We always sigh that time is in a hurry and the years are ruthless.
In this noisy and utilitarian world, it seems that time is life and time is money. People are always in a hurry and ignore the beautiful scenery around them.
People often pursue material and selfish desires. In order to get what he called a better life, they gave up the picturesque scenery on his life road, blindly went their own way and ignored the most precious things around them. Some people even give up family, friendship and love. ...
There is love in your heart, and you are grateful to be a man. In this landscape of life, we will encounter all kinds of trivial things. We should know how to cherish things around us, have love in our hearts and be grateful to be human. Because the scenery around us needs everyone to protect and be friendly. The words "truth, goodness and beauty" contain the truth of life. If you are still, you will be calm and inclusive, because in your eyes, every grain of dust is a big garden with a hundred schools of thought contending and charming fragrance.
Bi Shumin said: "Energy has three compartments. The first room is used to hold our love and hate; The second room is where we work; The third room is our own. "
In fact, I hate it too much, so keep it in my heart. Although sometimes hate will be our motivation, it can destroy the goodness in our hearts. Even if you succeed, you may have planted the seeds of evil. These seeds often take root and sprout in your unconscious state, make yourself possessed and become a vicious person. In the second and third rooms, I don't think it is necessary. It is much better to forget yourself than to think of yourself from time to time. If you hate your job, don't worry. If it were me, I would open three rooms, all for love.
Smile happily, contentment is always a pleasure.
She looks forward to having her own future, but she is afraid of leaving the past; She dreams of having a man, but she doesn't want to be chased by him. After every fear, there is a latent desire. Conquest frightened her, but she expected passivity. She is therefore doomed to be false, and there are countless excuses. She is doomed to be tortured by all kinds of negative emotions mixed with anxiety and desire.
Silence is a virtue, but silence in front of your lover is cowardice. If you really like someone, you want to give her happiness with your own hands! If you really like someone, please put down your noble face, liking someone is innocent. There's really nothing to be ashamed of. Why do you have to die of shame? If you really like someone, say it out loud! Come on!
We always have endless work, endless resentment, endless fat people, endless grandfathers, endless SB's and endless dads. This is life.
Tired, listening to music; Depressed, dancing; Sadness, Kan Kan's mood; Failure, start all over again; This is how life should be lived. Sweep away the haze and be happy. Although sometimes things go wrong, you can control everything by yourself, face it happily and do things without feeling tired. Be happy with yourself and infect everyone. You will feel carefree when you cry, and a rainbow will appear after the rain. Smile happily, contentment is always a pleasure.
If the person I fall in love with can't give me happiness, can't give me forever, can't give me love for a lifetime. Maybe we won't last forever, or maybe he moved on and fell in love with someone else. However, I will not regret it. I won't regret knowing him or falling in love with him. I don't regret being with him. Whatever the outcome. No matter how tragic your ending is. I'm consistent.
The expression of love is not necessarily expensive or time-consuming. Living together for a long time, the expression of love may become some trivial living habits. For example, make a cup of hot tea for your lover, tuck your lover in, and play a joke on your lover. Of course, tea may be too hot, quilt corners may be unnecessary, and jokes may be a bit vulgar. However, don't refuse. Because what you refuse is not an action, but love.
I once lost myself in your world, and now I find a better self in a world without you.
The true meaning of life lies in taking and letting go. When you can afford it, you should have the courage and courage. In the face of difficulties, never back down will never stop under the cold words. Only by carrying forward the burden can life have a sense of texture; Let go with determination and courage, not limited by gains and losses, and not afraid of success or failure. Only by traveling light can your soul relax. Many times, it doesn't matter if you can afford it or not. Everything you pick up should be put down, and nothing can't be forgotten.
An inch of affection, a miss, in the lonely world, who painstakingly brewed acacia, turned it into a thousand-year treasure, watched for thousands of years, a piece of red dust, warm and cold autumn wind, who circled it with stupid eyes, like years full of water, who held the miss in his hand!
