How to cultivate children's ability to study

Correctly cultivate the child's ability to take the initiative to concentrate on learning and improve their performance: a. Evaluate the child from various aspects. Evaluation of the child should not only focus on the test scores, to evaluate the child from various aspects. Focus on the cultivation of children's abilities in various aspects. Such as: civilized manners, love of labor habits, hands-on, good observation, diligent brain, good at thinking, good at innovation, the desire for lifelong learning. Learning how much knowledge is not important, the important thing is that students love to learn. Not optical books is learning, learning books outside the useful things is also learning. Such as the windmill program is very much like students to watch, from which you can learn a lot of knowledge. Second, create a good family cultural atmosphere A good family cultural atmosphere can make children have a good cultural upbringing, develop a good personality and ideological character, behavioral habits, so that it will benefit; but also will make the family members of the relationship between the cordiality, harmony, a happy state of mind, the goal of life is noble, the quality of life is high, full of security, happy feeling. Family cultural atmosphere includes both material culture and spiritual culture. In terms of material culture, if the economic conditions permit, the living room is wide, bright and clean, is the best. However, "the room elegant why big, the fragrance of flowers is not more", the mountain is not high, the water is not deep, the room is cleaned, properly arranged, can also form a strong cultural atmosphere, such as hanging on the walls of the calligraphy and painting (or celebrities, or friends gift, or their own creation of the calligraphy and painting), maps, photographs, etc., bookshelf Put some ancient and modern Chinese and foreign masterpieces and current best-selling books and magazines. Whenever possible, a well-lit, quiet and undisturbed study room must be arranged for the child, or at least a corner of the room for the child to set up a desk and a small bookshelf. It should be recognized that the cultural environment of the family on the role of the child's inculcation is immeasurable, and now some families desperately seeking to decorate the living room of the rich and beautiful, high-grade furniture and household appliances, home all day and night is the sound of cards, drinking and guessing the sound of the fight and the sound of noise and cursing, but not the sound of the book, it seems to be undesirable. In terms of spiritual culture, one should establish civilized and scientific modern family rules to form a civilized and democratic family style. Family rules are not just to restrain children, but to be observed by the whole family **** together. Parents should set an example and take the lead. The respective rights and obligations of family members should be clearly defined, and traditional family rules should be inherited critically. Good family style is a kind of silent order, has great power. Secondly, a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere should be formed. Family members should respect each other, love each other, care for each other, be civilized and polite, speak with understanding and tolerance, and refrain from talking over the top and taking drastic actions at all times. Parents should respect their children's personality, encourage their children to care about and participate in the handling of family affairs, and often communicate with their children, not only to be their teachers, but also to be their friends, so as to make family relations more intimate and harmonious. It must be realized that the authoritarianism of parents can only make children become weak and incompetent or unreasonable. Thirdly, a pleasant atmosphere should be formed. Members of the family in the work and study, may wish to speak together, stories, jokes, language, humor; can develop some good hobbies, such as reading newspapers, writing and painting, planting flowers and plants, playing ball, picnics, chess, music, collection, and so on, can cultivate the temperament, good physical and mental health. To realize that the illiteracy of the 21st century is not illiterate people, but people who do not understand modern science and technology, can not operate the computer. Families should have a strong love of science, science, science, science atmosphere, so that the family can create a useful material to adapt to the challenges of the knowledge economy. Third, do not let the children lose at the starting line As we all know, athletes on the track and field starting action is good or bad, will affect the game results. The beginning of the new school year, it is also the children stand in the new starting line. So, as parents should be how to enthusiastically help them get ready for a new start with confidence? A. Learning attitude of the preparation of children from early childhood to do the main game to school learning, which is a big transition, to encourage them to come to school on time, discipline, pay attention to the lecture, boldly speak, do their homework seriously, and be a good student. When evaluating your children's learning achievements, encourage them with expectant cordiality: "I believe you can correct your carelessness." "I believe you can accomplish the task of learning." Never hurt a child's self-esteem by reprimanding them with cold words, saying things like, "You're so stupid!" "I don't think you will ever learn." B. Preparation of Study Habits Study habits are the basic guarantee for accomplishing various study tasks. To let children enter school as soon as possible to develop good learning habits, such as school supplies to be