Wen/Shen Shanshu
You're growing up and your parents are getting old, when you're running around for your dreams and your family, don't forget the parents who are waiting for you to come home for dinner.
A few days ago, Granny Liu, a widow in the family home, passed away. I saw her being carried out in a bag by the undertaker in a very small body, and my heart was slightly sad. She did not have relatives present to cry for her, nor did she have a favorite person to see her off, she was just a person who passed away suddenly, perhaps, death is a kind of relief for Liu, who has survived so many years alone with her illness and self-pity, and is over 85 years old. But if she has relatives and children, perhaps she will not end up in a miserable evening, not all day at home crying for death, not live so old and unsupported.
Grandma Liu was the next morning by the nanny found dead in bed at home, the neighbors heard all came to help, my mother and middle-aged aunts and old people to help burn paper money, the remains of the other people to help call the street staff and contact the funeral parlor to help give Grandma Liu scrubbed the body to change into decent clothes so that she can have the dignity of leaving. After many people came, we discussed the burial of Granny Liu, and after the clamor, silence returned. Not many people cared about her departure, and not many people regretted it, because those relatives who could care, regret, and cry for her, were gone.
Listening to my grandmother talk about the past of Grandma Liu, she is a foreigner, no relatives, no companion, when she was young, she lived a hard life, fortunately, there is a daughter very good behavior, but unfortunately, the daughter in the marriage because of an accident died, and his son-in-law left the family heartlessly. The woman did not have a grandchild and lost the dearest person around her. Since then, she has been living with her old partner.
The old man's legs are not convenient, so she took care of him, and the two of them are living together. But as time goes by, the old lady's partner is older than her, and she often hears her say that her partner is going to go away. A few years ago, her partner finally left, leaving her alone and miserable. After her partner passed away, the staff of the street office paid a woman to take care of her.
Now, Granny Liu passed away, her death is to remind us of the young people, some love, to repay in time, some words, to say before it is too late, while the parents are still alive, while the dearest people around them are still in the company, while the time is not old, the years green, those buried in the now stupid love words, those who want to do it late, but procrastinate on the action, must take advantage of the time, don't wait until the end of the things are different, and so on, you want to The most important thing to remember is that you have to be able to see the scenery with your favorite person holding hands, and that person, he is not there.
The light is fast and furious, and the years never stop for any one person. Rush another year, the year is coming to an end, think carefully, you years ago was not a bold statement that you want to take your parents to travel, even if it is just a stroll through the rapid development of the city; to buy new clothes for their parents, but because the parents said that enough to wear and delayed to buy; to teach their parents to play the phone so that they have fun, keep up with the pace of the young people, can always be ignored because of busy work; to say that often go home to see, but always Because this or that reason and forget.
At the end of the year, for those who work outside the home, it is to go home to accompany their parents, or not to go home, which more or less will be in a dilemma. The New Year is coming, but how many elderly people living alone at home watching the TV gala, but the heart is as empty as the room is cold and silent. Even the strongest people are vulnerable, not to mention the elderly. We young people will be lonely, will be afraid of loneliness afraid of no one to accompany, let alone a person living in the elderly. If you really can't go home this year, remember not to let your parents be lonely, especially if you are a single parent. If you can, I hope you will go home in the Spring Festival and tell your parents that you are doing quite well, maybe in a few years in your hometown.
Yesterday, I saw a video of a German Christmas advertisement on Weibo called "Going Home". The video is a short 2-minute one, but it tells the story of a lonely old man who falsely claims to have passed away, and sends a letter to his children in the hope that they will go home to be reunited for the holidays. My eyes were red after watching the video because time waits for no one. I am a child of a single parent, so I know better what companionship means to a mother.
