Every step of a child's growth is inseparable from the careful care and teaching of his parents. When I was a child, I cared about my child's physical growth, took care of my child's life, and ensured that my child could eat, drink and be healthy.
After going to school, the focus of attention gradually shifted, starting from caring about physical growth to paying attention to learning cultural knowledge and cultivating the competitiveness of learning. Urge children to study hard, make progress every day and learn all subjects well. Go to a good junior high school, a good high school and an ideal university. This is the good wish of every parent.
I am glad that my children have lived up to expectations and let my parents realize this wish. It's not a famous brand, but I'm satisfied. I remember my son once said: I was admitted to the university. Aren't you always proud? I said, yes, son, you can go to college. My parents are really proud and happy, but what makes us happy is that you will have a bright future.
Parents are really happy when their children are admitted to college, but are parents just trying to save face for themselves? The child doesn't know, and the parents are more gratified that the child has changed the trajectory of life since then. For ordinary families, going to college is the only way for children to live an upper-middle class life. If you want to change your life, have a better development prospect and have an ideal working life, you have to study hard and get into a good university. This is a stepping stone for children to get out of the narrow world and run towards a better future.
For the sake of children's study and life, how much effort parents have made, and they have no worries about food and clothing. This is the best treatment in the family. They work hard, work hard, manage their lives, and only study for their children.
It is the most worry-free years for parents to send their children to college. When children are older, there is no need to worry about traveling, studying and staying at school. The only warning is to make friends carefully and stay away from classmates with bad morals.
As soon as I graduated from college, I began to worry about my children's work. But then I found out that anxiety is asking for trouble and can't help at all. At that time, parents who advised their children were out of date and didn't understand anything. It's time for the children to be independent
After the brutal job-hunting competition, the children understand the parents' good intentions of forcing them to study in those years, and understand their parents' wishes and original intentions of wanting their children to be admitted to the university. At this time, my son finally said a completely enlightened sentence: I know that it is so important to find a job education, so I took the 985 postgraduate exam at that time. Son, how could I have known earlier? The point is, I don't know anymore Is it still useful to regret at this time?
I should have breathed a sigh of relief when I went to work, but then I began to think about the children's life events. House, car, marriage, this is a real event, which is related to the happiness of children for a lifetime. Happiness is based on a certain economic foundation. Without a certain economic strength, it will have a certain impact on the basic point of children's lives.
After the children get married, they take the initiative to take on the burden of a family nanny, such as an out-and-out family nanny, clothing, food, housing and transportation, and taking care of grandchildren. They are typical parents in China, with endless hearts, endless work and endless tiredness. This is life, this is family happiness, tired and happy.
In this life, people live with their children and parents. What's the point of living without worrying about children and taking care of parents? Life itself is full of sweet, sour, bitter, salty and colorful flavors. Although there is toil, fatigue, distress and anxiety, how much fun do we get from it?
Caring for children, filial piety to parents, inheriting good moral character, let children fasten the first button of life, move towards a better future, let parents enjoy their old age, live a harmonious and beautiful life, and don't waste this life.