Bad men are characterized by thick skin, boldness, good at lying, not too much moral constraints, a lot of tricks, and irresponsibility. And these traits hit a woman's soft spot.
Assuming that a good man and a bad man with similar hardware conditions meet the same woman, the bad man's lethality is N times stronger. So why do women like bad men?
First of all, the probability of a good man's shot is much smaller, because a good man has to consider the issue of responsibility before he starts pursuing, so he won't go after them if he doesn't like them completely, and he can't go after them because they're not mature enough to do so, and he can't go after them because they already have a boyfriend, and he can't go after them because he's not optimistic about his future prospects (e.g. he's in a different city). And the bad man is not going to be responsible anyway, as long as the other side of a little bit of beauty, or touch, all the first chase before saying.
Secondly, good men are honest, no money, no matter on the truth, on the shortcomings of the woman also frankly, often let the woman is very disappointed. And the bad man casually make up two stories can appear to be superior strength; to women's rhetoric and easy to make them happy, that found a confidant Bole. In this impatient society, the results of many years of hard work of good men are not as good as a bad man with 3 minutes of time to make up the story of a woman's heart.
Thirdly, good men always think of respecting each other and don't look for opportunities to molest. And a bad man stimulates a woman's hormones at all times through flirting, alcohol, dancing, etc., and takes the other person for himself at every opportunity. Once a woman's pleasure is mobilized, she will soon fall in love with the man instead. The effect of a bad man's one-time heckling often exceeds that of a good man's silent multiple payments. Some silly women think that a man on her is in love with her; even more silly women think that once a man is on, she must fall in love with the man. There is a reverse gene implicit in a woman's nature.
Fourth, the good man sincerely pay, the two sides of the relationship is very important, the mentality is easy to be unbalanced, for some small things and girlfriend quarrel. And the bad man thought: anyway, I just do a game, looking for some excitement just, coaxing her to get, angry about what ah? The mind is more calm, but instead of appearing mature personality good.
Fifth, bad men usually have more dating experience than good men. Referring to the first article, the bad men have a chance to go out, even if unsuccessful, but also accumulated experience, and gradually understand the psychology of women. Most women are irrational and have all sorts of inexplicable and completely illogical prejudices. Bad men through a lot of real-world experience in dating these surface work well, while good men are ignorant, were swished do not understand why, but also thought it was their own strength is not enough.
Sixth, both sides of the dispute, a good man's pride, strong principles, will not easily accommodate each other, often for some small things who do not give way, and finally can only break up. And bad men have thick skin, admit a mistake than drinking rice is easy, often easy to coax each other back to the heart; of course, that's when he's not tired of playing, otherwise even if the female concessions he can find excuses to break up, and sometimes the woman will be again and again to give in to the bad man's playthings completely.
Seventh, a good man has strong principles, follow the rules, often seem boring. The bad man is bent on the pursuit of excitement, change, and often give women a sense of freshness. Unconsciously, the woman is bad man confused, control.
Eighth, if the woman recognizes that the two sides are not suitable, put forward the initiative to break up. A good man will only take the means of open and aboveboard, the actual effect is limited; and the bad man can do whatever it takes, stalking, coercion and seduction. The woman's inertia is strong, emotionally volatile, and easy to bow to the strong, often get rid of the bad man's underhanded tactics.
Most women are vain, have high self-esteem, like sweet talk, unrealistic expectations of life (romance novels, movies, the consequences of watching too much). The consequence is that honest, good men don't live up to their expectations, and only con men can make up an ideal world in their minds.
It's like a regular doctor telling you that a disease costs a lot of money, take a lot of drugs, and in the end it's hard to cure (the real situation is often less than ideal); and a charlatan lying to you that two or three medicines, a few days to get rid of it, and in addition to the beauty, strong and so on all sorts of efficacy. A person who lacks knowledge of health care is likely to fall for the charlatan's tricks.
The difference is that: those who were cheated by the charlatan patients found to be cheated most likely to go to the other side of the accounts; and was cheated by the woman often have a hard time (feel dishonorable, can not be clarified, or married to the chicken with the chicken resigned to fate). In addition, for most women. The man who possesses her body has too many advantages over other men (the level of intimacy is greatly enhanced, the other invariably has a lot more power to manipulate the woman's body and behavior, etc.).
Why can't good men do what bad men can do? Simply because good men care about morality and responsibility and have too many scruples. By the time the good guy realizes it, the good girl will have been snatched away by someone else.
Also, a good man can never be as calm as a cheater. For a good man, you are an important part of his life and he cares about your past, present and future. A cheater, on the other hand, wants just a little excitement in front of him, and is certainly more likely to pander to you to achieve his goals. A cheater is more tolerant of your shortcomings because he only has to put up with them for a few days, a month or two; whereas a good man has to plan for the prospect of a lifetime, so some bonding has to take place