When we were young, our parents sheltered us from the wind and rain, and when they are old, we can also accompany them to grow old healthily and happily. For the gradually aging parents, they do not need too much sound and fury, or glorious embellishments, they want, just real companionship. For parents, we can do these five more real things, so that accompaniment appears to be a long love:
1, the big commitment to refine into a small action
You may have said that the money to take your parents to travel abroad or to go to the domestic popular attractions, however, because they have been busy earning money and ignored, in fact, you can go to the popular attractions of the trip first temporary change into the surrounding attractions, not only convenient but also time-saving, but also to realize the It is convenient and time-saving, and also fulfill the promise. In my opinion, instead of saying some unrealistic words, it is better to use a little bit of small actions to let parents feel the love, such as taking parents to a fancy restaurant to eat food for the weekend with their parents at home to do the cooking, dragging parents to take wedding photos, rather than take a cell phone to teach their parents to take good-looking photos, go to the studio to print them out. For some of the big long-term goals may be just a verbal commitment, but we can start from the most immediate and practical, the love expressed in action.
If you do not work in the field to study, you can go with your parents on weekends to climb the mountain to exercise, or accompany them to the park to see the square dance, if they like to let them go to participate in both entertainment, but also let their parents to make the people of the same age, so that they do not have to be bored all day in the home to watch TV so boring. If your parents like something, you should support them within a reasonable range and be happy with their hobbies. Mom wants to sing, download the singing software to let her play, like to dance to buy her dancing shoes to participate in the square dance, Dad likes gyro or chess, let him go more and neighbors or community entertainment.
3, teach your parents to use the cell phone App
Now that smart phones are convenient for everyone's life, please take the time to teach your parents how to use smart phones, after all, if you are busy with work when you are out of the country, your parents can QQ video with you, or send a circle of friends to show that they will knit will be calligraphy will be cooking will fish will be handmade, and other specialties, you have to know, do not underestimate the parents' labor, when their hobbies are the fruit of their labor. You know, don't underestimate the fruits of parents' labor, when their hobbies are displayed, it can also bring them a sense of inner pride and satisfaction. I installed WeChat, Taobao, Beauty Camera, QQ, Weibo, Baidu Browser, and RuMedicine App on my mom's cell phone to facilitate the transfer of second-hand medication to the public welfare group, and the most important point is that it can be used for health management at any time. As for the photo retouching software, it is to make the beautiful mom selfie after a little bit beautiful.
4, quit parents' bad habits
Parents are getting older, no longer as beautiful as the year, the wind is flourishing, if the father loves to smoke, and the mother as much as the love of poker, in fact, can be other hobbies they are interested in gradually instead of their smoking and playing cards. Of course, proper poker is entertainment, if you sit down every day to play cards affect your health, so you have to expand the parents' hobbies, as a way to cover up bad habits. In addition, it is also important to remind at any time, you can post a note at home in a conspicuous place to tell the father that smoking is not allowed in the house, or the father can not help but want to smoke, you can let the father to play a mobile game or do chores, so as to eliminate the idea of smoking.
5, take care of yourself, let your parents worry
If a person outside the fight, remember to take care of yourself, you become better and stronger and better, your parents will be less worried, and will not be busy to introduce you to the dating object forced marriage, because only you can not take care of themselves in their eyes, they will worry about you for fear that you are alone and suffer. Because things are unpredictable, there are too many people around to leave in a hurry, so companionship seems to be invaluable. Dear, don't let busy or tomorrow to say become your excuse to be out of company.
No matter how far we run, no matter how high we jump, don't forget that behind us there are parents waiting for us to come home to eat. Once, they are also omnipotent people, just time to treat everyone is very cruel, parents in the old, when they are old, I hope our company and I love you can timely presence, let them feel happy, so they will not be alone alone life, at least have us in, should not let parents feel lonely.
Author: Shen Shanshu, a young emerging author. He hopes to use the warmth of words to ferry every one of you with a thousand knots in your heart. Representative work "I do not want to grow old in mediocrity". Weibo @shenshanshu.
If you can love again, I will never let go, I will cherish you more because I want to think about you so much, I am not remember to take care of yourself, drink more hot water, don't catch a cold, less alcohol.
Take care of yourself sentence
A, gone, take care of yourself is the true meaning! I shoulder my responsibility and continue to move forward...
Two, sometimes also think, why wait until one day you have the ability to take care of themselves, take care of others, those who once took care of you when you can not do anything, are not around?