Some things, I don't say, I don't ask, doesn't mean I don't care. Once, who cried for whom. You are the sand blown into my eyes, which blurs my eyes and can't see the sky clearly. This is a busy ending, not the whole city or this country, but everything to me. What do you want, to be together all your life, or to live well; All I want is a simple and stable life. Love to death, running water under the bridge The best happiness is the care you give.
Sadly, only by staying still can we see through the world of mortals.
First, when you are depressed, you will always obviously feel the power of loneliness. People who are eager to know will give you some warmth and lend you a shoulder. I'm glad to have you. The original dream is firmly in my hand. How dare you return to the place you want to go halfway?
No matter what you are going through, it's always good to have someone to share with you. I'm used to the habit that I shouldn't be used to, but I'm persistent with the persistence that I shouldn't be persistent. We always keep our words in our hearts, for dignity and for many stupid reasons. No matter how good you do, there are still people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, there are still people singing hymns. So you don't have to fall into the eyes of others. All you need to please is yourself.
Third, the monster's habit, although it is a devil, will swallow all the shame, and it will also be an angel, molding the accumulated virtue and charity into a natural and comfortable routine.
His eyes are glassy and his expression is depressed. His figure, his eyes, people strongly feel his deep and soul-stirring sadness. His eyes are deeply trapped in the eye socket and he acts like an old man. He stayed there, staring blankly at the stream until he died sadly.
Five, people should be content, tolerant and generous, and live in mutual appreciation. The past, let him disappear with the wind, the future, let him let nature take its course. Let him cherish what he has now. In this way, only by knowing how to cherish can we deserve to have it. He who sees through the world of mortals will stay away from it.
6. Those things that come from fate will eventually end with fate and other time. -Sanmao is my baby
Seven, miss you; Makes me sad and lonely! Miss you; Make me sad and cry!
Eight, years are like water, years are like songs, and time always passes inadvertently. Memories are gradually forgotten with the passage of time, and the beautiful faces that were once familiar are gradually blurred. Only some faded memories are left, drifting to mottled places with the wind, and the prosperity of the past has become a lifetime of loneliness. Life is gathering and dispersing again and again, moving slowly with the hands of the clock.
Nine, people's biggest opponent is often not others, but their own laziness. Don't count on luck. Luck can't be with you forever. You have to rely on your own ability to eat at any time. You must do your best to qualify as unlucky.
Ten, family, friendship, love. Stay if you can, and put it down if you can't. Why embarrass others and force yourself?
Eleven, let go, everything is dust after all. Looking back, how many hearts have become barren. I can't tell happiness from sadness. Drifting and losing, or inexplicable attribution. Have a cup of tea, let your mind radiate temperature. Take a long trip and let life recover quietly.
Smile and face what you can, because smiling is better than crying.
Thirteen, don't regret what you missed. People or things you miss, others have a chance to meet, others miss, you have a chance to have. Everyone will miss it, everyone will miss it, and what really belongs to you will never be missed.
Fourteen, that year, Na Yue, that time, has quietly passed. The mountain, the water and the sound of the piano gradually became clear. Rivers, banks and banks have been devastated. The figure I stopped at the shore is still the same, and the flute is euphemistic Who's that? Looking back, who is who missed the attention, who is whose horizon. Who can wipe the dust off that page year after year? Who can read eternal feelings?
Fifteen, after breaking up, we can't be friends, because we have hurt each other and we can't be enemies. Because of our deep love for each other, we became the most familiar strangers.
Sixteen, the smoke is vast, and you are a peerless beauty standing in the water, wearing plain clothes, thick eyebrows and distant mountains, a pair of affectionate eyes like a pool of blue waves, charming autumn water, elegant and compelling, if the skin is coagulated, the ice muscles are like jade bones, and no makeup is applied.
Seventeen, to exercise a person who can do great things, we must let him suffer hardships and be dissatisfied, so as to develop a patient character.
