The realization of any scam, the premise is that the scammer to be able to control the consciousness and behavior of the scammer, but also to allow the scammer to shield the external interference, single-mindedly implement the scammer's requirements. The "do not panic (according to the requirements of the scammer) to do plus find people" provided by Lao Du is to allow the scammer to get rid of the control of the scammer, and then use the external brain to poke its scam.
One
On the issue of being fooled, in fact, there are many places that can be explored, those are placed later, we find opportunities to explore, this issue we first talk about the most important issue, that is:
There is a way to make us once and for all no longer be fooled?
Lao Du can tell you for sure: there is.
What? Is it possible?
There are all sorts of ways for a scammer to do this, so how can there be one way to break all the scams?
An analogy is that there are many different viruses on the Internet, and there is no one technique or means to prevent all viruses. So how can there be a tried-and-true method of preventing all scams?
Once again, I'm sure there is.
Two
Also taking the case of the female graduate student who was cheated as an example, let's briefly recall that, according to Shandong Radio and Television, Xiaoliu in Qingdao received a call saying that Xiaoliu had opened a phone card in Beijing to help a chemical factory advertise its illegal propaganda, which was reported by the public, and so their side had received a notification request from the public security department to disconnect Xiaoliu from his home.
At first Xiaoliu didn't care, but immediately afterward she received a call from the public security bureau of Beijing's Daxing District, which said it had enough information to sentence her to 10 years in jail.
What surprised Xiao Liu was that, after a 114 telephone inquiry, the number was indeed the Beijing Municipal Daxing District Public Security Bureau's telephone.
Small Liu panicked at once, she rushed to cooperate with the requirements of the other side of the funds notarized, for a new bank card, and downloaded the other side of the specified software, open the computer, plug in the YouShield, and according to the requirements of the computer with a black cloth masked operation, before and after a **** to the card to deposit 1.18 million, "are borrowed from relatives and friends. "
Later Xiaoliu found that the money on the card is gone, only to remember to play that public security phone, was told that she was cheated.
Three
Analyzing the details of the above case we will find that the first three segments of the scammer's deception, Xiaoliu, although she had already believed the scammer, but there was no financial loss. It is only in the fourth paragraph that Xiao Liu began to have losses. In other words, if Xiaoliu did not act according to the scammer's request, there would be no actual financial loss.
So, we can think about the side of the deceived, as long as the deceived does not cooperate with the action, the more fancy trick, but also meaningless.
So why did Xiao Liu act according to the scammer's request?
Because she already believed the scammer. Specifically, it is the scammer who creates pressure on her to panic so that she acts exactly as the scammer asks her to. Since this is the case, we can do the opposite, by not panicking in the first place, and not acting on the scammer's request in the second place, and we won't have any actual financial loss, even if we already believe the scammer.
Trusting someone and doing what they ask are two different things, we all trust our parents and siblings, and good friends, but we don't always do what they ask.
Four
In the face of information that comes from an unknown source, the first not to panic, the second not to do what it asks, which makes the scam stop, the equivalent of pressing the pause button.
We'll often hit the pause button when we're catching up on a movie on the computer. What do we then do?
Do things that are unrelated to the normal progression of the show. We can make a phone call, go to the bathroom, swipe through Twitter, or even take a nap if we're too sleepy.
But the episode isn't aborted by the pause, it just stops for a while, and the episode can continue as soon as we come back to it.
It's the same in Deception.
Since Xiao Liu has trusted the scammer, she won't completely ignore it, and the scammer will continue to apply pressure by all means to force Xiao Liu to do what they want, so not panicking and not doing what they want is merely a pause, not a stop.
Five
Small Liu can't do nothing without doing what the scammers want. She has to do something on her own terms, which is to find someone - someone who can help her out of her predicament.
The most reliable and direct way is to find the police. Since the police in Beijing are looking for her, she will go to the police in her own city (Qingdao) and ask for advice on what to do about the problem she's having, a tactic that has a killer effect on almost all scams. The police will tell her 100% that it's a scam.
Some people say I wouldn't dare go to the police, what if they are looking for me and just arrest me?
Then you can also find someone else, but you have to find the kind of people who have social experience and ability, not the big moms who dance together, girlfriends or piggyback friends.
For example, Auntie Zhang and Auntie Li were listening to a health care company's health class, and Auntie Zhang, hesitant to shell out money for some of the miracle health care products being marketed, asked Auntie Li, "Do you think it will work?"
What would Mrs. Li say? Take a look at the picture below and brainstorm.
Six
Can't look for a piggyback, but someone who understands.
For the elderly, this understanding person is generally speaking children; for young people is a certain social experience of leaders, colleagues, elders. The standard of judgment is that you have always thought that he is socially competent and capable.
Find this person, tell him the truth about the problems you are experiencing, and ask for his advice.
To this point, it's most important to tell the truth, no lying, no swallowing.
As soon as you start looking for someone, basically all the scams will be exposed.
In fact, all the scams have a **** same characteristic, that is, the scammer needs to control the scammed person all the time, and even forbid the scammed person to hang up the phone. So, once the scammer stops acting on the scammer's request, the scam won't go on.
And when the person being scammed goes to someone for help, that person on the outside doesn't need to have a high IQ or social experience to figure out that it's actually a scam. Take a step back, and even if the person you turn to for help can't tell if it's a scam or not, he'll help you find someone or a way to be able to tell.
Seven
The realization of any scam requires the deep involvement of the person being scammed; and the deep involvement of the person being scammed presupposes that the scammer should be able to achieve complete control over the person being scammed, not only controlling the person being scammed's consciousness and behavior, but also letting the person being scammed block out external interference, and single-mindedly carrying out the scammer's requirements.
The "don't panic, don't (do what the scammer asks) + find someone" offered by Lao Du is to allow the scammed person to get rid of the scammer's control, and then use an external brain to poke holes in his scam.
From the earliest pre-liberation flower shooting, to the current network, telephone fraud, the world's scams have thousands of, but the general public can use this simple combination of punch to achieve the purpose of "a hundred cheats do not invade". After all, the money in your hands, you do not move, the money itself will not grow wings to fly to the cheater.
Eight
Before writing this article, Lao Du once took his method to a wise old man for advice.
The old man smiled and said, you say this method of yours is not complicated, I have a simpler one, when I get a strange phone call, no matter what the content is, I reply and say, wait a minute, I take a pen, write down your phone number, and at noon when my son comes back I'll ask him to call you.
The other person then hangs up the phone.
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