We should firmly believe that man can conquer nature, study hard, work hard and create infinite value in a limited life, so that life is meaningful.
I used to believe that people's fate was fixed. When I was a child, my father often said, "There is always something to be done in life, and there is no need to force it all the time." "Life is only eight buckets of rice, and it is not enough to travel all over the world." These two sentences let me enter my mind and become the highest criterion for being a man.
My father believes in Buddhism. One year, he took me to the temple to burn incense. When going down the mountain, a fortune teller on the roadside insisted on making a divination for his father. I don't know, it's nothing. My father asked him with a grain of salt to tell me how many people there were in my family, and he was right. He also said that I was a student, and I had to go to school when I lost all my money, and I succeeded in the future. His father happily gave him twenty cents and then hurried home to do farm work.
Since then, my father rarely asked me to do farm work, urging me to read books and do my homework every day. I didn't expect my grades in primary school and junior high school to be in the top five in my class. After graduating from junior high school, I was successfully admitted to the top class of key high schools. 1982, I was admitted to the university, took off my agricultural skin and became a cadre who ate state grain. In retrospect, I have to thank the fortune teller. If he hadn't said I had a future, my dad wouldn't have let me study, but would have let me learn carpentry or work in Guangdong and other places. Of course, I'm not saying that being a carpenter and working is hopeless, but that fortune-telling changed my father and my life.
A colleague of mine, in his fifties, suffers from diabetes, heart disease, hyperlipidemia, hypertension and other diseases. Now he doesn't drink alcohol and tobacco, and the food he eats has many taboos. Western medicine continues every day, and there are not many comfortable days all the year round. He often tells me that God has given everyone many things. Before the age of 50, he lived a drunken life every day and had no scruples. He used up all the food, drink and smoke that God gave him, and there was nothing left. He's a model. Either he dies early or he limits your spending. I sympathize with him, but I think what he said has some truth. Maybe it's fate.
At ordinary times, I think that many people around me are alive and well, or they suddenly died in an accident, or they suddenly became seriously ill and never came back, or they were caught by greed and put in jail. I feel that there is a mysterious force controlling them. I know a leader who is red-faced, seldom gets sick, is as strong as an ox, works hard and is very kind to his friends. Everyone admits that he is a civil servant. Unexpectedly, he just turned 55 and suddenly developed malignant pancreatic cancer. He died less than half a year after treatment. Everyone feels sad and sad. This may be fate.
In life, there are many unexplained coincidences that no one can explain clearly. So, it's destiny takes a hand. In fact, the development of science and technology has proved that there is no scientific basis for fate without an immortal emperor, a monster and a savior. I used to believe that fate was predestined, and I made excuses for my success and failure. Now I believe that fate is in my own hands, and I can change it through hard work.
I'm Nong Liang, from my home, for reference only.
I quite agree with this statement, because my mother's experience illustrates this problem. My grandmother told me that my mother 1940 was born in a small town in Fuling, Sichuan in July. My family is very poor, and I rely on my grandparents to do some small business to maintain my family's life. When my mother was 7 years old, an old man from other places passed by and asked her for water. My mother warmly brought him a bowl of boiled water.
The old man drank the water, looked at his mother and said, "Little girl, you are a good man. It's a pity that your life as a child was not good. I haven't seen my family for many years and I will be bullied by others. " But in a few years, fate will arrange for you to meet your mother. You must seize this opportunity. If you encounter any trouble in the future, you will always be pleasantly surprised and live a long life. "Mom was confused at the time and didn't understand what he said at all, but the grandmother next to her secretly kept this in mind.
After a year, the small business at home really can't go on, and eating and drinking at home has become a big problem. So my grandfather had to go out to make a living alone, and my grandmother sold what little property she had, took her mother and three aunts to Chongqing and went to relatives who opened a cloth shop. Unexpectedly, I came to my relatives' home in Chongqing and found that there was a funeral at home. It turned out that the cloth shop was robbed by bandits and all the money was gone. Master was also killed by bandits. Misfortune falls from the sky, people can't protect themselves, and naturally they can't control the survival of grandma's family.
Desperate grandma had to sell her mother and three aunts to others and make a living by helping others. Mother was sold to a cigarette vendor, selling cigarettes in the street every day, barefoot in winter, and would be beaten and scolded if she made any mistakes. After five years, one day, my mother took her foster mother to the city to buy goods, and she accidentally found her grandmother in an alley. At this time, her mother rushed over desperately, grabbed grandma's skirt and said that she didn't want to go back to her family. This is probably what the old man said in those years: "If you don't see your family for many years, you will be bullied, but after a few years, fate will arrange for you to meet your mother."
At that time, the whole country had been liberated, and my mother was in primary school, 13 years old. One day, the school organized everyone to visit the Children's Palace in the city. There, my mother was hit hard on the forehead by a swing thrown by others and was suddenly rushed to a nearby hospital. Teachers and classmates thought she was dying. Unexpectedly, in less than two weeks, my mother was discharged alive.
1956 My mother took part in the work. One Saturday afternoon, she and a colleague went home by bus after work. The bus came and my colleague got on. When his mother got on the bus, an acquaintance at the station greeted her, and they chatted and missed the bus. As a result, the car fell into the river halfway and everyone died.
The above two things probably really answered what the old man said in the past: "If you encounter any trouble in the future, you will always be safe." .
Now my mother is over 80 years old, healthy and well-fed, which really corresponds to what the old man said: "People live a long life".
So I think, life is really destiny takes a hand.