How many people, "die proud and eat bitter." For that horrible "face", I ended up being wronged and ungrateful. After thinking about it, it's really stupid to death.
Mr. Lu Xun wrote in "Essays on Jieting Pavilion", "The program of China spirit is' face'. Just grasping this face is like grasping the braid on Ah Q's head and leading him around. "
How many people, for the sake of face, have been wronged all their lives and are not happy. My face finally became a "mask", so I had to tell lies and pretend to be a man, and I couldn't find my true self.
There was a fellow villager who made a living in the south and gradually became rich. So many people go to him to do things, or look for development opportunities. Of course he would. All belong to the villagers. It is a good thing to meet and help each other in other places. However, he later found that most of the people who were helped were ungrateful and even developed, opposing him on some occasions or secretly grabbing his interests. As a last resort, he reflected on himself and gave his fellow villagers "face" casually, thus stabilizing his development prospects. Few people ask him, but those who really ask him are sincere. The hypocrite is afraid to ask him. After all, being rejected is also uncomfortable. This fellow villager later met him at a party. He told me, "Some people are insatiable, don't lose face, don't be good."
If a person wants to save face, he has to spend money on "face". For example, wear a borrowed necklace to the dance, or buy a fake necklace to make it up; In order to look good, spend a lot of money on beauty, even at the expense of health; At the party, I would rather borrow money to pay the bill and then pay off the debt slowly; At the dinner party, people who talk big are actually people who have no money, and they are "swollen faces and fat people." ......
There is a saying in "A Generation of Masters" that makes sense. "People live in this world, some live as faces and some live as linings. Only Lizi can win real face. "
From now on, save face and earn more money. As Li Ka-shing said-when you put down your face to make money, it means you are sensible; When you earn back face with money, it means you have succeeded; When you can make money with your face, it means that you are already a character; When you still stay there drinking and bragging, you don't know how to pretend to understand, and you only care about face, it means that this is your life.
Everyone has to fight for face and live with dignity, but how can you have dignity if you don't have status and strength? Let's return to reality, live a wonderful life, be richer and have a bigger face.