We were separated after 38 years of comradeship party.
Eighteen years old when the army to the army, eat a pot of rice, the same training, the same study, strong comradeship, pro as brothers.
See the recruit squad leader, mixed feelings, tears like a spring, can not forget his concern for me and strict, so that I in the future of the military career step by step to retirement.
I can not forget the company commander, instructor, platoon leader of the rural youth of my favor, into the party, enrollment, promotion, all the way to the green light, did not go to go to the half relationship, the troops at that time, the real ethos.
As long as you do a good job, the honor is certainly yours. I miss the growing environment of the army at that time, and I miss the true love of comradeship at that time.
Hello, I am Maya, a military cadres, I am very pleased on this topic, to talk about their own views.
I don't know when, but there was a sudden spurt of comradeship gatherings in the civil society, which blossomed all over the place. For this kind of organized and undisciplined large-scale gathering of comrades, I personally do not agree, nor is it worth promoting.
I have personally rejected two gatherings of comrades in different names, and I don't think I'm superior to them, or I don't like them, or I don't fit in. I just feel that the vast majority of comradeship parties are only cloaked in the cloak of "reminiscence of comradeship", the reality of the "drink and bullshit", there is no need to participate in. This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a high level of skill, and I've never seen a person with a low level of skill, and I've never seen a person with a high level of skill, and I've never seen a person with a high level of skill, and I've never seen a person with a high level of skill, and I've never seen a person with a high level of skill.
The reason why I resisted this kind of "tasteless, non-nutritious" gathering of comrades is because of the following three reasons:
One of the reasons why the gathering of comrades has become a stage for a few people to show off their power and show off their wealth is because of the fact that it's not just for the sake of the comrades but also for the sake of the people. The first is that it is not a good idea to have a good time, but it is a good idea to have a good time, and it is a good idea to have a good time, and it is a good idea to have a good time, and it is a good idea to have a good time. At gatherings, there will always be a small number of so-called accomplished comrades who want to take this opportunity to satisfy their own vanity as successful people. If we must secularly label people as so-called successful people by "position" or "wealth", no matter how good or bad you are, there is no need for comrades to be ashamed of themselves or to look down on each other. There is no need to compare and contrast with each other, or to be cynical and hurtful to each other.
The second is that the gathering of comrades has become a utilitarian marketing meeting. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. After leaving the army, individuals are eager for quick success, always want to get rich overnight, and live an enviable life, driving a luxury car, living in a villa, embracing beautiful women. In this deviation from the normal track of values driven, this part of the people dare to take risks, engaged in some such as pyramid schemes and other wandering on the edge of the law. These people have a keen sense of smell and greed for unintended wealth, and naturally will not let go of such a good opportunity to accumulate contacts such as the gathering of comrades. After meeting and exchanging a few pleasantries, they will definitely ask to leave a phone number and add a WeChat, so that they can contact each other more often in the future. Drunkenness is not ah! The next thing you know, you'll be able to get your hands on a lot of things.
The third is that the gathering of comrades has evolved into the sandbox of eating and drinking and drinking. I'm not opposed to drinking, as the saying goes, no wine without a seat. The fact that the military people, in the minds of the people, are not intoxicated by a thousand cups of sea volume of bold people. As the saying goes, it is better to drink without getting drunk. Between comrades, a few drinks, moderate and stop, can play the purpose of enhancing the relationship. But most of the comrades gathering, but there is a discordant scene, the table is full of persuasion, fighting and other undesirable phenomena, after the table after a battle, the final is certainly a cup and plate in disarray, drunkenness, scandalous. Some people are drunk and unethical, nonsense, say something that should not be said, in turn, hurt the feelings of many years of comradeship.
To be honest, even if a company enlisted together with the same year soldiers, the heart of the common and how many people? "The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I think I'm going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. If you have the money and leisure time, in the premise of not disturbing their normal family life, you can visit each other, drink tea and wine, remember the bitter sweet, why not!
