I think this is an inevitable phenomenon of socio-economic development. As the process of urbanization is getting faster and faster. A lot of rural land has been turned into factories. Many farmers who are used to farming on this land have lost the land that has been durably farmed for generations, and these people are told to do other modern jobs and not immediately, but only those that do not require a long period of training to learn. And those tend to be the more dangerous and lower paying jobs. What woman wants her man to die suddenly when she needs him the most. So it's understandable that women don't choose these types of men very often. Of course, there are many common reasons why there are more and more leftover men in rural areas. It boils down to these points:
One, the family economy is relatively backward. This refers to those who are left, rather than their own originally wanted to be celibate. In this modern age, there is less and less land available for cultivation in the countryside due to the relatively low prices of agricultural products, coupled with a burgeoning rural population. On average, each person probably gets less than an acre of land. Let's take the rice planting. Even if five ripe a year (of course, this is impossible, in Hainan can not be done), a year to receive the grain converted into yuan can be how much money? It would be better to go out to work. But in addition to selling labor what other jobs do not require us to train on the job and relatively good wages? If you get sick, you may not have much money left at the end of the day, and the type of work is also dangerous. For example, construction workers, general laborers, porters ...... If you don't have money, what woman would want to suffer with you? The people are all going to the high place, not many women are the Virgin Mary, willing to come to you.
Two, there are more brothers. Marriageable women nowadays are more or less only children mostly, and even if they are not, there are fewer brothers and sisters in the family. Originally, it is not well adapted to the large family. And if you have a lot of brothers, it is easy to divide the family property in the future, and the daily living conflicts should be inevitable. I'm tired of thinking about it. The fact is, the fact that the company is not a member of the public, and the fact that the company is not a member of the public is not a problem for the company.
Three, personal health problems. We all know that since ancient times heroes love beautiful women. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. I don't think there are many people who are against it. But don't forget. Women also have the right to color. Many because of the wealth or fame married to the ugly man of the woman later is not the white man to hook away? For example, the Internet is still hot rumor so-and-so cuckold incident. But in fact, to put it bluntly, beauty pageant is to choose health. A lot of older young people in rural areas may be engaged in long hours of work that is more harmful to the body, resulting in the body more or less this and that occupational disease, or resulting in the appearance of the body become less attractive to the opposite sex. For example, baldness, face vicissitudes, body dry and thin ...... These obviously affect a woman's sensory experience. Many women should have also once silently wished in their hearts, "God, please give me a lean and strong man." Men will not be able to lay their hands on a woman who is unfeminine, and why shouldn't women be the same for a man who is unmanly?
Fourth, older age. It is said that men are very specialized. Always like seventeen or eighteen-year-old girl. Is not a woman dedicated? "Since ancient Chang'e love teenagers." It is said that "thirty like a wolf, forty like a tiger, fifty sitting on the ground can suck earth." If you're getting married, you have to think long term, right? Don't look at the present is very fierce, to their own 40 or 50 years old when they are in their prime, but the husband went to bed with a dead shrimp. Think about how uninteresting life is.
Fifth, the character is too introverted. There are many introverted people, but everything is too much is not good. Some people are more introverted in public occasions, the heart is afraid. But in private, two people chatting opportunity to rely on a few cups of tea can brag to the sky is broken. Originally, most women like to chat. Why would there be a long-winded woman this saying, but no long-tongued husband's saying. It is said that a woman five hundred ducks, if a woman all day long to you clamor you do not put a fart. Do you think this woman is air or what? Since you can't afford it, don't talk about it. Still want to keep each other forever. Who wants to? But this rural people are relatively more introverted may have something to do with the environment. For example, some single-family villages. I guess there are only three people in the family. Parents plus this marriageable man. These three know each other so well. I know what you know. I know what you know. Even before you open your mouth, I already know you're going to say that. In this case, words are almost superfluous. Besides, who else is there to deal with after serving that acreage every day? Crops don't talk, and vegetables even less so. The only ones that grunt are the pigs. But how much can you talk to a pig? And so, according to Darwin's law of use-ins and use-outs, the countryside, especially the less populated countryside, is becoming more and more introverted.
Sixth, most of the rural living environment is not ideal. Many villages can only be seen from afar and not to be played with. From a distance, the mountains around the water, dark flowers. Close to see the sewage flow, chicken manure everywhere. This makes the clean city woman or has been accustomed to the city life of rural women how to make up their minds to spend the rest of their lives in such a dirty little place. Moreover, there was not much space to play at night. In addition to the moonlight night around the brighter, but also dare not go far. There might be some older male pervert hiding under the thick woods in the distance. The city is different. Going to the supermarket, shopping, dancing in the square, getting up early in the morning to run will not worry about being raped. There are many women in the city, and even the migrant workers who can't hold back have hair salon women to block. One simply didn't have to worry about it.
Probably these six points, I think the rural older leftover men as long as they try to solve these six points in one of the points or a few points to get out of the single estimated no problem. Even the leftover men may also find a lot of men than their own actually much worse but people still left to embrace the right and left. I don't know much about this. Or you can ask these people for advice. Maybe they have some top tips.