ready, with a full; hear the bell ringing to enter the classroom on time; do homework seriously, turn in their homework on time; to protect their eyesight, and seriously do eye exercises and cherish the books, books and school supplies of good habits. Parents should cooperate with me at home to cultivate the study habits of their children. Here I would like to communicate with parents about their children's writing posture. c. Preparation of Learning Methods On the one hand, we should correct the incorrect learning methods that have been developed in the early childhood stage, such as the wrong way of holding the pen and sitting in an incorrect posture, counting with fingers, etc. On the other hand, we should hold the pen according to the teacher's requirements. On the other hand, according to the teacher's requirements to write and read to do three one, namely: eyes away from the book books a foot; hands away from the nib of the pen an inch; chest away from the desk a fist. As the grade rises, but also to help them learn how to look up the dictionary, how to draw notes, how to check the math and check their homework and other methods of self-learning and self-checking. Active thinking, questioning, encouraging them to be bold and innovative, the more they learn, the smarter they get. Fourth, check the children's homework do not just look at how much parents in checking children's homework, only to see whether the children's homework is done, and for the children's homework quality is rarely asked. In fact, checking homework in this way is not conducive to students' learning and development. Children do homework to consolidate what they have learned or to prepare for the next lesson. In short, doing homework is to make children learn more. How should you as a parent check your child's homework? First of all, see if the writing is done stroke by stroke and conscientiously. Through the child's words parents can see the child's mental activity, the attitude of doing homework. If the child is doing homework in a calm mood and serious attitude, he will be very engaged and naturally write every word in the homework. Otherwise, the homework done by the child is just to cope with the checking of the teacher or parents. This kind of homework is almost the same as not doing it. Because the child's "mind" has already flown away, and his "mind" will not remember what he has done. Doing homework in this way certainly does not achieve the purpose of doing homework. Next, see if you have filled in all the blanks and questions correctly. The blanks in the questions are left for the child to fill in. Whether the child has filled in the blanks correctly or not can be seen by whether the child has seriously examined and analyzed the questions; at the same time, it can also be understood how well the child has learned the knowledge. If it is correct, it means that the child has mastered the knowledge. Otherwise, parents should look at the child because they do not know how to do and do it wrong, or because the attitude is not serious and did not do a good job of reviewing and analyzing the problem and do it wrong. Parents should point out to the child what makes the question wrong. Again, look at the overall layout of the assignment. The overall layout of the homework, that is, the overall arrangement of the child's homework. Parents check the child's homework to see whether the overall layout is beautiful, organized, can improve the child's aesthetic ability and enhance the child's beauty. Fifth, the child playful how to do Some elementary school students play all day long, no interest in learning, lack of self-conscious learning attitude, even in the case of supervision, but always left and right, absent-minded. So, how should we treat this kind of playful, uninterested children? A. Cultivate attention from childhood. Children do not like to study is often related to their poor attention. So we need to cultivate children's attention from childhood. B. The intensity of learning should not exceed the child's ability to withstand. Many parents tend to arrange a few hours of study after school, in fact, this is not good. First, because the child in the school has been very tired, plus a few hours of additional learning, greatly exceeding its ability to withstand; Secondly, "classroom - family" relay learning often make the child learning from the initial curiosity, love to learn into boredom and even hatred of learning. C. Cultivate children's interest in learning. Interest in learning is to promote the child consciously learn the driving force, if the child is interested in learning, the child will not take learning as a chore and refuse. We often see that some children are interested in insects, all about insects, he is willing to know, and sometimes even find some of them can not read the books to read, show very focused. This shows that it is very important to cultivate children's interest. D. Make children taste success. Continuous success in learning is the best stimulus and spur to learning. Many children do not like to learn the reason, mostly due to learning is always a failure, test scores are always inferior. Therefore, we must be based on the child's actual, appropriate for the child to determine the learning goals, and to give practical and effective help, so that the child will be able to get through the efforts of the experience of success. E. Don't force your child to learn. If parents disregard the child's receptivity and interest, do not take into account the child's lively nature, and ask the child to learn this, learn that, engage in fatigue tactics, will often make the child bored with learning, resulting in serious psychological barriers to learning. F. Teaching by example is better than teaching by words. Parents words and deeds are