Third, look at people to see the character, hand over people to hand over the heart. Gentlemen give themselves up for others, everywhere forbearance, when the goodness. The small man is a man who fights for fame and fortune, by any means necessary, and is as cunning as a wolf. Gentlemen, noble character, seek; villain, can not be defended, far away. When you are alone, take care of yourself. The world is big, but not many people who are genuinely good to themselves, no one will always keep themselves, try to take care of themselves, for their own sake, more care about their own people!
Fourth, because of the physical reasons after the return, give up the Yabuli, give up into the horse, in Qingdao also did not about small partners, their own in a country of three places non-stop fever and cold water and soil discomfort. Really honestly, the body is important. The list of the small lovely must must take good care of themselves.
Fifth, when we are old, we take care of our own body, do not drag children! A good realistic statement.
Six, as always, may you take care of yourself on my side.
Seventh, there are people and things, I tried, but still no results, then goodbye, take care of yourself, do not like to take the initiative of the young lady.
Eight, the first time I saw you cover yourself very tightly. Really happy that you finally began to protect themselves. But the heart is inexplicably difficult. Heartache cubs. You have to take care of yourself.
Nine, they will want to, why their own mothers and loved ones will press her hands and feet, press her in a cold hospital bed full of disinfectant flavor, how she cried and howled are useless, really can not stand this feeling, especially when she cried with the eyes of help look at me. Compared to the sick after the injection of drugs, I hope more parents beforehand to take care of their babies, I hope that we are more careful, pay attention to the weather changes
10, we all take care of their own body it! Don't catch a cold, two days ago, I also said I wood have a cold yesterday night sleep and wake up with a cold today!
XI, maturity, is that you will always go out with your own umbrella, rarely wet yourself; is that you can control their tears, rarely move themselves to cry. Mature is that you learn to treat yourself well and take care of yourself. You gradually become an independent individual, rather than life fluke on the outside of everything. No one will pick you up on a rainy night. No one, necessarily will read your heart.
twelve, single days please take care of yourself, strive hard, mushrooms ---- to yourself
thirteen, father is a man of few words, but to me said the most words are, daughter, take care of yourself, eat well, very warm hearted father I love you
fourteen, Beijing snowed, long stay in Beijing, you must pay attention to warmth, take care of yourself! I love you!
XV. There are two things in life: educating children and practicing yourself. The best gift for your children is to take care of yourself and have an optimistic mindset and a healthy body.
XVI, I do people really too indolent, I hate I am a person without self-discipline. I'm still not willing, I'm not willing to a lot of things, this kind of unwillingness to make me care about the value of the food itself, for worthless things repeatedly thinking, consuming their own lives. I'm so stupid, I can't take care of myself, I should take care of myself. Life, it shouldn't be like this.
seventeen, artists once made a mistake, if you are not careful, you will be y involved in the vortex of network violence, can not be extricated, perhaps as with drug addiction, there is no amazing will and mentality, even if the family cares about the love and care, and their own persuasion of their own can not help. May Ha Ji Won Oni's brother go well, but also hope that Oni take care of themselves
18, why can't I enjoy a young and beautiful flesh ah, I really want to enjoy more in their own still have a few young and lovely age. I also want to take care of their own bodies, so that they have a wonderful flesh to make each other's enjoyable. I really do enjoy my youthful years, and I'll be a monk when I'm old.
xix. However, we should pay attention to is, if not special circumstances, or eat well, take care of themselves.
XX, think about it or count on yourself more reliable, because they know themselves best. Know that you are tired, give you a big hug, hard work, you should eat eat sleep take care of yourself! Everything is a cloud!
Twenty-one, week after week to do anchor around there is no one to let you go out every day to let off steam, every day is not sitting in front of the computer is to watch TV shows. Also stay up late. You should go out for a walk ah ~! I feel you recently resistance to decline so always sick brain dizzy! Take care of yourself oh oh oh oh oh oh ！！！！！
Twenty-two, handsome handsome da, I want to miss you, pay attention to the body ha, to take good care of themselves.
Twenty-three, remember to eat when you are hungry to prepare your lunch box to take care of themselves more friends have time to send photos back to have fun
Twenty-four, see you say that you long for a weekend of their own, a night of relaxation, a cup of coffee is not for refreshing. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm not a good person. Recently you are sick again, the last time you were sick or you went back to school from Latin America, maybe this period of time you are not get a good rest, I hope you can love yourself a little more, take care of yourself. To the distant you a HUG, may the heart radio waves play an infinite power, you will receive my concern.