Eighteen, do not envy prosperity, do not deliberately carve, simple to people, do things realistically; Don't be too stingy, don't be too persistent, know how to choose and learn to pay; Don't burden your mind, don't pretend to be spiritual, go into battle lightly and be happy; Don't be greedy and competitive, don't flaunt yourself, success is low-key and failure is free and easy. Simplicity will live the true self. Learn to practice peace, tolerance, indifference, smile at flowers and appreciate leaves, and it is best to make the best use of the situation.
Nineteen, lovelorn people know more about love, and frustrated people know more about life.
Twenty, in a bad mood: life is too short to live brilliantly, not lying in the gray; Surprise is a double yellow egg, despair is a double yellow thread; Life is alive, live like a sunflower, and face the sun even if you are depressed. Life is too short, you should live a wonderful life, not lie in the gray; Surprise is a double yellow egg, despair is a double yellow thread; Life is alive, live like a sunflower, and face the sun even if you are depressed.
Twenty-one, get drunk, why bother; Pity the quiet night, the shadows are bleak. We have known each other for thousands of years and love each other in this life; If you can't move, you will have a lot of worries, and tears will flow first. On a young night, string your warm words together and fold them into Tang and Song Dynasties, laying a good foundation for tonight's writing. A kind of love can only be sent in a dream, and I, like a butterfly in a dream, dance in the slender moonlight, waiting for the dawn.
Twenty-two, people are alive, and every day is confused, troubled and frustrated! Looking back, I still can't forget whether it was useful before. It's up to me to be happy or continue.
Twenty-three, there are two roads in life, one needs to go with your heart, called a dream; One who needs to walk with his feet is called reality.
24. Despicability is the passport of the despicable, and nobility is the epitaph of the noble.
Twenty-five, record the bits and pieces of the soul, collect the trajectory and time of life, and eventually everything will be stripped. Some people will disappear from sight forever. The accumulation and dispersion of karma is the constant theme of life; Open dusty memories, relive the words of spring, miss, and finally burst its banks in the wind. Some things always come to mind inadvertently. There is love in the world and eternity in the world.
Satisfied words
1, "Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. The development of human society is never a straight line, and there will be contradictions at any stage. " However, people should not only understand the society from their own interests, but also learn to "be content with happiness" and "plain is true", so as to live a leisurely life and let others feel safe and full because of you.
2. The so-called happy people are those who only remember satisfaction all their lives; The so-called unfortunate people only remember the opposite.
3. Whoever is truly content in his heart can get all happiness.
4. Contentment means being satisfied with your life or desire, not being jealous of those who are stronger than yourself, not being proud of those who are weaker than yourself, and trying to help those in need; Contentment is not content with the status quo, but to fully cherish the existing gains, fully enjoy the current achievements, fully tap the existing potential, and provide a platform for future innovation and progress. Rational progress should be based on the mentality of contentment.
5, contentment is the normal state of the world, wealth and splendor are fleeting, and the real philosophical attitude should be based on peace and happiness, and be prepared for danger in times of peace.
6, lovers enjoy the joy of love, family members enjoy family happiness. Ordinary people enjoy the happiness of food, while philosophers enjoy the happiness of wisdom. Ordinary people enjoy material enjoyment, while saints enjoy spiritual enjoyment. Enjoy yourself, be content, and live a happy life!
7. It is not enough to be content with knowing. It's easier said than done. We need to understand with heart, grasp with wisdom and practice with action. If a person can put himself in others' shoes and be satisfied with what he knows, his life will be more wonderful and beautiful, and his career will be smoother and more brilliant.
8. Life is like a road, and those who are satisfied "can take their time, touch the green mountains and green waters, and look at the sky high and the clouds light". Generally speaking, they can adhere to the principle of "starting from afar, starting from small things", "being honest and doing things in a down-to-earth manner" at ordinary times, not admiring vanity, not pursuing fame and fortune, "being at peace with the world and being at ease physically and mentally; Exploring Kun's interest, knowing the articles of heaven and earth ",and finally ending with" being clean, relaxed, carefree and without regrets ".
9. Contentment may mean that you can't get more, but it will make you more rational and won't make you divorced from reality and go to the abyss of destruction. I am still the same sentence: the contented are always happy!
