Of course, it doesn't mean that people will never be shy again when they grow up. Sometimes things make people blush, such as the first date, the first time they meet their parents-in-law.
Shyness is an emotion that exists from childhood to old age. I just experienced a lot, and some things became lighter.
In psychology, people have four kinds of temperament, namely, choleric temperament, sanguine temperament, mucinous temperament and depressive temperament. These four temperament types have the following characteristics,
Courage: straightforward, enthusiastic, energetic, irritable, emotional, impulsive, quick-thinking, emotional changes, extroverted.
Bloody: lively and active, responsive, willing to communicate, easy to divert attention, changeable interests and emotions, lack of endurance and extroversion.
Mucus: quiet, steady, calm, slow to respond, taciturn, think twice before you act, not easy to show, stable and not easy to divert attention, good at patience and introversion.
Depression: deep emotional experience, slow action, high sensitivity, good at observing details that others are not easy to pay attention to, rich in imagination, timid and introverted.
Most people think that people will become more mature with age, and they will be more calm when they encounter things (commonly known as thick-skinned). So what kind of temperament or mixed temperament are you? Different temperament characteristics, whether mixed or unique, can not completely guarantee that they will be mature and stable under any circumstances, nor can they completely guarantee that young people are immature and stable, low-key and introverted.
Face recognition can't tell whose face is thick, no matter young or old, the thickness of subcutaneous fat is the thickness of face.
It was said that there were two people on the bus the day before yesterday, a son and a mother. The son said to the driver, my mother forgot to bring her old age card today, okay? My mother is over 60 years old, so she doesn't have to buy a card-free ticket.
The driver said that the fare is two yuan without the ticket. The boy continued, the last time I took another car, the driver said it was ok. Why not?
We can't kidnap here. It is estimated that the mother and son have a hard life, so they have the cheek to do so. The driver insisted on buying tickets only because the young man was young. If you are an old lady, you can turn a blind eye and get by.
In the supermarket, the aunt snapped up the discounted things crazily, not because she was cheeky, but because she was frugal for her children. It doesn't matter if you are thick-skinned, so you save money to buy a house and meat for your children. How much living expenses do children, including married people, give their parents in January?
Some time ago, there was a headline. My father was sweating, and my son was sunbathing in the snow-capped mountains in Tibet. My father's job is definitely not a decent and easy job, and his salary is not clear, but my father is absolutely unwilling to give up a bowl of bibimbap. And it is necessary for my son to go to Tibet without 10 thousand or at least 6 thousand at a time
Some people here will say that values are different. It is precisely because of values that the old people are desperately frugal, and the younger generation is living in the present state of mind.
The old man counted Mao Mao's money. A catty of vegetables is 30 cents cheaper, and a meal can save one yuan. Children don't ask the price when buying things, which leads some vendors to sit on the floor and ask for exorbitant prices. With a young mind, it doesn't matter if they are expensive for one or two yuan, but 1800 is not expensive.
There are also old people who bully others by dancing in the square dance, and there are also aunts who take the bus to grab seats. After all, it is a minority. Maybe all old people are like this.
Asking this question requires extreme thinking. Some young people eat and drink hundreds and sing thousands of songs outside. They may not earn much, but some people are swollen and fat. Most of them are empty pockets and their faces must be full.
No matter young or old, there are people who are shameless and foolish, and there are also aunts and grandmothers who do public welfare and save money to help those in need.
It can only be said that there are thick-skinned people in this world, regardless of age.
Because older people encounter more things, they feel that it doesn't matter. When you do something for the first time, you are often a little nervous. Doing it again and again is cheeky, as the saying goes.
Sometimes, it is really a good thing to find out your age. Trees have rings. The more rings, the stronger the tree, which means that it has experienced more wind, frost, rain and snow.
People are similar to trees. The older you get, the more energetic you are, except for the aging of your face.
And the older you get, the calmer you get. After years of precipitation, people tend to be peaceful, tolerant and look down on the world. So the older you get, the thicker your skin may be!
I think this is a good thing. Sometimes people have to learn to put down their face and do something they think is worthwhile!
How thick-skinned is a person? Humans not only grow taller, but also grow with age. The baby's face is about 0.04 mm ..10: 00, about 0.07 mm, and about 0. 1 mm at 35: 00. So it is often said that older people are thick-skinned, which seems to be true.
What do you think of the sentence "The older you get, the thicker your skin gets"?
Thick skin is related to age to some extent.
With the growth of age, people's knowledge is also increasing. With the growth of knowledge, I don't feel new when I see a lot of things. As I get older, I am more open-minded. I don't care so much anymore. There are fewer and fewer stimuli that can stimulate your shyness.
When something happens, there is a certain emotion, and a continuous process will happen on the body. The midway involves our nervous system and body hormone levels. You may have sensitive physiological reactions when you are young. With the increase of age, people's physiological reactions gradually become insensitive. The older the organ, the greater the emotional feedback may change.
Man is an animal that can protect himself. Shyness will make others feel afraid of it and give people a feeling of being bullied. Therefore, people will sum up experience and lessons after an accident and work out a set of life skills that suit them. Some of these skills require that your emotional feedback be less obvious. I will force myself to face some things, not to be afraid and shy. You won't be so shy when you grow up like this.
It's not that the older you get, the thicker your skin is, but that the older you get, the more mature you are and the more tolerant you are to people and things! You can say what you once dared not say, do what you once disdained, do what you once dared not do, and so on. This is not so much a thick skin as a compromise to real life! However, this is not a bad thing. People always have to live in society and integrate into it to some extent! I think as long as it doesn't violate the law, but it doesn't violate the moral code, with the growth of age, the so-called thick skin is also good and necessary for social life!
I feel older and more experienced, and my physiological function begins to decline. Facial skin began to dry and lack of water, which led to obvious skin aging speed, and I began to see aging from the skin surface. The way of doing things in life is more mature, steady and practical, not a matter of thin skin.
It varies from person to person, and a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.