Twenty-five, I want to give all the good blessings in this world to my favorite beauty girl, may you every day in the future, such as the photo smile nightmare like flowers, I will do my best to make you happy and happy, so please take care of yourself to love yourself more too, Happy Birthday mother and father
Twenty-six, write to you, please take care of yourself. Your next life next next life, can I make an appointment with you in advance?
Twenty-seven, the new year to take good care of themselves, work hard to earn money, learn to love
Twenty-eight, tomorrow began to cool down more clothes to take care of themselves
Twenty-nine, take care of the world, did not take care of themselves!
Thirty, older and then sad to take care of their own rose is a relief and tranquility
Thirty-one, cubs last night while I was asleep this old mother ran out to play, get up in the morning and found that the cubs remember to give me this old mother to send a postcard, pay attention to the safety of the outside, remember to take care of yourself do not forget to send a picture of the mother, mamamamamojo
Thirty-two, good morning, Mr. Wu, heard the house outside the house, and I was very pleased to see you. Mr. Wu, heard the birds chirping outside the house, the sky should be clear, the temperature is still very low [woe], really makes people feel like winter is coming, Beijing's seasons are like this, there is no spring and autumn, directly is the transition between summer and winter, said yesterday it snowed in the Beijing area, the local snowfall are coming, the wide range of snow is still far away, we must take care of themselves
I will take care of myself saidI will take care of their own said
A, will soon be leaving Lhasa, looking back on the life in Lhasa for so long, indeed some reluctance, there are so many good friends, but in order to develop, I have no choice, perhaps this is the last time I sent in Lhasa's circle of friends, a lot of things have happened lately, and I have borne a lot of now I think I have figured out that I want to go, I want to go, I want to go, I want to go. I'm going to leave this city, when you see this message, I have been on the road, do not worry about me, I will take care of myself, I'm going to South Korea alone, things are too sudden, did not discuss with you do not blame me.
Second, only every time I wait until Sunday to hear your voice, that moment felt enough. No matter in the busy I have been thinking of you, I do not know I think of you when you are not also thinking of me, your efforts to make me more motivated, I have been slowly learning to grow, I will take care of myself, you have to work hard, I believe in you. I love Jie.
Third, long hair and waist, I will take care of my long flowing hair, three meals to eat a good four seasons of warmth, love yourself well.
Fourth, I will take care of myself, become better, and then cross the sea of people to find you.
Fifth, thank you, dear, treat me like a sister, I will take care of my body.
Six, I said I came all the way to send you, how do you not like the male lead inside the TV series, as a thousand instructions to me, he smiled shyly! In fact, the most understanding of my people or him, he did not say because he was afraid to see me cry, familiar with not know how many times I have been in the heart of the command! This is the kind of person who can talk so eloquently in front of anyone, except me! Don't worry, go to work, I'll take care of myself, honey, waiting for you to come back! Come back and brush my hair!
Seven, a sentence laced with tears I will take care of myself, how much of the past is swallowing me, how to save me?
VIII, the future of the road I really have to walk alone, I will slow down a bit, try to avoid falling, and no longer rampage, I will step by step, learning not to worry too much, will take care of themselves, and will not be greedy.
Nine, haven't had time to say a will have to go I just want to go out and take a walk to examine examine their own contact can not also do not worry I will take care of their own and please take care of yourself for me.
X. I want to meet you a little later I will take care of myself.
eleven, the favorite you, I seem to forget who you are, only to remember that love love you very much, I can start a new life, you do not worry about me again, I will take care of myself, throw away the capricious, throw away the impulsive, every day busy life is very happy, even if it is a person will not feel lonely, a person to eat, a person shopping, a person to eat risotto, a person to go to the karaoke singing, a person to go to the game hall, a person to hair, a person to go to the game hall, a person to go to the game hall, a person to go to the game hall, a person to go to the game hall, a person to go to the game hall. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the services you need.
twelve, the morning I know when I really can not accept to play phone calls tears down I also worry about my father recently too much of a little tired so I have to become strong ah after all, adult to resist the matter it I will take care of their own not let love me worry about me.