10, dissatisfaction is relative to contentment. There is no absolute satisfaction and dissatisfaction in the world. The two are often intertwined and complement each other. Whether content or not, it is a kind of life mentality. Contentment can make people serene, calm, open-minded, free and detached; Dissatisfaction can make people yearn for passion, struggle, forge ahead and climb.
1 1, the key to happiness is to have an optimistic attitude, and contentment is a fundamental requirement of contemporary people and contemporary society. In life, people always think about what they don't have and ignore what they already have. Usually, people's expectations of social leaders are higher than reality. Once they are dissatisfied, they will be full of complaints. When they see that others have the right to drive luxury cars and live in luxury houses with high salaries, they will be resentful.
12, help others when you are happy; Be content when you live a normal life; Learn to enjoy life in adversity. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, because it is not worth it; Don't punish others with your own mistakes, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; Don't punish yourself with your mistakes. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, just look for the reason carefully, learn a lesson and correct it!
13, happiness is to look down on worldly material troubles and not be greedy. If you like martial arts novels, you don't have to live up to a dream of red mansions; If the person you like suddenly disappears, you don't have to put all your eggs in one basket to assert that he must leave freely; If your friend is unlucky, you don't need to complain; If you think Maggie Cheung is gorgeous and beautiful, you don't have to be greedy and mistreat your wife. If you are exhausted, go to church and repent. There is no need to hate the mediocrity of others. Face your heart frankly, and happiness is in your heart.
14, "unsatisfied" is an unrealistic goal. Excessive desire will easily lead to mental stress and depression, even rebellious psychology, and behaviors that are contrary to law and discipline or ethics will be incompatible with building a "civilized society and harmonious society", which is not conducive to a peaceful life.
15, contentment-the boundary of a person's desire is not a bottomless pit, nor a "lion's mouth", but when he meets his own needs, he stops his desire, advances steadily, and keeps himself rational. Everyone's desire has a certain limit, although it is also their own bad habit, but it will not extend to the spiritual world indefinitely. Even the group of moths who are "greedy enough to swallow elephants" will not be unscrupulous forever, and there will always be a moment of "doing justice for heaven". And "moths" with their own greed buried in the dark abyss, "never turn over." In contrast, the result seems too obvious, but it is this that shows a kind of spiritual beauty: contentment is always happy.
16. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you don't always demand yourself, you will live freely. If you don't always find fault, it will be easier. If you live too tired, you will be miserable and satisfied!
17, whenever and wherever, I will learn to feel happy. Go to work instead of making money; To love, first forget all the bad things that others have done to you; Go dancing regardless of other people's attention; Don't think about whether it is beautiful when singing; Living in this world is like a paradise. If I want to do this, I will be happier than living in a real paradise.
18, people should be content with everything and nothing can be complicated. If the mental load is heavy, they will complain and worry about others. If you are simple, the world is simple for you. A simple life can bring a happy life. Delete your memory regularly and discard unpleasant people and things from your memory. Formatting yourself is deleting you. Zhang Ailing said: Because I have loved, I am merciful; Because you know, you are tolerant.
19, being able to become a ninja is a supplement and reinforcement to contentment, and the two sentences are combined to form a lofty spiritual realm. A sociologist said: "Benevolence, courtesy, wisdom and faith are the core of China's Confucianism. People, everything is studious, and the most difficult thing to learn is tolerance. " "Be patient and calm, and make the sky broad." A few years after the Cultural Revolution, a colloquial phrase "Long live understanding" was popular in the society, which was the application and development of the famous saying "Be content with contentment and endure yourself" in a specific situation.
20, contentment is always happy, you know it is not feasible. Dissatisfied people know what is feasible and will do it. If you insist on it knowing that it is not feasible, you will return in vain; If you don't do what you know is feasible, you will miss the opportunity. In real life, if a person can treat fame and fortune with contentment and career with dissatisfaction, contentment will become the auxiliary and bedding of dissatisfaction, and dissatisfaction will become the condensation of contentment, which is the sublimation of life realm.