How can couples recover from their weak feelings
1. Re-establish their own attraction.
There will be no feelings between husband and wife, and it is very important that they are not attractive to each other. Because after they are not attractive to each other, the other party will not pay special attention to you, and at most they will maintain the habit of getting along for a long time. And if you want emotional recovery, then you have to rebuild your attraction and let your other half pay attention to you, so that you can start again. You can learn to make changes. As you are used to washing and cooking, you can dress up beautifully and go to the square dance with many friends. In this way, you also have mature charm.
2. Communicate more peacefully with your lover.
feelings will disappear because of frequent quarrels, and will also increase because of friendly getting along. And you, you must know how to live in peace with the wicked you love. In ordinary life, you can care more about him and know more about his thoughts. When you have a quarrel, you don't need to argue with each other loudly, but you must win or lose. As long as you calm down and communicate with each other in a gentle tone, you can find a solution to the problem together and get along better.
How to restore the cold relationship between husband and wife
1. Understand each other and consider each other's feelings
If in a relationship, without considering each other's feelings, only seeking personal satisfaction and long-term imbalance, one party is bound to be disappointed with this relationship and may eventually want to end this relationship. For those who have been together for a long time, there is no need to pursue fairness at all times. For example, I changed my baby's diaper now, and it will be your turn next time. Instead, I am willing to think of each other. Usually, it is very hard for you to take care of the children. On weekends, I have a good rest and sleep late. I get up early to take care of the children. Or tomorrow, you look in a bad mood today. Maybe the work during the day is not very smooth. I'll take the children out to play and leave you some space. Of course, although we can ignore the gains and losses, our efforts need to be seen by the other side.
2. Learn to open topics and improve communication
If couples are in a period of emotional apathy, the most important thing is to find topics that they like each other, then discuss them with each other and enhance their feelings through communication. For example, using festivals to communicate with many parties is a good opportunity to help couples open topics. If the husband hasn't made any comment on the arrival of the festival, as a wife, he can take the initiative to bring up the topic first, "How do you want to spend our festival this year?" Or "Do you have any good suggestions for this year's festival celebration?" Ask your husband for more advice, listen to his thoughts, and give him more praise if you think it is appropriate, which will make him feel the honor of being needed and respected.
3. Memories of sweet times together
A wife can "talk about the past" with her husband, such as remembering unforgettable and meaningful things that happened in the years from acquaintance, love to marriage, remembering the past more and telling each other's voices, which is of great help to increase the same sex between husband and wife. The most important thing to save a husband with a weak heart is to give him more respect and understanding. Don't vent your temper in front of the other party at will. Think from the other party's point of view, take the initiative to care for him and meet his inner needs, so that you can successfully save your husband's heart.
4. Physical intimacy
When you are full of love for a person, you will naturally want to be intimate with the other person, whether it is a partner or a child. At the same time, intimate actions will also awaken your love. Body language is the most direct way of expression. We need enough optimism to give a good hope for our married life, and we also need some pessimism to arouse enough attention to each other.
How to save the feelings from fading
1. Take more initiative: If you don't take the initiative in love for a long time, it is easy to make the feelings between two people fade, which is normal. If you want to keep the feelings of two people alive, then you need two people to take more practical actions and take more initiative, so as to surprise the other half and make the other side happy, so that the couple can become more interactive.
2. Learn to cherish: To learn how to cherish each other's feelings, only know how to cherish them, even if the feelings are dull, they will be so precious, and the feelings of two people will fade with the passage of time. At this time, you should know how to understand and understand the other half, instead of blindly pursuing excitement, so that the feelings between you two will fade. This is also a very good way, and it is easy for the other half to cherish you more.
The reason why couples have no feelings
Husband and wife are very close, but sometimes, because they are too close, there are no secrets between husband and wife, and everything is open. In this way, husband and wife have no space and mystery, which reduces the attraction between husband and wife. Moreover, the more time spent together, the more conflicts between husband and wife, and the more quarrels, the feelings will gradually wear away. After such a long time together, there will naturally be no feelings between husband and wife.