XIII, learning not so radical in fact, quite a lot of things do not have to score out how to how to slowly grind it some things are not forced one day you have no one also want to my words I think we will be a friend hope that we are good it I will take care of myself hope you are also after all, we are now also in love with each other.
XIV, loneliness is an important lesson on the road to success, it's okay I will take care of myself.
xv. I will take care of myself and adjust my emotions. I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to take care of myself.
xvi! I will take care of myself after that cup! Drunkenness is the only way to know that the wine is strong, this wine is a toast to the sun and the moon can be seen!
17, let go because too much love you can not see you difficult. I will take care of myself. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it.
18, this time you go I did not last time so sad ~ may be because familiar with the city, but also more independent. I'll take care of myself and wait for the next time I see you
nineteen, get up and cook. It's been a long time since I've had breakfast. If you are there, how could you let me starve. But, husband, you don't have to worry about us, I will take care of myself and my daughter.
XX, very happy big lump finally able to give up everything that makes him unhappy! The original selfish let him stay with me, now finally grow up to let him choose the life they want! Although the future is not at my side, but I will take care of myself!
Twenty-one, if you like me, please think of all ways to find me. If you like me, please think of all ways to impress me. If you like me, please don't let me wait too long. I'll take care of myself before you come, and I hope you'll be all right on the way here
Twenty-two: I'll take care of myself after I'm alone, and I'll be strong.
Twenty-three, before you did not find me, I will take care of their own stomach, love to laugh at the eyes and that a hot heart. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it.
Twenty-four, thank you care, but you do not have to care about me, I will take care of myself.
Twenty-five, before you come, I will take care of myself.
二十六、需要你的人那么多。 I will take care of myself.
Twenty-seven, thank you uncle and aunt grandma and grandpa sent a big red bag, I will take care of myself, now you love me, I will love you
Twenty-eight, I do not know this decision to do the right, but I believe that grandpa if there is still a trace of consciousness he will not tolerate their own lifeless only rely on the ventilator to maintain life. I'd like to thank my mom and uncle for doing everything they could to make sure that my grandpa lasted as long as possible until I could go back to see him for the last time, and I also thank him for waiting for me. There are still three days I will be able to see grandpa, I will take care of myself and live on.
Twenty-nine, people in the most vulnerable time can not get a trace of comfort and warmth, or tears will break the dike. I will take care of myself.
Thirty, as if to catch a cold, as if to fever, I will take care of myself, do not stay up late.
Thirty-one: I'll take care of myself and live alone as a thousand soldiers.
Thirty-two, let the family worried, very sorry! I will take care of myself!
Thirty-three, I will take care of myself before I find my dependence I will try to adapt to all.
Thirty-four, about 2 years of feelings, today, officially come to an end, each other well! I will take care of myself.
Thirty-five, life can not afford every accident, so I will take care of myself, not for myself but also for the love of my people.
Thirty-six, said open although it will hurt, but the long pain is better than a short pain, thanks to the companionship of the sisters, so that I will not be so lonely. After all, I can't leave them, may the future days slowly get better, I will take care of myself, I won't believe in anyone's promise again!
Thirty-seven, far away from home, the separation is only temporary, how much I hope to be by your side, very worried about everything you assured that I will take care of myself and shrimp, but at the same time, I hope to also be good. Be a mature and stable person child, not for everything to defeat, you are the best.
Learning to take care of yourself said1, but we should pay attention to is, if not special circumstances, or to eat well, take care of yourself.
2, "Sometimes I wonder why, when one day you have the ability to take care of yourself and take care of others, those who used to take care of you when you can't do anything, are not around anymore?"
3, the rest of your life please take care of yourself, do not push yourself too hard, find a person who can give you to rely on it! You are a person quite tired, the most regrettable, can only accompany you a ride!
4, you have to turn over the school ah, the most are reluctant, and very much want you, take care of yourself, you only pig
5, people have a healthy body is the most important thing, I hope that all the people I know can take care of themselves to have a good body.
6, I have three things are not three hot, dream friendship and like you.
