Seriously, if it were me, my husband is 20 years younger than myself, it would take a very strong psyche to be able to accept it, I should say that I would not accept it at all.
However, there are some of these matches in real life, but the proportion is still relatively small, after all, this kind of match is not acceptable to everyone.
What is the experience of having a husband 20 years younger than yourself?1. out more embarrassing
If the husband is 20 years younger than himself, in the husband 20 years old when he is already 40 years old, out of the time will be more embarrassing, look not to mention like mother and child, even if it looks like sister and brother, no one will think it is a husband and wife.
Meeting people who don't know directly ask:This is your son? Or this is your brother? That's when it gets a little awkward.
When it comes to nature, women are already more prone to look a bit older than men (not if the woman goes for all sorts of medical cosmetic treatments regularly), and when it comes to getting a bit older, especially after having children, the difference becomes even more pronounced.
We have a couple here, probably around 50 years old, the woman is three years older than the man, the man is average looking and taller, the woman is smaller, with white skin and pretty good features. Young look nothing, but by now, the man and young no great difference, the woman has changed a lot, the face has grown spots, the size is no longer small and delicate, the difference is so out. Once, this wife and companion together to go to the square dance, just the husband passed by there to meet together to go home, the companion did not recognize, said:? Your son is really filial ah, but also came to take you home, not married if I introduce a daughter-in-law to you ah.?
So old wives and young husbands, for ordinary people, this has to be how strong the psychological can stand.
2. Family members are more difficult to accept
If the husband is 20 years younger than himself, I believe that both sides of the family is more difficult to accept, after all, it is 20 years old, is already a different generation.
Some people have children before they are even 20 years old, and if the husband is 20 years younger than they are, it is not equivalent to marrying the next generation. Especially on the man's side, where the mother-in-law is the same age as the daughter-in-law, I don't believe any mother-in-law can genuinely accept that.
3. It's not easy to explain when you have offspring
It might be better if you are just two people living alone after getting married. But if you want to conceive a child after getting married, let's not talk about the risks of having a child, difficult to conceive, etc. Even if you do succeed in having a baby, it's not easy for you to get pregnant. Even if the baby is born successfully, when the baby is 8 or 9 years old, he or she will have the question, why does the father look like the father and the mother look like the grandmother?
While it is said that a child is not as ugly as his mother, the child may be teased by his classmates at school because of this matter, and the child will have to live in this kind of environment all the time.
4. The older you are, the more likely you are to be insecure
The older you are, the more likely you are to have a 20 year gap. Even if the latter day and how hard it is impossible to erase, when their own age is getting older and older, but the husband is getting more and more flavor, this moment the mood can still be calm?
Overall, the difference of 20 years of love is not to say that there is no, but can only be said to be a phoenix, if it is a normal marriage, it is really not recommended to be too far apart, especially the old couple. How about a person of the same age, at least there will be more **** with the same topic.