To tell the truth, my relationship with my mother-in-law has always been lukewarm. My mother-in-law is very thoughtful and good at acting. She never says anything directly, but she always beats around the bush. She always does the same thing in front of her husband, and when he is away, it makes me very disgusted. Mother-in-law follows the fashion, and WeChat often sends friends' circle, all of which are photos of her going hiking and picnicking with friends. Just the day before yesterday, my mother-in-law suddenly called her husband and said that she had broken her leg.
Nothing serious. My mother-in-law tripped over a branch in the community when she came back from shopping. My father-in-law accompanied her to the hospital for filming. She has a slight fracture and a muscle strain. Just go home and raise it for a month If it was anyone else, I would go home and rest directly, but my mother-in-law refused to live or die, just lying in bed pretending to be paralyzed. She specifically asked me to ask for leave to take care of her.
I went to see her yesterday, nothing happened. I was lying there, playing with my mobile phone with a red face. I asked my grandfather to take me to bed. When he saw me coming, he got up and took my hand and said piteously, "Daughter-in-law, I can't move my legs. Please take a month off to take care of me. " Hehe, it's really easy to say. I just got promoted not long ago. Besides, which unit can allow employees to take a month off?
I directly replied to her, "That's impossible. The unit won't allow me to take a month off." My mother-in-law rolled her eyes and said, "Then resign. When my leg is healed, you can find another job. " I was very angry after listening to it. I quit? Why? "I resigned, mortgage you still? Do you pay tuition for your children? I am now more than 8 thousand in January, and your son is 5 thousand in January. Who do you think is more suitable to resign? "
Mother-in-law didn't speak, and her things were put down. My manners arrived and I left after a while. Whether to take care of my mother-in-law or not is not a question of salary at all. I think my in-laws looked down on me a little when my husband and I got married, because the matchmaker introduced her husband to the daughter of their village director's family. At that time, my husband and I had a good relationship, and my husband said nothing. My in-laws scolded her husband for this for many years.
Especially my mother-in-law, when I mentioned this, I said that if you went to the daughter of the village director's house, you would struggle less for many years. Until I got married and got pregnant, my mother-in-law basically ignored us. After giving birth to a daughter, my parents-in-law don't like making girl films, and they are even more alienated from us.
Fortunately, my husband has been very kind to me these years. We bought a small apartment in the city by our own efforts, and now life is getting better and better. Since the beginning of this year, I have worked hard and been promoted to deputy director of the department with a monthly salary of over 8,000 yuan. Husband is a civil servant, his salary is not high, but his welfare is good, and his children are lively and lovely. This is the marriage life I yearn for.
I refused my mother-in-law's request, but she refused anyway. Later, her husband called her and said to her, "Mom, my wife's monthly salary is much higher than mine. Why don't I resign and serve you? " I don't know what my mother-in-law said there, and I haven't called since.
I'm glad I didn't marry the wrong person. No matter what the economic conditions are and how the family objects, my husband has always protected my daughter and me. I married love.