Travel
If you can, you must go out more often, the world is very big and wonderful, going out is the best way to open up our eyes, and increase our knowledge.
I realized a few years ago that I had been to too few places, and then began to plan a trip, and went to some places, Hong Kong, Zhangjiajie, Phoenix, Sanya, Hangzhou, Xiamen and so on. My plan for traveling is to go to at least one place every year.
The difference between traveling and not traveling is really big, I have not traveled before my horizons and insights are very narrow, always thought the world is only so big that they see, go out to know that the world there are so many beautiful and fun places, there are so many delicious food.
What fascinates me most about traveling is that I can escape from my usual life, unload all the burdens and pressures on my body and mind, and enjoy the freedom of not being constrained by the unfamiliar environment.
If you can't afford to go too far away, you can start with your own city, because every city has its own characteristics and culture, and there are a lot of interesting places and beautiful sights.
Many people only think of faraway places when they talk about traveling, but they overlook the fact that the city they are staying in is also a faraway place in other people's eyes. If you don't have the time or money, it's great to see your own city first.
02. Reading and writing
I guess there must be a lot of people who don't read after they leave school, partly because they're not interested in it, and partly because they're too tired from work, and when they get home they just want to be paralyzed.
I didn't read for a few years after I graduated, and I spent most of my spare time on my phone, swiping through my friends' circles, browsing Tmall, watching TV shows, and switching between several apps.
One day I suddenly realized that I couldn't waste my time like that anymore, and that I should read more. There's a saying that "if we can't get there, reading can get us there", and that's true.
The old saying goes, "Read a thousand books, travel a thousand miles," and if you don't have the ability to travel a thousand miles at the moment, you can read a thousand books first, and there is a golden house in the books. Reading can cultivate our temperament, increase our knowledge, enrich our heart, reading is the lowest threshold of the noble move.
Writing, on the other hand, helps us cultivate our logical thinking ability and organize our thoughts, and it also helps us reflect on ourselves and meet our unknown selves.
It is a way for us to talk to ourselves. Try to write five hundred words a day, stick to it for a year, five years, ten years, and you will realize that you have long since got rid of the similarity with others.
03, develop a hobby
I believe that there are still a lot of people who think that developing hobbies is a child's business, and that it is completely unnecessary for us adults.
While I believe that no matter what age you are, you should have at least one hobby, which can help us to enjoy and relax when we are lost and unhappy.
Most people of our generation have never taken hobby classes because they didn't have the means or their parents didn't have the sense to cultivate hobbies for us during their childhood, and that's the case with me, so I often envy people who are multi-talented and multi-skilled.
One day it occurred to me, why should I envy others, it's not too late for me to start cultivating hobbies from now on.