01Mother-in-law, 55 years old, addicted to "twilight love", son and daughter-in-law worried
Reader Li Yun consulted a lot of emotional bloggers, and even psychiatrists are not spared, just want to find an answer: how to make your mother-in-law give up twilight love?
Unfortunately, she has been tossing and turning for more than a year, asking netizens, bloggers and doctors.
Li Yun's mother-in-law is 55 years old, five years ago, his father-in-law died suddenly due to a heart attack, her mother-in-law rented out the old house, moved to her son's home, that is, Li Yun's home to live.
There is no major conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law is responsible for the daily laundry and cooking with the children, Li Yun two normal work, life is also well organized.
Just a year ago, Li Yun suddenly found that her mother-in-law went out every day after dinner, I do not know what to do, after a few inquiries, her mother-in-law said: "Dancing, with the neighbors next to the building together."
Since her mother-in-law said so, Li Yun did not suspect.
Waiting until one day, Li Yun suddenly thought of pulling the child downstairs to buy things, passing by the square dance place did not find the figure of the mother-in-law, looking for someone to ask about people found that people do not know her, only to realize that the original mother-in-law lied.
After that, the mother-in-law in the family's forced to confess that they are in love, the object is 10 years younger than themselves, more than 40 years old, middle-aged divorced, is a company boss, whether it is character or appearance, are very good.
After hearing this, Li Yun and her husband looked at each other in dismay, and none of them could have imagined that her mother-in-law would go out every day to date a man 10 years younger than herself.
"He's a man, he's really nice, and he doesn't mind my age, he likes mature ones and says I'm the best at my age." The mother-in-law was red-faced and clearly in love beyond her wildest dreams.
At the same time, Li Yun's husband rushed to contact his brother and sister who are working in the field, hoping that they can persuade together, so that her mother-in-law to return to the right path, do not fall deeper and deeper.
The mother-in-law was even more stubborn after the opposition: "What's the point? We are running to get married, you can't be so selfish as a son or daughter!"
02Really love each other? The mother-in-law voluntarily lent each other 200,000 to start a business, but also to buy a house and get married
Mother-in-law like a love-struck girl, total disregard for the objections of the family, and completely let go, not only limited to the evening date, the daytime tend not to be at home, and no longer from the home to cook, to do the household chores.
"Serving you all your life, I should find some freedom." The mother-in-law put it this way.
Li Yun said, "Mom, if you feel tired, you can not work, sit at home and do nothing, and no one will complain about you, but you suddenly do not care about anything, we are worried that you are cheated."
Mother-in-law slammed the table and snapped, "Being cheated of what, I'm the one who was cheated all my life by your heartless father-in-law, talking about white head to old age, but still left me alone and walked away, I want to be free now, you guys leave me alone."
People can't persuade each other, each other still have a bellyful of anger, do children's is not good to manage again.
Only when they found out that the mother-in-law's passbook was missing two hundred thousand, relatives from the hometown called to ask if they were going to sell the house, Li Yun two people just suddenly realized - this thing does not matter not work.
Mother-in-law lent the man 200,000 yuan, said the company's capital turnover is not working, her money to put is also put, it is better to take out the investment, but also can be divided into dividends.
Li Yun said, "Mom, you're confused, just trust a stranger's words, this is your pension money, how so impulsive?"
"I am impulsive? I've been to his company, how can it be fake. You guys haven't even seen the person and start slandering, you really don't have a good heart."
Li Yun was disliked speechless, her husband took over, "Mom, that old family house what do you mean, why sell?"
Mother-in-law nodded, barely showing a smile: "Sold to get married, mom is not a person without number, it is impossible to lead a strange man to live in your family, the old family house sold, I buy a set in your next neighborhood, close, and do not interfere with each other."
Obviously, my mother-in-law has already planned for the future, and it is useless to persuade her.
"Their own mother, what can be done, and can not be locked in the house to prevent her from going out, the big deal is that all hit the water, so that she ate some lessons." The children can only compromise and watch things unfold from the sidelines.
03Company moved out overnight, 200,000 hit the water
As expected, Li Yun's mother-in-law, deceived.
Just a month after Li Yun's search for ways to stop the twilight zone, her mother-in-law returned home as a frosty eggplant, she sat down on the floor and began to cry, crying, crying heartbroken, crying and chopped liver.
Mother-in-law said: "I have no contact with him for a few days, thinking of going to the company to find him, who knows the door is closed, into the can not enter, a inquire, said half a month earlier moved away."
Obviously, the other side is deliberately cheating money, cheating feelings after cheating money, and then fled, and can no longer find people.
The poor mother-in-law is old enough to think that she can get a caring person to spend the rest of her life, who knows that she has really been cheated.
When it comes to real life, the reliability of a twilight romance and its chances of success are indeed much smaller than a normal relationship, because there are age boundaries, life conflicts, and family members to get along with, among other difficulties.
For middle-aged divorced or widowed people, the most important thing is not to choose blindly, not to mention blind confidence.
Su Daqiang in "It's All Good" thought Cai Genhua really liked him and was ready to buy her a house and a car, but in the end he was told by his son, "What does she want from you at your age? Figure your age, figure you do not bathe?"
See, twilight love to bright eyes, especially when it comes to economic matters, to be more cautious is right, do not hit a basket of water, the last hurt or their own.
Today's topic: how do you see the twilight love?
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