the best example for children. To make children love to learn, they must love to read, and strive to create a good learning atmosphere. If parents play mahjong all day long, watching TV, dancing, socializing, then to think of the child "out of the mud without dyeing" is absolutely impossible. G. Avoid misguidance in homeschooling. Family education in the parents speak carelessly and produce the wrong orientation, is also an important reason for children do not love to learn, for example, some parents say: "This child was sick when he was a child, the brain is not good, so can not learn into." As a result, the child really thinks that his brain is not good, so he gave up learning. H. Find a good partner for your child who loves to learn. Some children do not like to study when they are alone, but if there is a good friend who loves to study next to them, the child becomes fond of studying. This kind of peer power is often more effective than parental lectures and scolding. Sixth, the discovery of children's interests and hobbies Interests in the child's growth process, has a very important role. To cultivate and develop children's interests, parents should learn to discover children's interests and hobbies. A, from the child's question to understand the child's interests and hobbies Often hear some parents say this: "Children ask questions, ignore is, annoyed by the annoyance of the death of the ......" do not know that the child loves to ask questions is a good thing, that he has a strong desire to know and explore the spirit. The first thing you need to do is to ask your child to ask questions. Children love to ask questions, is driven by curiosity, is a sign of interest and hobby, but also a sign of its intellectual activity. Parents should be good at asking questions to explore their children's interests and help them to solve the "why" and recognize "what". For example: the great inventor Thomas Edison when he was small, like to ask "why", his mother fully affirmed his courage to ask a "why" of the spirit of questioning, and to cultivate, so that he became a **** know the great inventors. B, from the activities of children and parents to tap the child's hobbies Weekends, holidays, with the child into the store, stroll in the park, or to the woods for a walk, parents can pay attention to the child's interest in the goods, books, scenery and so on. In addition, parents can write, draw, do paperwork, repair daily necessities, and cook together with their children. ...... Generally speaking, the child's interests and talents will be clearly demonstrated when he or she ****s with the parents in the same activity. Seven, how to make children feel at ease to do homework Since the child's enrollment in school, some parents quite a headache: children can not feel at ease to do homework. Some even sit there to do homework, do not know what to think; some do homework like running a marathon, from home after school until the family lights out to bed, but homework is approved down there are many wrong. So, some parents will take a strict "discipline" approach, did not complete the homework, are not allowed to eat, are not allowed to watch TV, are not allowed to ...... some parents simply sit next to the town, from time to time to supervise, or the use of corporal punishment. However, these measures have little effect, and even counterproductive. How can children learn to control themselves to complete homework at ease? This requires parents according to the child's psychological characteristics, to take the appropriate approach, generally pay attention to the following points: A. Create a quiet home learning atmosphere. To let the child to study at ease, parents first of all their own peace of mind, at this time you can read books, read the newspaper, or do some not make a sound, do not cause the child to have interest in things. "Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words", young children do not know why the reason for learning, but they see their parents seriously reading and learning, they will follow suit to do. B. Don't nag your children. Some parents out of the need for emotional exchanges, like to care about their children when they do their homework. A moment to ask "today in school performance is good, whether the teacher praised (or criticized)", a moment to ask "hungry, want to eat snacks"; some parents also love to supervise, "do a few? How many more?" "Do fast, to eat" and so on. This interferes with the child from time to time, causing the child a rush, a burst of annoyance, unable to concentrate. C. Don't receive guests in the room where your child is doing homework. Neighbors, friends visit, this is a common thing. However, some people talk endlessly, forgetting that there are children doing homework in the room. In the long run, the child's learning will certainly be affected. Therefore, as parents, should be arranged as far as possible in a place that does not affect the child's learning or the child's recreation time to receive guests. And friends and relatives are best in the child's day off to visit the door, if there is something urgent need to visit the door, should be arranged in a more compact time, so as not to affect the host family children's learning and rest. Eight, calmly treat the child Whether in life, or learning, for many children, both exciting success, but also confusing failure. For the child's failure, fault, some parents lack of due patience and calm, only cursing, casually "stupid pig", "no good" and other hats on the child's head. Do not know, this will greatly hurt the child's self-esteem. Set up a correct view of education, take a scientific approach to education, as soon as possible to make the child from the "failure" to "success", which is the parents should be the right choice!