This is the concrete feedback from my body in my thirties. In fact, when it comes to psychological age, I always feel that I am not very old, although I am already the father of two children. I am an optimist. No matter what happens, I always think positively. What I'm worried about now is that I haven't bought a house yet, and my children grow up day by day and need their own rooms. The pressure in my heart is getting bigger and bigger So I can only force myself not to daydream, and do things seriously.
Personal opinion, for reference only!
I will be 30 years old in half a year. Before the age of 30, I felt very young and had young capital. I feel that life can take its time, and there are many possibilities in life, so I don't know the mood after 30, so I can only share myself after 90:
First: how many signs of aging have you won after standing in the 30s and 90s?
1 Severe hair loss.
2 wrinkles are obvious and spots begin to grow.
3 don't like to send friends.
4 don't play qq
5 don't like selfies
6 like to stay at home
7 began to like pink.
Physical strength is not as good as before
I feel a lot of pressure and just want to get rid of poverty.
10 consciously wear long pants, start maintenance, and start health preservation.
1 1 no longer contradicts the called aunt and uncle.
etc ......
Second, how did you get old when you first started to mature?
There is a song called (I am old in an instant), how can I be old when I first start to understand, how can I be old when I just know where to go, how can I be old when I first understand, and suddenly miss being young and frivolous. Are we starting to panic like me after 90? We were going to get married this year, but the epidemic affected us. I hope I can finish it in the second half of the year, but I'm really starting to panic. 30 years old, it's time to have a baby, but still on the way to get married. We can't ask our parents for money any more, but we still pretend to be okay in front of our friends. No one helped us, and there was no way to escape. It's really time for us to push ourselves. ...
Third, at the age of 30, I began to miss the past.
Time has passed, not only for 30 years, but also for your young heart. Time has witnessed our growth and changes. If you haven't reached the age of 30, please feel younger, start a business if you want, and work hard if you want. Too late to wait, only to suddenly find that the years have passed!
Come on, quietly top-notch, and then don't panic at the age of 30.
Thirty years old is an age connecting the preceding with the following. One of my greatest feelings is that my body is easily tired. Even my daughter-in-law said, "Your health is not as good as before!" , just kidding.
At the age of 30, the pressure of life is still great, and most of them are parents. 30 years old, with parents to support and children to support, the middle and the other half have a good relationship. It's actually quite hard.
Let me talk about my feelings first. Life is stressful. Parents in poor health need to take medicine every day and occasionally take injections and infusions. The child is not big, and the wife is taking care of it. Basically, I bear all the expenses at home alone. Sometimes it's really hard to feel tired, but stick to it. We are men!
You know what scares me the most? Even if I'm not at home, I'm most afraid of getting a phone call from home in the middle of the night, because getting a phone call from home in the middle of the night will definitely be a bad thing. Now I'm thinking about my wife and children, and the health of my parents. As long as you are healthy, no matter how tired you are.
Let me talk about health. It turns out that when I was young, I saw my favorite TV series and stayed up late to watch it. I also like to stay up late to play games. I am really tall. Sleeping for three to five hours at night has no effect on the spirit and the body is not tired.
I don't watch TV dramas at all now. The fixed channel of TV is between CCTV news channel and children's channel. Children watch news when they sleep and watch cartoons when they don't sleep. Now give me money to stay up and watch TV plays. I won't even look at them. As for games, not to mention, there are no games except the necessary software on mobile phones and computers.
Sometimes I really feel overwhelmed. It seems that the spirit in my body is slipping away. My head is particularly heavy in the morning, and sometimes I can't sleep at night.
Thirty years old is neither too young nor too old. Although there is some pressure, I think it is acceptable. This is a necessary process in life. Filial piety is better than anything else when parents are alive. It is also what parents should do to make money and give their children a good material condition.
Happily, my wife and I have always had a good relationship, and I appreciate her efforts. I also feel that I owe my wife a lot, so I should continue to work hard.
Life is not easy, and a down-to-earth life is better than anything!
I am thirty years old this year, and I really feel this way. After 30 years old, I suddenly feel old.
There are two reasons:
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Influenced by the idiom "Stand at 30 and get married".
Just like a 18-year-old child is still very young.
After the age of 30, most people's living conditions are old and young, with careers to work hard and family responsibilities to take care of.
Influenced by socio-economic factors, we can see from the recruitment websites that the age requirements of many companies are mostly under 35, and women are generally under 30. Therefore, people in the workplace who are over 30 have a sense of crisis. They are worried that the sentence "The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves before, and the waves before die on the beach."
A woman over the age of 35 is an old woman. The rate of fetal malformation is higher in older women, and their postpartum repair ability is weaker than that of ordinary women. According to this calculation, getting married around the age of 30 and having children after two years of stable marriage can avoid the danger of elderly women.
②
Affected by the body.
When a woman is over 28 years old and a man is over 30 years old, he will feel that his metabolism is slow, his stomach appears, he is not easy to lose weight when he is fat, his hairline rises, and his skin's ability to absorb nutrients becomes worse. ...
When you encounter these problems, you have to admit that you are old.
To sum up, after 30 years old, I suddenly feel old.
Indeed, time is a knife, life makes people old, and economic income is steel demand. ...
Before the age of 30, my knowledge was limited and I had no idea about my achievements. At this age, I don't think my parents will be old, and my children will grow up without increasing other social needs. ...
Suddenly one day, I saw a photo of my 20-year-old and thought of what happened in those days. Now face the pressure of life and look at your present appearance and achievements. When I find that I want to do something, it involves too much, and I have to feel that my dream I want was not started until I was 30 years old. At a beautiful age, how do I choose to waste? ...
This is a complete lament. 30 years old is a good young man, and this age can only be said to be mature. I have my own personal views on some things and my own unique experience in life.
Don't say 30-year-old people, people dare not say that they are old when they reach middle age. The old man above and the child below need our care. We should cherish ...
The oldest post-90s generation is 30 years old, and I'm talking about myself. Now people ask me how old I am, saying that I like to talk about the post-90s generation, but I don't want to admit that I am 30 years old. I used to think that 30 years old is far away from me, but I feel really old ... I haven't been to work for nearly four months recently, so I miss the days of going to work. When I calm down, I always wonder why people live ... I always feel that I live the same life now.
Personally, most modern people are young and not calm enough before the age of 30. After the age of 30, they look sophisticated and smart. It is a stage of hard work. Two years before and after getting married, regardless of age, they are in a happy period. When they have the responsibility and pressure, they realize that life is also a period of struggle and confusion. Modern people don't feel old until they are 60. Rural talents are 80 years old, diligent people live a long life, and heartless and bored people grind more. Standing at the age of 30 is the golden age of ambition, physical strength and vitality. So how old is it?
There is little difference between mentality and age. Adolescence before the age of 30, willfulness. After 30 years old, I have matured and learned a lot. At this age, I have raised children, respected my parents and made outstanding achievements in my work. It's also a good time for me to climb the mountain, get promoted and get a raise. With the growth of age, my experience has greatly increased, and I am active in society, units and families. As I know more and more, I feel younger and younger.
No, I think I'm more attractive after I'm 30, because women in their thirties are mature, sexy and feminine, which is a unique temperament that women before 30 don't have. I am in my thirties. I make myself happier and happier every day. I dress up beautifully every day and feel beautiful. How nice! The most important thing is that our mentality must be good. If you have time, I suggest you read more books and improve yourself. I wish you happiness.