Because the old man's life in his later years has become rich and he has his own ideas. Some people think, "The world is so big, I want to see it." Travel everywhere if you have nothing to do; Some want to get up in the morning to go shopping and buy food, and dance square dance at night; Some people stay at home, grow flowers, practice calligraphy and watch TV in pursuit of inner peace and stability. In short, they are free to control their old age and no longer revolve around their children.
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1) Don't care too much about your family. It doesn't matter what mode. It is important that old people and young people should communicate well.
Some young people like to take care of their children by themselves. They don't like old people to intervene, and they don't want to educate their children from generation to generation. On the contrary, they do it by themselves, because many old people tend to spoil their children and like to educate their children with outdated concepts.
If the old people want to help, they can chip in some money, so that the pressure on young people will be reduced and they will be grateful to their parents. In this way, the elderly can have their own free life without their own efforts, and there will be no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Moreover, children will be better educated, more in line with the trend of the times and closer to their parents.
2) If young people want old people to help them, then old people should try their best to help them.
After all, it is not easy for young couples to make money. If one is removed and one income is lost, the pressure will be even greater. Parents only think about their children's happiness. If their children are too busy at work and have to take care of them, the pressure can be imagined. So parents, help as much as possible.
3) Home and everything prosper, and the harmony of a family is the feng shui of a home.
Only when family members get along with each other in a civilized way, talking and laughing, will it bring good luck and let the family live a happier and healthier life.