Because it's more in line with the normal growth process of a human being, in which different ideas are generated with psychological changes, and these ideas are then translated into practical actions. If we do the opposite of that at some point during this stage, a lot of problems will arise. In the lesser case, it will make one's life unsuccessful, and in the greater case, it may lead to the separation of one's wife and children.
Our growth process is divided into childhood, adolescence, youth, middle age and old age. If we don't do things according to our age, the following problems will occur;
Firstly, it will add trouble to ourselves and our relatives and friends
For example, if we fall in love when we shouldn't, we will make our parents suffer, our academic performance will drop, and we won't be able to get into the ideal university. And if you don't fall in love at an age when you should, your parents will be even more agonized, and you will be depressed inside when you watch others have wives and you don't.
Some women are supposed to impulsively and recklessly fall in love with someone in their youth, but in their youth she is sensible. But in the middle age and old age but a perverse, will have no reason to fall in love with a person capriciously, which invariably adds a lot of trouble to the family and friends. It's not right for people to persuade or not to persuade.
The things they do are not done at this age and will bring a lot of trouble to themselves and their family and friends.
Secondly, it will affect the existing stable life
In fact, many people's existing life is very stable, as long as they go along with the road, there will be no ups and downs. But they don't believe in it, and have to go through the motions at an age when they should be enjoying their twilight years. Some old people in the process of square dancing with someone else, he could have had a happy and fulfilling life in old age, but ended up getting a divorce.
And since the new partner doesn't really want to live with them, they usually end up losing their wife and children.
Thirdly, it will affect the future
Some middle-aged people should become calm and introverted after years, but they act impulsively like young people. As a result, they not only lost their careers, but also led to the breakup of their families.