A family of words, inevitably biased, welcome to discuss the exchange of ideas below. The first Saturday of November every year is the day of our Huaiyin box comrades gathering. We are 86 years on November 9 from Huaiyin, to Fujian, to be an honorary engineers boat bridge warriors. During the time in the army, most of our comrades retired from active duty one after another, but there were also a few comrades who went to military school, and after so many years, there are no comrades in the army now. In our 37 comrades in arms, engaged in a variety of occupations, large to the director, small to small traders, workers, drivers, but every year, comrades in arms party actively enroll to participate in the party costs are AA system. We bragged together, chatting, talking about the year's work life, family situation, there is no distinction between high and low, and have a good time. Comrades party to go through twelve years, it is worth celebrating: 37 comrades did not "fall out", here, I would like to wish all comrades work well, happy family! There is no point, is to show, if the national conscription touched together that is exciting, and to life and death and ****, a few days ago, a 70-year-old soldier told me that the recent provinces came more than seventy comrades per person out of 500 yuan, in Jiujiang, Mount Lushan and other places to play for 7 days, he was tired of the arrangements every day, annoyed by all the annoying deaths. In the future do not engage in such a rally, I said or our 68 soldiers good, 70 years out of the army no Internet, no cell phone, no phone, no contact with each other, not so much, are about seventy people, can not stand. But the original comrades in arms true love forever! Pipe association does not contact to remember, together when the soldiers are always comrades! I wish all my former comrades in arms good health and a long and happy life! August 1 is approaching, the war party has become a hot topic, borrowing the subject of the topic of reference. One day comrades, lifelong brothers, appropriate gathering can not be disputed. But the old comrades, after all, years of absence, the body and other aspects of the great changes, many aspects of the tendency to be more than enough and not enough, a little inadvertent often regret life. Participants in the gathering of comrades in arms, most of them are happy, but the organization of eating, living, traveling, playing and so on is very complicated, the activities should be small, not big, should be fine, not abusive, cross-political, across the original unit of the hilarious type of gathering should think twice. Conclusion: the elderly with age, resistance and immune function decreases year by year, in the new crown epidemic has not been lifted, all the parties are unnecessary adventure, take care of the unique body, is the best treasure of family and friendship. Is it okay for comrades to refer to, welcome to exchange, thank you! Comrades gathering, just stick a label, valuing the mood of comradeship excited, there is no matter, did not get together especially longing for the excitement of the thousands of miles to get together, get together once faded once, get together to recall the years when the military is very little time, some of the long time have a faded look forward to, the topic of the hustle and bustle, flaunt and then show off, to be honest, the group to know the gathering of the friends of the war, it must be an influential friend of the war, have a social status, live! Not as good as expected, contact information are not, and no comrades care, but there are as a strength of the comrades contact information are known, I have been in the conscript company of a comrade-in-arms, to visit the home, go away without paying attention to said: have time to my home to see, in the middle of the winter, but did not think that the comrade-in-arms in the winter in December because I do not know the way to go, take the train ahead of the station under the train, the snow and the wind night to walk a hundred miles of snowy road in the middle of the night, all the way to find my home in the middle of the night, I asked, but unfortunately no one at home, but also no one. Unfortunately, no one at home, did not see, had to live in the neighbor's house for the night, hungry and freezing, new shoes are open-mouthed, this comrade-in-arms is the true feelings sincere, demobilized for 26 years, he never participated in the comrade-in-arms party, feel not much fun, the table of falsehoods, brotherhood and brotherly love, pretending, I invited him several times did not participate in the time I was very incomprehensible, but a few years earlier I often participate in the comrade-in-arms meeting, there were various situations, slowly understand him. The situation, slowly also understand him, comradeship love brotherhood love is not necessarily party love deeper, this love always deep in the heart. (That is the old guardhouse that used to stand guard) I was a soldier in 1977, and I have been discharged from the army for 43 years, during which there have been 2 large-scale gatherings of comrades. Categorized by point of view, small-scale gathering 6 times, two large gatherings basic harmony. Comradeship, especially in the era we were in the interaction than now pay more attention to love, we served during the period also happened to catch China's counterattack in self-defense against Vietnam, because we are the Air Force, did not participate in the war, but it is also very tense, the battalion radio station on duty 24 hours a day, the value of the aircraft timed takeoffs and landings. Also close to the state of war, all actions