7, accustomed to, a person is also quite good. Tired, take a break; sick to adjust. Don't think too much, take care of yourself, let every day life is full of sunshine.
8, single days, please take care of yourself, struggling, mushroom ---- to yourself
9, has been accustomed to a person, accustomed to the state of life now, accustomed to lying in bed quietly think, accustomed to stay in the room alone, accustomed to the late-night insomnia, so that their own wounds a little bit of spreading in the heart. I do not want to grow up, but must face growing up, a person more to take care of themselves, cold days to add a jacket, hungry to buy a bread for themselves, sick to give themselves a strong, even if it is a person, but also to live a good happy life.
10, the study of homework into a penalty, we only feel the pain, may wish to happily accept, smile to deal with it - that it is just our homework. Just learn it well.
11, I'm really too indolent as a human being, I hate that I am a person without self-discipline. I'm still not willing, I'm not willing to a lot of things, this kind of unwillingness to make me care about the value of the food itself, for worthless things repeatedly thinking, consuming their own lives. I'm so stupid, I can't take care of myself, I should take care of myself. Life, it's not supposed to be like this.
12, a person in the field, please take care of yourself, because sick, a person in the hospital the kind of loneliness really do not want to experience again.
13, this universe nothing really good, nothing really bad, is a cycle, let everyone play a game, and then, time to go back to rest.
14. If you are calm inside, there will be no storm outside.
15, I do not know why, obviously home, but the heart is a little bit chaotic, perhaps sitting in the basic day of the car, a little nausea and dizziness, perhaps looking at my parents busy for me a little bit intolerant, but also because of looking at the roommate's boyfriend did not hesitate to run to run to her to hold her tightly in the kind of firm it, I can be a person can be very strong to take care of themselves, and I can work hard to do what I want to do. I can also work hard to do what I want to do, but encountered some things I can not solve, in addition to the love of parents and family members, or feel that the choice of being a person firmly, no matter how to wait at the end of the tightly embraced feeling can be really good!
16, tomorrow, remember to wear good clothes remember to take an umbrella remember to eat breakfast remember to listen well remember to pay attention to warmth remember to eat remember to take care of yourself remember to love me good night love you mamma mia
17, simple life is to go with the flow, and what to enjoy what. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get it right.
18, they will want to, why their mothers and relatives will press her hands and feet, to press her in full of antiseptic water flavor cold hospital bed, how she cried and howled are useless, truly can not stand this feeling, especially when she cried with the eyes of help look at me. Compared to the disease after the injection and medication, I hope more parents beforehand to take care of their babies, I hope that we are more careful, pay attention to the weather changes
19, think about it or count on themselves more reliable, because they know themselves best. I know you're tired, give you a big hug, hard you, the eat eat sleep take care of yourself! Everything is floating clouds!
20, time is silent, you are my life is no longer encounter the city
21, rest assured that I will take good care of themselves, without you I'm just as happy.
22, I want to give all the wonderful blessings in this world to my favorite beauty girl, may you every day in the future as in the photo smile nightmare like a flower, I will do my best to make you happy happy, so please take care of yourself to love yourself more, Happy Birthday mother and father
23, the first time I saw you cover yourself up very tightly. I'm really happy that you finally started to protect yourself. But the heart is inexplicably difficult. The heartache cubs. To take care of yourself ah.
24, good morning, Mr. Wu, heard the birds chirping outside the house, the day should be clear, the temperature is still very low [woe], really make people feel like winter is coming, Beijing's seasons are like this, there is no spring and autumn, directly is the transition between summer and winter, said the Beijing area yesterday, snow, localized snowfall are coming, widespread snowfall is still far away, we must take care of themselves
25, I changed your note to your name, even the name of the initial appearance.
26, a goal of their own, only for today's happiness, not for yesterday's troubles, take care of yourself, cheer! Thursday, good morning!
27, do not know that they want to run under the condition of the aunt eight hundred ... I'm glad I survived yesterday, I've never felt like I was going to die after running eight hundred before, so it turns out that the great aunt has such a big impact on a person, girls still have to take care of themselves...
28, older and then sad to take care of their own rose is to relieve depression and tranquilize the spirit
29, enlightenment is not the elimination of emotions, but to know how to use emotions.