The vase woman
How do you catch a man's eye?
Haha.
There are only two words for a vase woman - face.
How can you catch a man's eye if you don't have a pretty face? How can men like you? The problem is that even natural beauties have all kinds of flaws. This is God's arrangement!
There's only one way to fix it quickly and effectively: makeup.
So, even if she is already at the level of beauty, without makeup, the vase woman won't come out to meet men.
She is afraid that men will see even a very tiny hint of wrinkles and freckles on her face. She is always complaining that her eyelashes are either too short or her lipstick is not bright enough, and she feels that her face is full of flaws. To always be the blue siren among roses was her lifelong ideal.
But who can be a rose without aging, not even the immortals.
Diana, as seen on TV, always looked like a lotus flower.
But it is said that it is such a queenly beauty that she would not go to Charles's room without putting on exquisite makeup, and she did not want to leave the unattractive side in her husband's memory.
Princess Di in so much importance to their own face, she ignored a problem --
When a man and a woman really love each other, the face of the beauty to a few stars, the body is not * is not important, the important thing is the heart can be rubbed out of the sparks to. If the mind can't rub out the sparks to, then the beauty of the woman in the man is just an empty shell.
Personality woman
Man in the end is like a woman's beautiful or different personality? The woman's personality never racked her brain to think about this issue, or simply did not think about it! Believe it or not! I am who I am! Won't change for anyone. Doesn't paint her skin with concealer to the point where it loses its luster just because she's going to meet a guy.
Look at Camilla's dignified face. Does it look like she's wearing makeup? She always looks like the oldest mom next door, even when she's visiting the US with Charles, even when she's representing the royal family to the commoners, even when she's becoming a bride for the second time ...... she never cares about the TV reporters' cameras.
It is remembered that when she visited the United States in 2005, she wore a depressing black dress in a cheerful atmosphere, while on occasions when she needed to wear black she wore such an alluring red color that incurred scolding from the media around the world. And then there's Crown Prince Charles, whom men have cursed. A woman so old and so ignorant of etiquette that he treats Camilla like the apple of his eye! The only woman in his eyes who is seared, even if the beautiful Princess Diana gave birth to two authentic princes for him, it still didn't shake Camilla's position in his heart!
The vase women are getting pissed off at Camilla!
B. Which one is more attractive to a man, the body or the temperament?
Flower vase women believe that the body and face are more important to a man!
These examples abound, and many of the "second wives" are of this type of woman, who, because of their own good looks and not wanting to suffer, have to put their hopes on a man to get the best out of them.
Even if you don't want the name of the marriage.
If you want to be a man's "second wife" for the rest of your life.
What's the harm?
A friend of mine, a good-looking, illiterate, working as a waitress in a hotel, the age of 20, was a Taiwanese old man, the condition is that as long as she is obedient, what to give. This sister is really obedient, in his rented private room, accompanied by eating, playing and sleeping. Several times pregnant, the man did not want the child to disturb the world of two people on the grounds that she went to the hospital again and again to do abortion. Sure enough, she lived a life of fine clothes and food, but only at the age of her beauty like a flower. The year she turned thirty, the man had a new love!
My friend's tears were all over the Pacific Ocean! And she got only three things.
The first: the more expensive, a three-bedroom house.
The second item: can't be described as expensive. It was a doctor's prescription that read: due to several abortions, there is no longer any possibility of getting pregnant, and you will not be able to become a mother of a child for the rest of your life.
The third item: neither a doctor's prescription nor a tangible possession, but an emotional injury - true to the song, "I stand where you hurt me."
Male-female relationships are a strange thing, like the earth, the moon and the sun.
The moon follows the earth around forever, but the earth is in love with her, she just looks at the sun's face. When the sun smiles, I, the earth, will be brilliant for you for four seasons, and a tree will blossom.
The moon here is like a "second wife".
The tides happen because of the Earth, and the darkness and light because of the Earth. She cannot rule herself.
So, the "second wife's" darkness and light are all because of this old man.
Personalized woman
Personalized woman is different, she does not care if she is as beautiful as a flower, but she cares if she is temperament! She believes that her charm index in the eyes of men does not come from her own body, but the image of temperament. If, a woman of personality likes a man, but is not accepted by this man. She will not choose to use physical contact, but "preemptive" with a charming temperament to capture each other's hearts. She likes Chanel No. 5, but will not spill a lot, light and elegant fragrance only, only to do their own favorite and want to do, occasionally for the favorite man to do a sesame seed,
Men must be happy to fast cramp. There's also a prime example I'd like to tell women everywhere --
Guess who more than half of the men in the United States would most like to go on a dinner date with? Perhaps, you will definitely tell everyone that there is no need to guess: it must be the famous Hollywood movie star Sharon? Stone. She is so glamorous and sexy that even one look at her is enough for this life.
Wrong!
Some would also say, "breakaway*". They are youthful, strong dancers, pretty and dynamic.
Wrong!