than the previous tense, serious a lot. During the period, combat emergency assembly increased once a week, sentries on duty standing guard bullets must be on the hall just off the insurance, change of guard, the next soldier bullet retired from the hall to check the gun and then leave the post. Our party comrades had basically a unit, only a few comrades in the recruiting company after the end of the training directly assigned to a department of the military region, every comrades party agreed to a night before the time is basically a reminiscence of the people are now more than 60 years old, our company commander, platoon leader have passed away, all of the friends are alive and well, discharged due to the Beijing soldiers, Beijing, after the return to the work arranged! All of them are alive and well. Due to the age of everyone to meet is to remember the year, the days are over, but also to live a good life in old age, our current slogan, comrades in arms, see one less than one. Less than 99 who do not want to go! Friends of war how can not meet, what do you mean by eating and drinking. When the military three years, ten years have not seen, eat to spend your money, a look you have not been a soldier. China has 57 million veterans, but also the country's valuable wealth. People who have served in the military, gave their youth to the country, but also did their due diligence, which is called a complete person. I hate those people who say that those who have served in the military are stupid. Without soldiers, we would have a happy life now. An outsider, you are not qualified to comment on the military. The war party, the momentum of recent years more and more intense, generally have this trilogy: party blessing, visit memories, slogans and songs. I support a healthy and happy gathering of comrades once a year or once every 3-5 years: to remember the past, to show the future, and to deepen feelings. I'm against the tasteless and vulgar gatherings. Our company is the company that has been honored with the second-class merit for three consecutive years, and the company that has been awarded the first-class merit by the Liaoning Provincial Government. Harmony and unity among comrades, company cohesion, fighting force is very strong, the brigade battalion organized a variety of competitions, contests, competitions are basically between the first and second. More than two decades later, comrades in Dalian, organized a company party, from all over the country to more than a hundred comrades, we are particularly excited, visited the company, played the scenery, taste the farm cuisine, shouted slogans and walked in formation, sang the company's song, but also climbed the Tongniu Ridge, the two-night banquet in the dance and song accompanied by the climax is a wave and a wave, a wave more than a wave of strong! ... This party, the feelings between our comrades, especially on the year the company's feelings have been further deepened. From this party, so that I love our company comrades, but also more love the company fought in the past, the connotation of the past passionate years in the party has been further sublimated: fitness, happy, sunshine, upward ... Comrades to see the comrades, that is, to drink a lot of wine! In the side of the circle of friends seems to have been in the military are quite able to drink, in fact, there is not much to drink, gossip, about the comrades gathering, around me is like this: First, "comrades comrades, pro as brothers", comrades gathering, gathering is the feelings, is to recall the years of the military, with the age of the growth of the veteran separated from the Time is getting longer and longer, want to once together with the gun brothers get together or quite difficult. The general organization of the party will notify you a month in advance of the party time, location, cost plan, activities, etc. In fact, to really get everyone together, it is very difficult to get them together. In fact, it is very difficult to get everyone together, because there are always a variety of unforeseen circumstances that lead to absence. Second, after the gathering of comrades, it is just to eat, drink and play, talk about life, talk about ideals, to the age of marriage, ask the girlfriend to implement it, no girlfriend, we help to think of ways to set up a married, talk about married life, the exchange of experience, there are children, talk about child-rearing methods, etc. But these are not the most important thing, they are not the most important thing. However, these are not the most important links, the good news is still in the beginning! Third, with the depth of the party, the more the wine more drink, some people began to speak more, some tongue began to knot, the party climax slowly came, this time usually do some things in the army often do, sing together, together with the ridicule of groove points of comrades, or together with the memories of when the soldiers do silly things, to get to the end is always drunk into a pile, as if back to the hot barracks, back to that! The first thing you need to do is to get a good look at the actual situation, and then you'll be able to see what's going on! Finally, I think the war party is much more innocent than the ordinary classmates reunion, in the party, there is no boss, no leadership, there is just a class, platoon, company, or even a regiment together with the brothers of birth and death! After the discharge, people have their own aspirations, the road is not the same, but I always believe that all roads lead to Rome, as long as you do not give up the spirit of perseverance when the military, will always be successful!