of only children, their children are not in their own side, the child in the city to fight, their own life in the old home, there is a companion and the old partner can be dependent on each other, there is no companion, then only their own lonely.
Even if the children to give more money, such a life is more painful, can not be counted on what happiness, after all, people are old, the most hopeful, not to be a lot of money, but want to children a lot of love a lot of love ......
Also the elderly, live in a nursing home, the results of the experience of the "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a pair of shoes, and you'll be able to get a good look at the shoes.
While most nursing homes, such things do not happen, in which you can get more professional care, but once something happens, but no one will heart you.
For example, the elderly fell, may wait until the discovery of the time to deal with, and deal with the time, but also perfunctory, first find the children of the elderly, the children agreed to call an ambulance, etc., just so that you can take less responsibility.
Eating and drinking are taken care of, and there are also specialized caregivers to take care of them, but the emotional needs are never satisfied by ordinary caregivers.
Happy? From a subsistence point of view, it may be good, but emotionally, it is still somewhat empty.
As for those only children who are able to have their children with them, they are not so happy in their old age.
In ordinary life, they may not have any problems, but once they are sick and hospitalized, only the only child, they are facing these things, very strenuous, and there is no one to help bear the burden of care, naturally, the mind will not be good.
"There's no such thing as a filial son before a long illness," and if you're not an only child, at least sharing with each other might be okay. But if it is an only child, the child does not care, the evening is very bleak ......
Of course, to be able to do their best to take care of their parents, we can also see, these only child from childhood to receive parental care and education, know how to be grateful and pay back, will not abandon their parents to go to other cities to live alone, but rather Willing to pay time, energy, care for their parents, accompanied by their parents ...... have such an only child parents, the later years are relatively happy.
We will also have the day to become old, so treat your parents well, but also treat your future self.