Black songstress Whitney? Houston. She sings around the world for three days and the rest of her life. She has fans all over the world.
Re!
So, who is the woman who makes men all over America the most desirable?
Better than Sharon? Is Stone more attractive and sexy?
Re!
......
It will blow your mind to say it! She doesn't look pretty at all and she was born with a dark skinned face. Blacks have been discriminated against for centuries among white people in the U.S. Back in the day, blacks were shipped to the U.S. as slaves by whites to do all sorts of hard labor for whites. But the black woman that more than half of the men in America would most like to date is actually - Rice.
Do you find her sexy?
No! And Sharon? Stone is not in the same league.
Do you think she's pretty?
Not even close to pretty.
Do you think she's soft as silk?
Nor does she!
But it's a woman who doesn't look like much, and she's turned the heads of more than half the men in the United States. The secret of the fascination does not lie in the fact that she is the U.S. Secretary of State, nor the power in her hands, but her face from the beginning to the end of the self-confidence and smile formed by the kind of "flowers gradually fascinating" temperament! She can not be changed for anyone's character.
Her charm lies in her independence, ego and perfection.
C. What kind of woman does love like?
The vase woman
Pretty is a woman's passport to the world of men and love.
In the view of the woman in the vase, as long as there is a beautiful face, happiness, love, money, everything OK!
Once the marriage is dissolved, the first thing she thinks of is that she is old and yellow and the man will change his mind; the second thing is to hate the shameless goblin, and never asked herself, what is the relationship between this matter and herself?
A woman named A Lian, can be described as the beauty of the fish and geese, chasing her man endless, and later, she chose an earnest man married. Three years later, the man divorced her and married another woman. That year, a man who lost the election took the opportunity to launch a marriage proposal to her, she said yes. This time, she lived with him for only one year, and the man left her. She was not willing to go to that "vixen" to settle the score, the result, by the man a beating.
The man she lived with for the third time was neither a suitor nor a victim, but rather love at first sight at a friend's party. This time the cohabitation lasted a little longer, just three years, and the man dumped her again like a piece of trash.
So she e-mailed me to ask for an answer to her confusion --
Yu Hua, men like beautiful women, is the unbreakable truth!
I am pretty enough!
I am young enough!
I am cheerful enough!
Why is it that after getting me, a man looks for a new love and doesn't want to spend the rest of his life with me?
Is it true that a man's shoulder can't be relied on for a lifetime of romance?
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My answer may be simple, may be mean, but it's realistic, because --
She's so beautiful that she has nothing left but her face.
The first time a man looks at a woman he absolutely looks at her face.
The second time is the breasts.
But a number of times after the third, it's whether or not there's substance in her face. If there is too little or no substance, I'm sorry, it will end up the same way as the woman who was just dumped by N men.
So, the first time you win a man's favor, a pretty face is a pass, but after that, the role of this face is gradually reduced to the point of dispensability.
This is the first time that I've seen a woman with a beautiful face and no brain!
Personalized woman
Personalized woman thinks: marrying is not the whole of the happiness project.
So she doesn't try to put on makeup and try to please a man for the sake of a face.
If the marriage disintegrates and love collapses, she won't hate or complain, but pack her bags and travel to distant unknown territories. Both to see the scenery and to broaden the horizons of life.
Who says true love comes only once in a lifetime?
Because, every time you fall in love, you will be faced with men with different personalities, education, backgrounds, and cultivation, so the feeling of love will not be the same.
On TV, the Rice you see will always be a short, flared, cocked hairdo, a black dress, or red or yellow, and that's it. With her paycheck, with her power, with her social status, she can be as flamboyant as she wants to be, as enchanting as she wants to be.
She wasn't a voluptuous woman in the eyes of men. Not now, not in the future and not ever.
She is not the moon.
She is the individual woman Rice who will dress herself up as an uninitiated teenage girl just because a man likes to be flamboyant. Therefore, you can never see her look of lost love! You can't see the sadness of her crying for love! Although she is still single, there are many love stories! And there are plenty of men coming and going!
D. Is the man the tree or is he the sky?
The Vase Woman
To the Vase Woman, a man is a tree that protects her from both wind and rain!
She has spent her whole life in search of this tree, running, suffering, sorrowing, joyful, and separated. Never did she think she was going to grow into a tree that would rival a man!
When this great tree left itself, the wind was cold and bleak!
The vase woman will only shed tears and sigh at the injustice of fate, but not to take the initiative to change themselves. If you find a man outside the "situation", in addition to a cry, three hanged, is a look without you can not live.
This does not need me to give examples, you can know, life in the woman is to take this policy. You don't love me, I won't let you have a good time; want to leave me, don't make you lose your reputation or drag you to an exhaustion won't stop. Even if you let you go, let you shed a layer of skin!
What makes you so cheap?
Personality woman
Personality woman is their own sky! It is the balsam of trees! It's the acacia! It's the bamboo that stands tall!
Men move on, she will not be sad and miserable, but will go skiing in the Alps, fishing in Alaska, a rare way to relax.
