Vanity is maximized
A woman is pursued by the opposite sex, first of all, her heart is happy. Whether this opposite sex is ordinary or better, it will make the woman feel a sense of confidence and fulfillment in herself. If the woman is surrounded by many women of her own age, and she is the only one who is chosen by other members of the opposite sex, then her inner vanity will be greatly satisfied. Will feel that they are better than other companions, everyone has their own vanity. Middle-aged and elderly women are no exception, and do not feel embarrassed, everyone has the right to pursue the right to be loved. Just in the pursuit of the process, appropriate to meet the vanity and self-confidence can be, do not go astray.
Mrs. Wu, 48 years old
Ms. Wu's hobby is square dancing, so she always learns new dances or rehearses different rhythms with a few women. Because they often dance in the center of the district, many people will watch. One day, Ms. Wu was approached by a man of the opposite sex. And this opposite sex also loves to dance, it is a similar interest. So Ms. Wu still has a little bit of pride in her heart, after all, among the many sisters, the opposite sex alone has a great affection for her. Even compared with other sisters, she felt self vanity has been satisfied to a certain extent. But due to her married status, she would also keep this mind inside. Just enjoying the feeling of being pursued, she will also maintain a certain distance.
Some of the heart should be
When a woman is pursued by the opposite sex, and the woman does not have any good feelings about the opposite sex, and the opposite sex itself is a common man. This can make a woman feel a little uncomfortable and even hate compartmentalization. A man of the opposite sex who is considered ordinary pursuing a woman who feels good about herself is destined to be full of dust. Because in a way, the woman feels that the opposite sex lowers her value. After all, she is very good, yet the suitor is really an average looking or poorly conditioned in every way. Women will feel that there is damage to their own image, so will certainly decisively reject, then in the heart of the surface to produce a very resistant to the mood.
Mrs. Gao, 53 years old, tall and cheerful.
Every time she is able to laugh, she has a positive attitude towards life. As a result, she was pursued by a quiet and reticent man of the opposite sex. But Ms. Gao instantly felt uncomfortable. First of all, the opposite sex and their own husbands compared to a far cry, and at the same time for this did not see the eyes of the opposite sex of the pursuit, Ms. Gao instead feel that the opposite sex in disrespect for their own, and even ruined their reputation. So she will decisively refuse, and let the opposite sex no longer have such a mind.
Women should be clean, and their relationships with men and women should be simple, and they shouldn't have any ambiguous relationships with other people after they get married
Ms. Lee is 48 years old.
I don't think the opposite sex has anything to do with me. I'm a married, middle-aged woman, and I'm responsible for my children and family. For other heterosexual pursuits, I generally ignore, also will let go. Because there is no relationship with me, there is no wave in my heart. I will only follow my own heart, do a good job as a person, other people's views have nothing to do with me, and will not have any psychological impact on me.
Only fear and no other thoughts
The 57-year-old Ms. He believes that when she was pursued by the opposite sex, she was only afraid and wanted to escape.
Ms. He believes that she is already an old person, not to mention a family man. If there is still a heterosexual who pursues himself out of love, she does not believe it. If the opposite sex really loves her, she should put herself in her shoes, because she is a married person. One's reputation and marriage were very important, so pursuing one's opposite sex in the name of love was nonsense. What's more, she was talentless and encountered some other pursuits that were nothing more than ill intentions. Ms. He does not want her family to misunderstand her because of the pursuit of herself by an unrelated person, thus affecting her happy marriage. She is even more afraid that the opposite sex has other purposes and approaches her with ulterior motives. The only one who will be harmed in the end is herself. Therefore, Ms. He is very afraid of being pursued by other unrelated people of the opposite sex.
Conclusion:
Married women in the face of the opposite sex of the entanglement, the most afraid of hot-headed, and to the man's sweet words convinced. Thus, the behavior of the border, more will make the rest of their reputation and marriage ruined, and ultimately the consequences are unimaginable, but also to get themselves a fishy. As a married woman, you should know the principle of being a human being and the guidelines for maintaining a marriage.