It is inevitable that colleagues and friends will attend the banquet because of the red and white events. Under normal circumstances, we all sit together, chat and wait with familiar friends. When a group of familiar friends filled a table, the aperitif wine began. Simple games and laughter filled the dining table, attracting colleagues at the next table to watch. A bunch of old guys get together and basically don't talk about anything else. Drinking a little wine to relax has become the main purpose, which is unmatched by some preoccupied people and belongs to an open secret that only we can understand.
After-dinner wine is also necessary, so that friends with good alcohol can enjoy themselves and the banquet can reach a small climax. Friends who have a good capacity for drinking cross the village, and friends who have a poor capacity for drinking return to the village. Everyone has a good time eating and having fun. The climax of our wine fight at one table often attracts colleagues who are good at wine tasting at other tables, and it is common for everyone to join in the fun.
The last place I want to sit is a table with many leaders. It is almost impossible not to drink, and it is even more impossible not to drink. If you drink a little better, the biggest possibility is to get you drunk instead of drinking it. Most leaders like to practice their own boxing with their subordinates' stomachs, without exception. At a banquet, three or four colleagues at the same table who were not in our circle of friends did not drink without leadership, and we were not forced. When the leaders began to punch, they began to drink one after another, all for the leaders, and their faces were flushed. One of them was broadcast live outside the hotel. These young people are very different from us, which is the brand of different times. We live on our own, and they have a lot to rely on. We will not force each other on personal hobbies, nor will we deliberately embarrass ourselves in order to take care of anyone's emotions.
This is the difference between drinking and drinking. Life is different, and the realm of drinking is different.
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One night in early winter, I happened to walk in Tianma Lake for half an hour. At night in Tianma Lake, the lights are still colorful. In addition to the sound of passing cars, it is the sound of running water in the lake. Without the singing of square dance, this mixed sound can also make people feel the beauty of nature. Although it is not beautiful, it is also the beauty that nature contributes to people. In fact, I still like this night. There are not many tourists in Tianma Lake, which makes people feel its beauty.
Even if it was only half an hour, I enjoyed a moment of peace and natural beauty in Tianma Lake. The mechanical roar of human beings is mixed with the sound of natural running water, which is another style of music. The only difference is who is listening.
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It's sunny and sunny, and there is no wind. It's a sunny day. In winter, the wind is annoying and the sun is always pleasing. Summer is different, the sun is annoying, and the wind is expected. The same thing, under different circumstances, produces completely different effects. However, this is only the change of weather and the law of nature. Humans have been able to adapt to this change for a long time, and they can also actively change when they are familiar with the law, making life better.
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I was very touched when I read "Pillow Book (101-kloc-0/10)" by Lao Pi, and I was lucky to read such a text. In the materialistic era, such a monologue in the inner world is that things are rare. We read more welcome things, things lacking in calcium in spirit, and people who have no backbone.
Lao Pi said: The most rare thing is to continue to live and travel as always, face all the changes around you calmly, but remain innocent. Indeed, it is difficult for people to maintain a kind of self-purity, and it is precisely because of this difficulty that self-purity is precious. In social life, many people do what they don't want to do, say what they don't want to say, and even lose themselves, so it is difficult to keep their purity. Fortunately, I am still myself, and I can continue to live as usual and face everything I have experienced calmly.
As Lao Pi said, poetry can't solve the problems in life, and it won't give an answer. However, poetry can stimulate some thinking. I imagine aimlessly in reading poems, explore interesting life and think about the ultimate problem of life. This kind of exploration and thinking has also made my life less boring and more poetic and interesting. Although I can't solve all the problems in my life, poetry reading brings me a rich spiritual world and confidence and courage to face reality frankly.
"Don't imitate other people's lives, let alone reach too many compromises with the outside world." This state is a state of me, a state of my true self. Although I am within the system, I am a real and credible person. I can't change my nature of life. What I like and what I don't like are all in my words and deeds. I don't need to hide myself, and I don't need to reach any compromise with mainstream or non-mainstream. I live my own life. I don't need to imitate other people's lives, and I can't imitate them.
Some people say that my emotional intelligence is too low to get along with some people and seek some benefits for myself. This is a fact. I really won't do anything to cater to others, let alone have it both ways. More often, I am loyal to my inner choice. What kind of life philosophy I choose, I will live according to my own wishes. Of course, I chose to live a healthier life.
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The temperature in the morning is a bit low, and the attitude of teachers and students attending the flag-raising ceremony in the morning breeze is a bit abnormal, but this does not affect the normal holding of the ceremony. Actually, I don't have much feeling about the ceremony. Rituals need respect, but they don't need to be tired of form. Conscious respect is more valuable. Respect lies not only in the ceremony, but also in the daily words and deeds. If the ceremony is decent, but it is trampled on in daily words and deeds, it becomes a typical form of boredom.
Compared with many rituals in my life, I pay more attention to intentional respect and put it into action in my daily life. For the people around me, I care more about their daily life, do something for them, reduce their pressure and burden, and strive to make their work easy and their lives comfortable and happy. Perhaps this is also a kind of being yourself, a kind of purity of life.
March 2(nd), 2020
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