Even if she drops tears, she will not beg her man bitterly.
She will smile and say to him -
Wish you happiness!
Personality woman never laugh at life, men see her always confident.
Pan Hong has been celibate since she left Mijiasan, but look at her, isn't she just as happy? There is no love to the heart intoxicated man, she will not just give herself to a man in other people seem to be good.
She won't give herself up to satisfy someone else's eyeballs.
E. Women are meant to be loved, what about men? Trophy Woman
Women are meant to be hurt. Exactly!
So, vase women are generally very delicate, only want to be pampered, pampered by men, do not know that men are sometimes fragile, also need to be pampered. In the view of the woman in the vase, as if the men are iron, cement do, cold a little, hot a little, a little pain does not matter.
Personality woman
The most important thing is to spoil yourself.
With a man's pampering, she is willing, without a man's pampering, she will pamper herself and occasionally coax a man. This kind of chance is probably only twice a year on the first day and the fifteenth day, so when a man experiences being favored, think about it, what kind of feeling would that be? It's almost like teasing a man's lust without giving him a chance to love. To her, love is not the part of having children, but for the joy of two lovers.
First love yourself.
Second love for the man.
F. Is it better to look pretty, or to live pretty?
The vase woman
Happy Male Voice judge Yang Erche Naim, the maverick on TV who came out of Lugu Lake as a Mosuo woman wrote a book. She says it's better to look pretty than to live pretty.
She's not a woman who is so pretty that she can make people * at a glance, but she's a very individual woman. She did live a beautiful life.
From the daughter country of Lugu Lake, she came to Beijing, married, divorced, fell in love again, married the Norwegian ambassador to China, and then, divorced again. The book was written, broke into the entertainment industry, an unattractive woman in the entertainment industry, and some of the male judges, "against the".
Flamboyant and egotistical.
The flower on her head, which she wears everywhere, is her trademark.
That's right, not pretty to look at, so live as pretty as a flower. Although some women were jealous of her, and the media entertainers gave her mixed reviews, she never cared, as long as she lived a beautiful life!
So she was really pretty!
The vase woman is proud to look beautiful, only focus on the beauty of the face, forgetting to fill the head. It is true that men's initial liking is due to the face, but after the third glance, it gradually changes to something other than the face -
such as, intelligence.
Men never dare to despise intelligent women, because this is his opponent! So, conquer by all means, like Condoleezza Rice, the U.S. Secretary of State. Such a woman is not a man who conquers her, but she conquers him.
The woman who only cares about her pretty face, the hard work of this is known only to herself. Often the man developed, but he himself was sent by the man. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on a new product or service. This is the same as "today not work well, tomorrow looking for work around" is a reason. Because, all men who live to have money and car assets of more than ten million, more than the wisdom of the great, deep city, strategizing. This kind of man, how can a woman and a vase long stay together?
These examples abound. My secondary school classmate, married to a Hong Kong businessman, all the girls in the class were so envious that they almost did her husband's "second wife", a lifetime of no name is also willing. It is said that she went to the supermarket, went to the department store, want to spend as much money as you want to spend, and only choose the best and most expensive. She has a chef for three meals a day, a nanny for her life, and she drives around in a sports car all day long. Think about it, who wouldn't envy a woman living like this at such a young age? It's like being a god on earth!
In front of her, we are all bitter maids.
The third year of her marriage, her husband had a new love.
She questioned her husband why he was moving on regardless of her feelings and love.
Husband also answered quickly:
"What I want is not a vase!"
"But if you hadn't been so pretty you would have liked me?"
"It's because I like you because you're pretty, but I want the kind of Jingdezhen vase that has history, culture and substance!"
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Men are right, the flowers are good-looking, varieties of flowers and colors for many years will not change a bit, look at a long time, it will cause visual aesthetic fatigue. If you, as a woman, can not stop for him colorful, men will be born, "the flowers gradually fascinating eyes" feeling.
It's the vase that's right!
The key lies in whether you can make a man give birth to the feeling of "a flower in the eyes". If you can, then really want to congratulate you - not the usual vase.
People love people.
Men will not easily throw you away as a fake!
Personality woman
Looking pretty is not as good as living pretty!
This is the personality woman's life motto! It is the rule of thought of her life! Therefore, will take the cause as the priority, the man will always rank behind the cause, she will not give up her career for the sake of the man. Even if one day personality woman married into the family, will not be willing to do a rich man's woman, she will still run all day in the workplace.
For example, Wendi Deng.
Like Yang Lan.
Even though Yang Lan is already a mother of several children, she still walks sunny every day on the road of life. There are still so many men who idolize her. No one categorizes her as a yellow face because she is a mother of several children.
Because.
It's better to look pretty than to live pretty!
If you think you're ugly, you might as well turn your ugliness into an advantage unlike anyone else's, it's called being the best at what you do, and if you put that rule on the love market, just think of how many men would have to want to be the first one to eat the crab?