01.
Gogo is pregnant.
Married for three years, finally pregnant with their 1st child. Almost 30 years old, Gogo is careful and everything has not come easy.
For some people, getting pregnant is easy, but for Guoguo, she went through a year of preparation, a year of conditioning, taking countless herbal medicines, and after countless times of frustration and hope, she finally conceived this child.
Because the baby didn't come easy, when the news of the pregnancy diagnosis, came out of the doctor's mouth, Gogo was so excited in that moment that she burst into tears, crying with joy.
This is an emotion that only someone who has been through the long process of preparing for pregnancy would understand.
But fortunately, after so much suffering, fate was always kind to her, giving her the chance to be a mom and gifting her with an angel baby.
After 42 days of pregnancy, Gogo realized that she was showing some signs of bleeding. She immediately called, to her husband who was at the office and he immediately drove and took her along to the hospital.
After a checkup at the hospital, the situation was not too serious, and the doctor said that she should stay in bed for 1 week to see how things went, and that she shouldn't exert herself or move around much.
GuoGuo began, a week of bed rest days, also give the company leave, no one at home to take care of her, husband proposed to take over the mother-in-law to take care of.
GuoGuo agreed, her husband left early and came home late, no one at home to take care of her, grocery shopping and cooking, housework, laundry, all these things have to be someone to help do.
02.
Mother-in-law came, but reluctantly. She didn't want to take care of Gogo, of this daughter-in-law.
Even before Gogo became pregnant, she had long let it be known that although she was a mother-in-law, she had no obligation to take care of her daughter-in-law during her monthly period, so Gogo's monthly period would not be helped by her mother-in-law.
This time, Gogo wants to keep the fetus, the son also begged and pleaded with the mother-in-law for a long time before she was willing to take care of Gogo for a week.
During the daytime, it was fine. After she finished cooking, she went to talk to the old people outside, and at night she danced in the square.
The night son back, see son carefully wait for the fruit, anything to the fruit to do, even dinner, are their own son to the fruit of the bedside, the fruit to drink water, the son also immediately go to pour.
Mother-in-law does not like this, she thought of their own hard work to raise a son, have not served themselves like this, mother-in-law heart lost balance. Did she raise a son just so he could serve women?
Son went into the bedroom, help Gogo busy this and that, mother-in-law will be on the side of the talk: "We were doing women how bitter ah, there is no birth control this argument, has been working in the farm, busy until the day of the birth of the child, have been busy, you are now, is too pretentious."
Son heard his mom say such words, immediately stopped. Because the doctor had said that the emotions of pregnant women are also very important, do not make her angry, can not make her excited, only pregnant women are happy and emotionally calm, in order to conceive a good baby.
The son pushed his mother-in-law out of the room and immediately comforted his daughter-in-law. Gogo also did not count at all, she knew that her mother-in-law spoke harshly, and now that she is keeping her own baby, there is no need to get angry with her.
03.
A week later, the bleeding stopped, and when she went to the hospital for a recheck, the doctor said everything was fine.
Mother-in-law clamored to go back once she knew her daughter-in-law was fine. Gogo suddenly had pregnancy sickness again.
Other pregnant mothers only vomit after eating, but Gogo's situation is particularly serious, drinking water and vomiting, eating food and vomiting, eating fruits, feeling like you can't have something into the stomach, as long as it goes in, you have to vomit it out, in order to feel comfortable.
In this case, the fruit can not go to work at all, only to continue with the leadership of the leave, she can not smell the smell of fumes, but also simply can not cook by themselves, a kitchen into the vomit.
Husband had no choice but to talk to his mother, hoping that she would stay and continue to take care of Gogo.
The father-in-law also called, hoping that the wife in his son's home, take good care of daughter-in-law, after all, is pregnant with our grandson it.
The mother-in-law did not listen to anyone, but she did listen to her father-in-law, who was mumbling about leaving, but she stayed on.
Mother-in-law cooks several meals a day for Guoguo. Although her mother-in-law still occasionally says some, let people listen to the solid words, Gogo know that her husband is genuinely good to himself.
So no matter what her mother-in-law says, Gogo admonishes herself that she must be happy happy happy and give birth to a happy baby.
04.
From the age of 6 months, Gogo's feet slowly began to swell. As her belly got bigger and bigger, the swelling of her feet got worse and worse.
It is said that pregnant women should always walk and exercise, which is good for the fetus and the mother. But Gogo's situation is special, she can't take a walk, she's uncomfortable as soon as she stands up. It may be because the fetus is too big, pushing up against her stomach and heart especially blocked, but also breathing difficulties.
Most of the time, Gogo is lying in bed, and her mother-in-law is busy with the house. Gogo also wanted to help her mother-in-law, but it was true that pregnancy made her physically uncomfortable.
Since Gogo's feet are swollen, her husband has been beating her feet with foot-washing water at night and helping her wash her feet.
Mother-in-law saw her son helping her daughter-in-law to take a bath, and her heart was not happy again. She didn't know that Gogo couldn't bend down to wash her feet because her stomach was too big, so she had to ask her husband to help.
That day his son, as usual, took another basin of warm water and soaked his daughter-in-law's feet. The mother-in-law had just come out from the kitchen, and when she saw her son serving her daughter-in-law like a babysitter, she said in no uncertain terms, "Son, it's really a disgrace for a man to help his daughter-in-law by fetching her foot-washing water and washing her feet."
Son explained to mom, "Gogo is particularly hard now that she's pregnant, and she can't bend at the waist, so she can't wash it at all, so I'm the only one who can help her."
Mother-in-law said resentfully: "Just the fruit of the pretentious, our era, what bitter have not eaten, there are men to help you play foot washing water? I don't know what to think, but we're the ones who help the men with the foot washing, so what if I'm pregnant, I'll still work and serve the men."
The son said, "Mom, times are different now, now the daughter-in-law is expensive, and so is your grandson."
Well, when she heard her son say that, her mother-in-law was dumbfounded, and could only shake her head in anger and walk away, not knowing that her son was unrepentant, and there was nothing she could do about it.
However, Gogo's husband to her, really is speechless, will regulate the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law conflict, the mother-in-law said daughter-in-law, will also protect their wives.
What women want, is not this kind of man?
"When there is a woman" has this passage: my life longing to be collected well, properly placed, carefully preserved, lest I am shocked, lest I suffer, lest I am displaced in all directions, lest I have no branches to rely on. But that person, I know, I have always known, he will never come.
A man like that should be a woman's ultimate dream.
GuoGuo was lucky to have married a man who was willing to protect her. It was rare, after all, there were too many men who couldn't sympathize with their wives' pain of pregnancy.
Not everyone is as lucky as Gogo.
Mother-in-law is indeed difficult to get along with, and will say some excessive words, but there is such a one, willing to protect their husband, the fruit are not to take into account the excesses of the mother-in-law.
Because she is very clear, mother-in-law is mother-in-law, husband is husband, as long as the husband is good to themselves on the line.
There is a kind of woman, especially stupid, in fact, their own husbands on their own is not bad, but the mother-in-law on their own bad, the woman will be counted on the head of the husband, of course, if your husband does not protect you, you can count on the head of the man.
But your husband is willing to protect you, the mother-in-law is strong, the husband is willing to help you, but also the mother-in-law on their own bad, are counted on the head of the husband, do not live a good life, this is a woman who will not live a life, but also screwed the woman.
This kind of woman will feel unhappy no matter how good a man she marries.
A smart woman should learn from Gogo, as long as her husband is good to her and protects her.
Mother-in-law no matter how reluctant, in fact, to help things, one did not do less.